Do you think it's okay that I refuse to help women?

[tunoo]

Today a woman couldn't get her motorcycle out of the parking lot, she asked me for help, and I refused, I told her "gender equality, be a man."

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I do not help women as I support gender equality.

[whirled_up_girl]

So that means you wouldn't help a man either, so you ae being equal by not helping either man or women. Unless your saying that she should learn to fix her own motorcycle.

Ya know I'd love to fix my own car. Even the simple stuff, I already know how to jump it, fill the tires with air, replace the washer fluid and coolant etc. but I'd love. it for someone to show me how to change a tire, change the oil, replace the starter etc. If someone wants to show me how to do more stuff since I wasn't a boy and didn't learn those things from my father I would love that. I could really get behind this gender equality thing 😊

[CrimsonAngel09]

Well in that case if a family member of yours dies, don't get mad when someone says: "Don't cry, be a man."

[lightbulb27]

it's ok, it's your life... as bon jovi yelled at us...

it puts you into the "jerk" zone, just say no, ask someone else.

and I've had help from others including two burly dudes help get my car out of a situation.

As an old movie says "Lighten up francis"...

https://www.youtube.com/embed/-ICMg8GV7Zs

[DaBiggestBird]

That would have been fine if she started harassing you just for being a man but that was kind of petty and you were a Butthole for real. Like Bumblebee when he threw a temper tantrum after someone on a projector said their pink version of him was better in Transformers: Age of Extinction.

[HelpfulWoman]

Eh, you don't have to help.
But your "reason" of just being a sexist "overcompensating" dick is not okay. You're using any situation to push your agenda of disliking equality.

[tunoo]

I like equality of sexes, that's why I didn't help her.

[HelpfulWoman]

You can like equality of sexes and still help if someone's asks you to. Asking for help doesn't have anything to do with your genitals. So my point stands.

[Djaay]

Perpetuating a feministic clause, of equality is sexist to start with. Equality ( Same authority as a man , so women don't have to listen to man ) and then she all of a sudden needs a man's help. Look at how mad that made you and now of course he's an overcompensating dick according to you for refusing to be a useful utility slave of sexism.

[HelpfulWoman]

@Djaay annnnd you're busy making this an issue for a reason thats irrelevant.
Let me make it clear, he's not a dick because he refused to help. He's a dick because he decided that her vagina is what made him not help. I doubt the woman in question gave a fuck about the genitals of the person she asked for help, and that if it was anyone else there and not the asker, she'd have still asked for help.
Please sit down before you fall down, because frankly you're aiming for gold in over reaching and jumping to conclusions. Rather than actually reading.

[4ngelic]

you can refuse to help anyone but its kinda rude in this situation (even if it was a guy instead of a woman). adding the whole gender equality thing is weird though

[ronaldo75]

I've asked women to jump my car battery. Was told to "get a man". Was she also weird about gender?

[SaoirseS]

Yes, and it’s also ok to say you don’t have the strength or know how to help.

[JackCarter]

I personally think that was rude assuming she didn't do anything wrong to you in the past or something
But at the end of the day it's upto you

[BoopBoopBeep]

So if a guy had asked you wouldn't have helped? That doesn't make you pro gender equality that just means you're a jerk to everybody.

[Bricealan]

If I can, I usually try to help ANYONE, regardless of sex, when they need help. What can that hurt?

[ProbablyClueless]

If you don't want to help people, you don't have to. You don't owe people a duty to assist them.

[boggboss]

Sure it's OK to refuse help why do u feel the need to ask

[OddBeMe]

Do what you want. Just makes you an ass. It’s not gender issues. I would have trouble parking a bike because I’ve never ridden one.

And why is “be a man” equality?

[Marklaw12]

Yes and no.

Yes, if you've got it covered.
No, a woman trying to help you might mean she has interest in you cos it's rare for women to offer a helping hand.

[Mahitoo]

You don't need to do all that. Just walk by and leave it alone or just pretend you don't hear.

[catarecute]

lgbt would be proud of you

[exitseven]

Geez, you are such a jerk for doing that

[DarkLegacy]

Well done to you

[MissBoogus]

Not ok but do what you want

[Anonymous]

Nice. 👍

Bros before ho’s.

[msc545]

Its fine - women won't help you, so...

[ronaldo75]

You did nothing wrong.

[Djaay]

Today's woman, the modern woman... YES

[gorydetails]

are you a virgin?

[jimmy2]

That kinda cold