You ever wondered why you get in trouble for being rude but it’s ok for other people?

[Anonymous]

Anytime I come off as rude, I end up paying the consequences. But, other people get away with it. Like, what gives? I don’t understand. I want to get away with shit that people get away with.

[NathanDavis]

why would you want to be rude and get away with it... though

[Asker]

Because everyone else does. Plus, you get more respect that way.

[NathanDavis]

not true...

and also not true

if it were true... then you would not be in this situation in which you're paying negative consequences

[Asker]

I’ve seen it happen. I’ve had many people be rude to me and literally nothing happens to them.

[NathanDavis]

let me ask you this... all these, people that are rude to you

do you have respect them? do you feel positive about them? or... do you resent them and dislike them?

[Asker]

Dislike them. But, at the same time I want them to teach me their ways.

[Asker]

Sometimes I want to ask them, “What is it like and how do you go about your day without a guilty conscience?”

[NathanDavis]

so... do you want to end up being disliked? and for people to resent you?

again, why would you want that... lol, become one more of them

[Asker]

People dislike me for being nice. So why not follow the crowd? 🤷‍♀️

[NathanDavis]

I don't think that's how it works...

[Asker]

Ok….. I calmed down a bit. Had a rough day at work. I don’t actually want to be that way. But, in my head it sounds good.

[NathanDavis]

customer services?

[Asker]

Yes 🤦‍♀️

[NathanDavis]

lol... I don't miss those days, when I would do it

[gorydetails]

You are a ray of sunshine, how could you ever be rude?

[Asker]

I don’t, actually.

[gorydetails]

That’s what I thought, you’re a charmer.

[swettannie]

probably because it's not the image you give to people

[Asker]

I just think it’s unfair.

[swettannie]

well, life is unfair

[Asker]

I just need someone to teach me their ways. And give me advice on how to get away with it.

[Asker]

Ok, what I said is not true.

[swettannie]

what do you mean

[Asker]

I don’t actually feel that way.

[swettannie]

than how do you feel

[BLP11520]

Favoritism goes on everywhere. Pet empolyees and yes, butt kissers. These get away with murder.

[Masterodd]

I wonder that all the time, Sasha. :)

[caramelcake37]

You are right