Which is worse? being forced to give birth or being forced to get an abortion?

[SolitarySolace]

Forced abortion is worse

Forced birth is worse

[genericname85]

the truth is: it's a choice to be pregnant. so why would giving birth be "forced"? if you didn't wanna give birth, you could just not get pregnant in the first place.

but to answer your question: i think it's worse to have a kid you wanted murdered than being forced to have a kid that you didn't really want at first. cause you can still learn to love that kid. but a dead kid is a dead kid. it's not coming back.

[SolitarySolace]

Agreed and exactly! If only women understood this

[joesheks]

Should people be “forced” to work instead of just getting a government check? Should people be “forced” to pay their bills? Should people be “forced” to stay at home even though they are under 18?


These are the same dumb line of questioning. Even though rape is a small number of the abortion cases, does murder somehow make this better? These are things to think about when you use “forced” language.

[Simslover92]

Forced to give birth would be worse especially if the mother is not prepared to carry a child for nine months. It's a lot of doctors visits not to mention all the shit pregnant women go through during those nine months. That would be more awful in my opinion than forcing an abortion.

[EmmaMary]

@Simslover92

You are so 100% right on absolutely everything you've posted.

[SolitarySolace]

Alright, than don't have sex knowing the consequences.

[Simslover92]

@SolitarySolace As long as you're practicing safe sex, condoms, birth control, etc. then the consequences are minuscule

[SolitarySolace]

Who practices safe sex anymore? Condoms don't always work, and neither does birth control etc.

[EmmaMary]

@SolitarySolace

You've sadly forgotten to mentioned the dreaded rape scenario.

[SolitarySolace]

Doesn't happen as often as you'd like to think

[Simslover92]

@EmmaMary that is true. It does happen especially in college. I was sexually assaulted in college and my best friend was raped twice in college. Luckily she didn't get pregnant from it but she could have.

[SolitarySolace]

Alright, @Simslover92, let me rephrase. It doesn't happen as often as you'd like to think unless you're a complete idiot and put yourself in a situation where it'll happen

[EmmaMary]

@SolitarySolace

What a complete and utter load of fucking Bollox.

[SolitarySolace]

You're upset because it's true. If a woman doesn't put herself in a situation where she'd end up raped it wouldn't happen. Don't go to some guy's place knowing what could happen. You go, that's your own fault

[Simslover92]

@SolitarySolace you gotta be fucking kidding me

[SolitarySolace]

Take responsibility for your own dumbass decisions it's not a man's problem if you're an absolute dumbass

[Simslover92]

@SolitarySolace it is never the victims fault if they've been raped. It doesn't matter where they are. What the fuck is wrong with you?

[EmmaMary]

You can FO with that crap... And I'm certainly not wasting any more time with your pathetic insulting attitude.

[MzAsh]

Both are equally terrible.

[EmmaMary]

@SolitarySolace

I'm in absolute total agreement with everything @Simslover92 has already posted.

[Apple1996]

Both are terrible but forced birth is a lot worse especially for women that don't want childern

[BootsLover94]

Both are terrible but why force a woman to give birth if she does not want a baby? What if she was 9 years old

[B5567]

It depends on the situation.