Female Gender Ratio Is Low In India : Why Are Men Only Concerned About It In Terms Of Marriage?

[fonduegirl]

so out of three two of my male professors have expressed their deepest concerns on men not finding a wife due to less number of Indian women. why can women not be important to you as another human being, why do you always need amatonormativity to back you up? share your thoughts, this is baffling.

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I got mansplained xoxo

[Anonymous]

As a 'human being' you offer no special value over everyone else, as a woman you are of special value to men and other women as a mother and wife.

There isn't as much value to discussing the more limited and widely available value of people as 'people'.

[Kaneki05]

Who's gonna tell them wait that there is more men than women in general so there will always be guys who won't find someone. Well unless Hindus want to go "Hey Muslims that 4 wife idea ain't half bad." but somehow I don't think that would go down well lol.

[alice55]

Maybe cause majority of people want to get married and have children? As simple as that...

[HelpfulWoman]

Thats the indian culture- that women are less.
Quite frankly I'm not surprised.

[Staximus]

Because of the stupid tradition in India where the father has to pay the family of the man marrying his daughter, so t he parents only want sons and abort the baby girls. That's why they are in this mess. India is not the greatest place for women, the women should all move over here.

[fonduegirl]

True that

[the_sinner]

For most people both men and women are not important as another human being, they just use them for selfish reasons.
Also people consider marriage as a necessity and not as a personal choice so when young men try finding women at the same time in a small span of area it’s likely they will complain about not finding a partner.

[fonduegirl]

It's so dehumanizing!

[the_sinner]

It is but now that we are the country with the highest population we can’t really judge people for their individual choices and beliefs.

[fonduegirl]

We should. Not judging is how we grew lol.

[boggboss]

Because thats all said men care about they as individuals don't care about women as a whole only what worth they are

[boggboss]

Like I'm pretty sure the culture still encourages having males being better then female at birth with people still thinking in that way it's no wonder men have viewpoints like what's described

[fonduegirl]

It does 😞

[boggboss]

Thats what I mean its hard as I understand the west is by no means perfect and or has its shit together but views like this are so outdated

[fonduegirl]

West is slightly better, I guess.

[MaxiMad]

Not being racist or anything but India as a whole is a lost nation.

Don’t get me wrong but being the second most populated nation after china and soon they will be the first, China was always well mannered and had the core principles to stand ground but India was never an organized nation and the diversity killed It, plus they aren’t that clean.

This is honestly why I don’t like Indians, I don’t hate them but I still don’t like them.

[stratford]

Indian women are as important, intelligent and beautiful as women from all cultures around the world.

[fonduegirl]

Thanks 😊

[stratford]

I am only speaking the truth.

[brownup]

Firstly, I didn't know u were Indian :)
Second, other than atheism, a lot of beliefs consider men and women to have been made in pairs, it's an inevitable future to get married, and personally I do believe eventually from all the fun n chill, a person has to get married to feel complete.
Thirdly, I am surprised the ratio is low, it can't be that low now is it

[fonduegirl]

Religion is amatonormative the most lmao

[brownup]

But it's not dehumanising women.. in fact, it's the opposite... no one would marry anyone but a human lol

[fonduegirl]

Uh... Ok. Um. Yeah ok. Sure.

[Jackblue]

They should be thinking more about women's feelings, but if you asked them I suspect they would at least claim they think about those things too.

[slatyb]

Widespread selective termination of female embryos lead to an imbalance and now there are substantially more men than women. The same thing happened in China with their one-child policy.

[Billlewis]

I think probably because they're only focused on their relationships much of the time.

[fonduegirl]

It's such harsh objectification of women

[Grond21]

I am missing how this is negative against women. Was it their tone?

[fonduegirl]

Read the question details a few times

[fonduegirl]

If you still don't get it, feel free to exit.

[Grond21]

Apparently, you only want thoughts that support your victim mentality. But you still are not being clear, despite my question being in good faith.

[fonduegirl]

So you don't get it?

[Grond21]

I see that it is a self-centered position, but not negative for women. So no, I don't get it

[fonduegirl]

Women are reduced to objects. They aren't seen as human beings.

[NamerOfStars]

Because aside from marriage (and sexuality in general), what does another person's gender matter?

Why can't you accept egalitarianism? Why do you always need to be the victim?

[fonduegirl]

Why can't you be less selfish?

[shortster]

I thought marriage was about finding someone to spend the rest of your life with?

[strateguy632]

because marriage is a primary concern of mating. any other female job, the extra men will do.

[fonduegirl]

Only one gender exists. Gotcha.

[WhitneySnow]

I agree with you!

[eagle1951]

they come to the USA and find a wife