I hear so many women on gag talk about how they want a man who can protect her, but I'm more attracted to independent women who can take care of themselves and pay their own bills. I feel like my job is to protect my child not some grown ass woman.
I don't mind filling the masculine role and being the provider and protector, as long as she is willing to fill the feminine role. Unfortunately, there are very few women anymore who are willing to do that.
Exactly so why do we have to fill traditional roles for them. We get nothing in return.
@DoctorSex
Excuse me Doctor, where did you get your PHD, the whore house?
@DoctorSex
I guess that's how she got HIV and died. Thanks a lot Doctor death.
@suzzieQ
Doctor Death didn't want to be part of this conversation from the start, (Too intense for him) but now he's chiming in and clogging up my notifications.
@suzzieQ
I'm too tired to go back and forth with him especially when I don't even know what we're talking about anymore. When my questions get featured I get overwhelmed.
I'm glad that you and I ended up best friends now.
"Modern" women want traditional men, but have nothing but sex to offer.
@suzzieQ
You should've agreed with me a long time ago then, I'm full of good points.
I guess we're back to being enemies.
@suzzieQ
Suzzie Q, you're a sexist moron.
@suzzieQ
Oh, how many accounts do you have you weirdo? You're also pretending to be an underage girl on one I see.
Of course I would perform CPR, but that's different than some useless woman acting like I'm her bodyguard.
You have no fucking valid points, you're just a waste of my time at this point.
Goodbye loser.
In 2022 you don't owe women shit.
But you owe the person you are in a committed relationship things.
@Subarugirl ONLY if she is as committed as the man is. If it's the classic 90/10 relationship, she can protect he self.
@KrakenAttackin
Yup. That conversation you had with Coach Low-T confirms it. He's a complete fucking simp. Any man who would throw another man under the bus to protect a random asshole of a woman who does things like paternity fraud, is no man worth respecting. "Get a good attorney." Who the FUCK says this? That's the male equivalent of "she was asking for it." I'd bet dollars on it that he's also "Team Amber," too. Jesus... Men can be depressed and suicidal and you'll still have fucking male feminist chodes like that saying the most terrible shit.
I'm commenting this on your own thread, so I don't have to deal with that feminist bitch. Society in general doesn't care about men, and never have. Once women stop caring about men, those obligations to "protect or look after them" are no longer obligations. It takes a man of sound mind and body to do that. And well... Who in this society is still of sound mind and body besides the wealthy? If they even count.
Like I said on my own post, this is a symptom of the collapse of Western civilization, as we know it. When every would-be wife is now an internet whore or a lesbian, men have no family to look forward to starting, assuming they're even "good enough" for so many of today's entitled, shitty women. Which leads to men opting out of dating, so they can at least salvage some personal happiness, instead of being a house slave. Which leads to the 2020s we have today.
TL;DR: Society is broken. That's why we have men like OP asking questions like this. No one wants this society, but this is what we're living in right now.
Sorry for "talking" your ear off.
@MCheetah Spot on correct.
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Yes, it is bad - most men are naturally stronger than women but even if he's not, there has to be that desire or willingness to try and protect you. I would try and protect him, not because I am filling any gender role, but because I liked/loved him and wouldn't want him to be harmed. I wouldn't send him down alone to check on an intruder, I would follow him down with a bat too! I don't care about gender roles, I would do what I would normally do but whether it's paying for a meal, being protective, it's attractive. I don't need his money or protection necessarily but it's nice to know he's offered or tried. Just like a man would appreciate it that you had his back/offered/tried or actually paid for a meal. It's called a healthy relationship - I think you just need to meet the kind of woman who brings it out in you. I can't imagine you are going to be like this with all women otherwise you're going to be miserable and make her miserable. That said, not all women deserve this kind of man, not if they do not offer the same energy in return.
I appreciate the part about you wanting to be by his side, but I only respect the part about him paying for meals and being your protector being attractive, you should know that those are gender roles, and I'm sure a lot of men would find her cooking and cleaning to be attractive as well. Are you willing to do those things?
Of course, why would I not? I like a clean house and I want to eat home cooked meals, whilst it would be nice if he chipped in and cooked occasionally, I would expect to be doing most of it. If he's already tidy then I would clean up and expect him to be the same and not create a mess for me to clean up. If you like/love someone you buy things for them, you cook for them, clean up after them sometimes, you try and look after them if they are ill - surely you had this with the women you have been with?
Yes absolutely.
Loving and caring for each other should be a two way deal and I agree with your mindset.
It is a two way deal and if one of you doing your share and she isn't it, then I don't blame you for not wanting to bother doing what's expected of you. Some women want all the advantages of being a man and a woman but none of the things they don't like - forget that.
I appreciate your honest answer, thank you.
Find yourself a woman who is willing to jump into a fight to pull you out, and you will realise how wrong you are.
When you love someone, you will do anything to protect him/her. Period.
I would try my best to get my lady out of a bad situation, instead of trying to "shield" her. No point in me trying to be macho and ending up getting injured anyway. And I would expect the exact same from her when I am in a pickle.
There was a car accident a few months ago here. Burning wreck, but the driver's girlfriend sustained burns over 80% of her body trying to pull him out. I also heard of a woman who wrapped herself around her boyfriend's head in a fight so he would not sustain any neck and brain injuries. That is the kind of love you should have in any relationship. Selfless love. Willing to do anything to save/protect your partner.
Any good person wants to provide for their partner. It is an expression of love. It could come in the form of providing a clean home. Or paying the bills. Or making dinner. Providing for someone is a must-have in any relationship.
And to all the ladies saying that they expect their man to defend them without having the same expectation for themselves, two is always better than one. Home intruder? Get down there with your husband, frying pan in hand. Situation at a bar? Grab a few men and a broken beer bottle, get them to help you get your man away from danger. Nobody is asking you to be a good fighter, but you should also live up to your own expectations and be there with your man if the situation arises. He will will appreciate it.
A lot of it is more the idea than the reality of like, being attacked every day or even ever being attacked, however I will say, if I am ever attacked by anything or anyone, I will be running or otherwise trying to get away and I will expect him to defend me. If we ever hear a suspicious noise in the apartment at night I am not checking, he is checking. Nobody has to agree to do that but nobody has to date any particular person either and I would not date a guy who is not OK with that. JMO!
I choose to live separately.
You should call 911 when you have an emergency.
Think it through in a realistic way. Let's say we are in bed at night and I hear something weird downstairs that makes me think it is possible somebody is in the house. Probably that is not what is going on but maybe.
So let's say I go check myself. Most likely I don't find anything dangerous but if there IS somebody in the house something really bad happens (you can fill in the blanks about what might happen to me in this situation).
Let's say I call 911, they show up in 10 minutes and I have to meet them at the door which means walking right through where somebody MIGHT be and they check and find nothing and I get in trouble for an unnecessary 911 call, OR, there is somebody there and if I survive 10 minutes until police arrive and manage to get to the door safely and am not grabbed as a hostage or something the police come in and arrest him and everything is OK but, notice how many times I used the word "if"!
Let's say I send my fiance down to check, he prob. comes back up and tells me he didn't find anything and we can go back to sleep or if there IS somebody hopefully he scares them off and they run away or at least he can possibly fight them and then I call 911.
Which option do you choose?
Oh my goodness how do any single women ever survive living on their own?
First off, you aren't going to get in trouble for calling the police if you feel legitimately threatened or scared for your life, they also work for you and it's their job to respond, or what are they good for?
Secondly, if there was an intruder he's gonna shoot your fiance in the head because he was stupid enough to go downstairs thinking he's Jean Claude Van Damme rather than locking the bedroom, calling 911, and climbing out the damn window.
In conclusion, I would protect my wife if I love her, but if she's the kind of sexist person who thinks it's my job, she better be cooking and cleaning and fulfilling her outdated gender roles as well.
Most of the time noises are not anybody breaking in, so far it has never been somebody breaking in where I have lived. Sometimes you never figure out what the noise was, sometimes it is something random like something that you left sitting unbalanced slowly shifted and finally fell over, or maybe it's some device making a noise or whatever, so I am supposed to call 911 for that, and as far as him thinking he is Jean Clade Van Damme again we are talking about a situation that is PROBABLY nothing just making sure, but if it IS somebody, I mean do you think all burglars are supervillains out to kill people, they would prob. rather run than deal with any conflict, that said if there was any kind of fight the risk is just a lot higher for me. And you keep saying this is the ONLY purpose for men or something, who other than you has said that, it is just something that makes sense if you are in a relationship and one of you is 180 pounds and can lift three times as much weight and v. few people would want to rape, and the other one of you is 125 pounds and can lift one third as much weight and a lot of people would want to rape, this conversation is getting like, I don't want to be argumentative but surely you realize most of what I am saying? It is pretty obvious stuff.
I was married a long time and unloke your delusions we actually did have junkies trying to get into our place at night, and yes, they would've tried to kill me because they were fucked up on drugs like most people who do home invasions. The difference in my situation is that my wife never expected me to protect her, and we were both similar in size, but I did it anyway because we loved each other and she didn't choose me to be her bodyguard. Women who have these preconcieved standards of choosing her partner based on his ability to protect are disrespectful to men in my opinion and need to treat men better before they deserve us to put our lives on the line for them.
You did it anyway and were not shot in the head, are you Jean Claude Van Damme? jk!
What you just described is EXACTLY what I have been trying to tell you! Except for this factor you keep bringing in about you thinking we, I don't know, make guys fill out an application that includes swearing to be our bodyguards and the only reason we date is so they will be our bodyguards, it is JUST AS SIMPLE AS IT MAKES SENSE for the guy to protect the girl in many (not all) relationships and situations. Even if you were about the same size you were probably still less likely to get clobbered in a fight and less likely to be raped, that is all!
I would protect her, but for you I would run away.
I don't like your sexist, entitled attitude.
Well I am just curious how you managed to protect her since burglars are supervillains who will shoot you in the head, I mean that is not true but it's something you said earlier just to argue with something I said. I also am curious why you would protect her but find me sexist and entitled when as far as I can tell from your story, she and I have the exact same opinion about this topic you just were with her irl and are talking to me on this web site, but both of us (and nearly all humans) think it makes sense for the guy to protect the girl from physical dangers like intruders. Actually don't worry about answering I am kind of bored of posting the same super obvious stuff over and over, I think you are upset about something in your life and I hope that gets better but as far as this debate, it's not really interesting at this point you can just say the same thing a few more times.
Sure run away.
Listen, Two junkies were trying to kick our front door in. I was waiting for them and my wife came to the kitchen to help because she isn't a sexist coward like you. I told her that someone should go stay with the baby. They didn't get in BECAUSE SHE CALLED THE POLICE.
The end.
Feminism Has Liberated Men by insisting that women are physically equal to men and do not need men.
So men have taken that to mean that they no longer have to marry, they can take jobs that give them just enough earnings to be comfortable,
By not having to support a family, to not do killing amounts of overtime working more hours than living,
Not having take on debt through mortgages,
They can now pursue any hobby,
Just be a bachelor and interacting or not with women as the mood takes them.
Well done feminists you created this and you are now learning about the law of unintended consequences.
For 60 years the female collective has screetched hate at us, told us that we were not needed or wanted and said that they wanted us dead (#KillAllMen).
The female collective lobbied successfully to have laws reframed, so that men were destroyed in divorce courts and denied natural justice.
The legal situation has been made so dire for men that it has become too dangerous to say “good morning” to a female, or to be anywhere in the vicinity of a female without CCTV or similar that can be used as evidence after a false allegation has been made.
Why would any sane man be interested in protecting or providing for members of the female collective?
When someone says that they hate you and want you dead, believe them.
People protect who they love. If you really love someone, you will want to protect them. In a healthy relationship both parties will have each other's back, that doesn't mean being their caretaker, but it does mean that you are there to support them when they need it.
I agree with you. I like the concept of two people who love each other so much that they would die for one another, or even better yet, not put each other in harm's way to begin with.
I don't the idea of being pre-judged as a good enough "Protector" by some women who are fine with presenting themselves as helpless. I need a woman with more to offer than that outdated sexist mindset of me having a duty to protect her only.
Well then don't peruse those kinds of women. There are plenty of men who take pride in defending those who are more physically vulnerable which isn't a sexist mindset just a biological fact. Men are women's only natural predator, and in general are at a significant physical disadvantage when it comes to strength. It's only natural for people to want to feel safe with their significant other, and having the security of know that if push comes to shove, they will go to bat for you if necessary.
So if a man's job is to protect a woman because she's biologically inferior, what's her job in the relationship?
I would also appreciate if she would protect me by not giving random people the middle finger in traffic, or mouthing off to random men in public because he cut in line, or arguing with drunk guys in bars because more often than not these are the kinds of "Dangerous situations" that women have gotten me into and expected me to fight some guy to the death because she can't
stop running her mouth.
Other women should also understand that a man is more than just some big dummy to use as a bodyguard, and we deserve to be protected and treated as human beings as well.
Here's the key... have you ever been asked if you want to accept the rights and responsibilities of your gender role?
Because if that's a role you're forced into, then it's not a healthy one. That's something that you yourself need to decide if you want to consent to that. Regressing to gaining the protects of a child and all that isn't an option, but whether or not you choose to accept the pros and cons of being a man is.
I don’t think the whole idea of protecting women is meant to be taken literally. It’s not like there are lots of people wielding swords (*guns) on the streets threatening women on the daily.
It’s more for the sentiment of having your partner’s back and supporting them. Not necessarily financially as women are basically on par with men in terms of employment rates.
Some of them here specifically mention that he has to wrap his big strong arms around her and it makes her feel safe. They like to feel protected.
I could see if that statement was from my child or something when she's had a bad dream or needs a hug after something scared her.
When we're talking about adult women I would appreciate if she said that she wants to be in a relationship where you take care of each other, not just this one-sided theme I see here.
Well I think a lot of this is based on instinct that goes back thousands or millions of years, it is not like I am literally attacked by people or, I don't know wolves or whatever on a daily basis, but if I AM attacked I expect him to protect me, and psychologically it does make me feel safe for him to be there or to put his arm around me like you mentioned.
I help and support him also but, I am not the ideal person to fight a mugger off or (staying w the example from earlier) fight a wolf, in a desperate situation I would try to help but fighting is not really my greatest ability!! For a more realistic example if we were at a bar and a drunk guy picked a fight w my fiance I would get away from the drunk guy and then try to get help or security or police I would not go fight the drunk guy, vs if a drunk guy picked a fight w me I would try to get behind my fiance and expect him to do what he had to do to keep me safe including fighting.
@ShellyB
What if you were drunk and picked the fight? Then your man still has to deal with it.
@ShellyB
Great, some help.
This old-fashioned sexist "Protector stuff" is just one more reason that being in a relationship is more hassle than staying single and having "Friends".
@suzzieQ
They should use their phones to call the police, they're paid to protect her.
If she can survive as a single woman she should be able to choose a partner without just objectifying him as a potential bodyguard.
It is not an "only" thing like the only reason you date somebody is to have a bodyguard, however that is one of the things about being in a relationship that you have diff. strengths and weaknesses and diff. abilities and you share those abilities so you are both better off, in this case we are focusing on one particular thing (protection from attackers or the psychology of feeling physically protected) but a good relationship is v. mutual, I do lots of things for him it just isn't fighting anybody or making him feel safe bc I am willing to fight anybody.
I have babysat 12 year olds who I am pretty sure could beat me up I am not who you want as a bodyguard lol.
@ShellyB
I don't want a bodyguard, if I needed one I would hire an actual bodyguard and pay that person for their services. That's my point, your partner doesn't work for you, and just like I don't expect a woman to clean up after me like a maid, I also don't feel like she has the right to judge me on my ability as her "Protector."
Well that is fine you can have whatever relationship you and somebody else want or agree to or not have a relationship if that is your preference, we are just saying that wanting to feel protected is super normal and common for women and there are reasons for it. Everybody is different and that is good!
@ShellyB
Being sexist and helpless isn't good.
@suzzieQ
Sometimes the "Normal" people are users, and need to be enlightened.
There are like 140 thousand forcible rapes per year in the United States this does not count statutory rape (underage) it is only forcible. So that is what, almost 3 thousand per state per year, my metro area has about a third of my state's population so let's say 1000 forcible rapes in my area hmmm I wonder why women would appreciate feeling safer? It sounds like you had a bad relationship or something, you mentioned being w a woman who caused trouble for you like mouthing off to people in public and that is bad too, I am sorry about that but what you are saying is just the opposite of what makes sense for most women and most couples.
@ShellyB
You should consider hiring security rather than picking a man to protect you from rape.
I've got a child to take care of.
@suzzieQ
I'll protect her, but she better get off her fucking phone for once, look after our child, and make me some fucking dinner so I have energy to fight off all of her 140 thousand attackers.
@suzzieQ
This is hypothetical, my marriage was pretty successful, but my ex-wife didn't have the mindset of choosing me as her protector, I was her lover.
I did protect her, but only because I wanted to and we were a team.
I get annoyed by women on gag who don't feel they have any duties in a relationship, but choose men according to how many punches in the face he looks like he could handle protecting her precious life.
@suzzieQ
Yes, that's what I will do, but this topic is still valid in my opinion and I want people to understand that men are more than just protectors, we have value as human beings too.
@suzzieQ
You must be new to gag.
There's women here who have specific size requirements for a partner so she feels protected, and there's women here who list being safe and protected as her favorite thing about men.
As a man it leaves me feeling used and objectified by them.
and men have specific requirements as well, but that is not the only reason a person gets into a relationship. She still has to like him, enjoy his company. If you dont like the way those requirements make you feel, then dont date women who have those requirements. Thats an easy enough solution. Not sure why you are so worked about the relationship preferences of women that have absolutely nothing to do with you and that you aren't even interested in.
@suzzieQ
Because you're enabling that behavior by suggesting that I just move on to like minded women rather than acknowledging that some women are sexist and disrespectful and should try to be better.
It is not sexist to want a romantic partner who has your back. It’s not sexist to want a partner who is willing to defend and protect you because they love you. People protect what they value, wanting to be valued is not sexist, it’s normal and healthy.
What is sexist is believing that there is no difference between the brain of a child and a woman, which you had no issue agreeing with…
@suzzieQ
I'm a father I know that my child is my main priority in life. What I don't respect is when some grown women act like helpless children and even call me "Daddy" to boot.
They need to grow the fuck up if they want a good man like me to love and protect them. I need a WOMAN who has my back as well and contributes.
@suzzieQ
What can I say, I'm here to make the world a better place rather than deflecting any accountability away from women like you're attempting to do. I have a kid your age and you need to try harder if you think I'm fooled by your game.
@suzzieQ
I teach my kids to be independent first and foremost so any relationships they have in the future aren't gonna make or break them. She's gonna be smart enough to get by regardless.
@suzzieQ
You're not getting it. She won't NEED him because she isn't gonna be some weak minded person who needs a man to save her. She will have everything she needs to protect herself and even a firearm if necessary that she's trained to use.
STOP ACTING LIKE MEN ARE HERE TO SERVE WOMEN.
@suzzieQ
My daughter would be someone who a man would respect and care about because she isn't a sexist user.
A man wouldn't have to tell her to call 911 because that would've been the first call she made because she's an adult.
I also think you're forgetting that it was a woman on my question who said that women can't protect themselves because they're weak and it's in a man's biological makeup to protect her. I was just repeating her sexist crap wanting her to explain what a woman's responsibility is then.
Actually i just looked it up and it was you who said it so what the hell are you even talking about?
The only reason he would expect her to cook and clean is if she was as useless as you and expected him to be some great protector and provider.
That wouldn't happen to my daughter because she isn't a sexist.
Now answer this:
Have you accepted that you have no legitimate point in this argument, and now you're trying to go way off topic to deflect from the question?
@suzzieQ
I answered your deflection question a million times, even though you never gave one decent answer to the ACTUAL QUESTION we're on.
You're just salty because you lost in every way possible and now you're trying to make up new scenarios. It's sad.
Yes, any man can refuse to protect her and it doesn't matter because she will take care of herself just like my sister does, just like my mother does, and just like millions of other women do every day.
Let go of your sexist idea that women need to use their partners for protection.
I get it. You’re not necessarily saying you would abandon your woman but you don’t want to be her servant. I get that. Protect someone who is worth protecting and will reciprocate in her own way not someone who’s going to use you and then leave you when things get challenging.
I want a woman willing to be protected, but also not helpless if I can't do it 24/7.
That's why I look for those who have demonstrated a capacity for honest survival, but are eager to learn new things. If she can teach new things to me in return, even better!
Life is a journey, a set of missions, and a series of assignments. Teammates for different facets have to be chosen wisely. Dead weight will simply drown you.
Honestly? That’s your preference and you have a right to what type of woman you want. I understand why some men feel the need to provide for their women but I also understand a man wanting a woman who is independent and pays her own way. I always felt awkward when a man tried to constantly pay my way. I believe in the 50/50 theory where both partners pay equal the bills and put in equal the effort as far as the relationship goes.
You have to understand most women are not capable of taking care of themselves and needs mans help.
Why do you think people say "Women and children first" ? both are equally helpless
There's no difference between children's brain and woman's brain
That seems true unfortunately.
in my opinion it's bad, but I suppose that as long as you make your position known to her up-front, it's fine.
It's certainly not how my relationships are structured, though.
I don't like being objectified as her bodyguard, I like to be loved for other reasons.
There are plenty of women who don't want a protector.
Just make sure you find one that fits your mentality and you should be fine
Either way she's gonna find out that I'm my own person and I do what I want.
As a woman, it would not be a problem to be financially independent but anything else, it would be nice to have a partner who would offer support, especially emotional support, and protection without asking. But then again, everything needs to be mutual and comes from both parties.
It's understandable, given the current political climate. I more so blame the environment, not the ones it failed. Feminism killed both the gentlemen and the ladies.
That's fine. There are plenty of women who think cleaning and cooking for a man makes that man a child. So you would be perfect for such women.
I can cook and clean just fine so learn to take care of yourself too, you're not a child anymore.
Oh I must've misunderstood you.
If you're type of person who believes in equality and is willing to be a true partner, I respect that.
not really. a lot of women wouldn't want to protect a grown man either. nature is heavily against marriage vows.
Its not something most think about but just do anyways. I see what you mean but this doesn't seem like something most will agree with you on.
Well wait until you're in a relationship with some loud mouthed woman who has a knack for getting into fights with random guys, then she expects you to fight her battles for her like you're her bodyguard or something.
Well it's definitely not a good thing to not want to protect the people you love.
It isn't about not wanting to protect my partner, it's more about being expected to as if I have to conform to a traditional gender role, but she doesn't do anything for me. She can say "Honey that guy over there is creeping me out, go deal with him" but I can't say "Honey I just got home from work and I'm hungry, deal with that."
Except in your title, you said "I dont want to protect women.". Why would anyone want to be in a relationship with a partner who didn't want to protect them?
Because some people are independent adults who can survive being single or in a relationship, and they don't choose their partners based on outdated, sexist gender rolls, but rather based on love and who the enjoy spending time with.
It's healthy if it goes both ways, and people don't choose their partners just based on what they can use them for.
Don't women constantly say they don't need a man? Why would modern women need a man to protect them?
@KrakenAttackin don’t you protect that which you value?
Are women some kind of objects to place a value on like "I gave her dad 3 goats for her so she's pretty valuable." No, people in a relationship should take care of each other, but I won't let a woman treat me as if I'm her bodyguard just because I'm a man. I don't like being objectified as a protector like I'm her father. I need a real woman who has more self confidence than that shit.
Well I would hope that you value anyone you are with romantically... if you dont than you shouldn't be with them
I would hope women would value men enough not to treat him like it's his job to protect her too. Men are human beings, not guard dogs for you.
Why protect someone that is offended by the concept of being protected?
@KrakenAttackin because unless they say they don’t want your help, that’s what a decent human being does. Take paramedics for example, they can’t help anyone that tells them not to, so even if some guy is obviously having a heart attack they can’t touch him.. until he passes out and then it’s cpr all the way to the hospital. At the end of the day, you protect that which you value.
Paramedics are paid to help you, your partner is not your employee.
At the end of the day if you're truly a grown woman and a feminist, you should be able to take care of yourself. Your partner is just a person in your life who you love and enjoy spending time with. The police, fire department, and paramedics are there to serve you, your partner isn't. He may help you if he chooses to do so, but it isn't his job.
Now hop in your piece of shit Subaru and drive away.
You would have to be a real piece of shit to not give your girlfriend the Heimlich or CPR for a heart attack because you believe that truly grown woman should be able to take care of their self... because that's not your job... seriously?
If you're so worried about choking why don't you get your mommy to cut your food up for you. Then shut up for once and chew. I haven't choked on my food since I was 8 years old, get your shit together lady.
Almost 5 thousand people died from choking last year... why do you think almost everyone is taught the Helmich and CPR. If your girlfriend was choking in front of you and you did nothing to help just to prove a point, you're a horrible person and shouldn't date anyone at all
I can't wait until you choke.
Besides I'm a better person than you will ever be and I raised a child on my own. If you need a man to take care of you, you're truly pathetic.
I never had a man protect me or pay my bills (not that I expect either one). But, I honestly thought having a partner who wants to protect you from harm is a good thing. Then again we’ll die at some point so I’ll happily sacrifice my life 😊
If you love someone, you want to protect them. Tho random women, yeah agree! I don't care about "society roles" and crap like that.
Mose men already don't anyway. Even when they like to think that they do.
That's up to you. That does make your dating circle smaller.
I just feel a bit objectified as the "Protector" like it's my job or something when in reality a smart, mature, adult woman can mostly fend for herself.
There are for sure women who don't look for that protection and who would even feel annoyed by being considered constantly incapable and not confident enough. Even around your age range, especially... Single mothers for example grown their skin thick by circumstance at some point, as they must work & housekeeping & all the full parenthood.
@quaranta
Yeah, I respect women who can mostly take care of themselves. Of course I would die for her if needed, but I just appreciate some of the women who look at men as if his main duty is her safety and he has to be a big guy to keep her safe. When I hear that I feel like telling them to grow up. Men are also human beings and I don't have time for a woman who's so much trouble that she needs constant protection.
*Don't appreciate.
Up to you. There is someone out there for everyone.
No long distance sorry 😅
This is what Andrew Tate and Anthony Mackie were talking about if men have to risk our lives for you then women should give us ass and make daddy a sandwich
Considering most women aren't worth protecting and providing for.. It's not bad.
I only protect and provide for Asian women.
White women are not worth it.
Cool man. Then listen for the harridans who declare themselves as "strong independent women" and date them.
For the women? No. But for the woman you love? Yes
I would agree. Im a feminist but apparently women aren't. If you need a man to protect you and provide for you.
I salute all the real feminists out there
Do what you want.
Most women don’t deserve protection.
Not that bad, you dont have to.
Men should protect women
Why not? Women will protect you down there
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