Why do people act like 30 is so old for a woman? Is this reality or just on the internet? It’s baffling because it’s still so young?

[Anonymous]

I’ll be 30 in a few years and it still seems so young. In the context of kids lots of women have kids who are healthy much later. And in the context of looks the hottest women I know personally are all over the age of 27.

[menina]

That's exactly what I've been wondering! I've seen people acting as if once you're 30 your life is over. And I've seen some guys on here saying that women lose their beauty when they get to the age of 30. I don't understand that. It doesn't make sense to me.

I suppose it's because people expect women to always look "perfect" and to be "young" forever. I hope it's just on the internet.

[Asker]

Girl I think it 100% is just on the internet. When I was in my early 20s I was being smoked by women in their 30s they looked so much better in every way. I think men are using the age thing as a control tactic. They say it’s 30, now it’s 25, soon it’s like 20….
I didn’t start getting tons of attention until I was like 26+

[menina]

"I think men are using the age thing as a control tactic. They say it’s 30, now it’s 25, soon it’s like 20…." - I absolutely agree with you! You couldn't have said it better!

[Asker]

I’m like looking at myself in the mirror about to be 29 in 7 months and I’m waiting for when I’m supposed to start deteriorating 😆

[menina]

😂😂😂

You won't deteriorate. 😆😆😆

[Asker]

Lol I feel like I’m just getting hotter 😆

[menina]

See? I told you! 😂😂

[OlderAndWiser]

I would NEVER say that a girl 30 years of age is OLD, and I am becoming something of an expert on old!

[Asker]

I see some weird concept everywhere that women hit the wall or whatever at 30. I didn’t become super hot until I was 26 and now I’m 28 and men run into walls looking at me now. Lol

[OlderAndWiser]

When I was 18 years old, I thought a girl over 22-23 was old.
When I was 22-24, I thought a girl over 30 was old.
When I was 30, I thought that a girl over 45 was old.
When I was 45, I thought that a girl over 60 was old.
When I was 60, I thought that age was irrelevant and attraction all depended on her health and how well a girl had taken care of herself.

[Asker]

I hope I meet my person after 30 still. 20s have been so much work, a launching pad for the future.

[OlderAndWiser]

I had earlier relationships which lasted for a while but iltimately failed, and then I met The One when I was 65 years old. We will be getting married on April 27 next year. NEVER give up on love! NEVER!

[bededazzle]

don’t sound old to me

[WhitneySnow]

I agree with you

[Asker]

Ikr! I think it’s just a scare tactic to get us to settle.
I live in a. Big city and so many people don’t marry til they’re like 35+. And the hottest women I see are all late 20s and older.

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah I think you’re right

[riverrat3]

Mostly boys that have no taste or manners

[ChicoFromThe305]

I know it's not