Is it rude to talk about plans in front of others who are not invited?

[Anonymous]

What about afterwards when the plans are over and the pictures are posted online?

[Avicenna]

It can be, depending on the personalities involved and the circumstances

[PinkFlamingoes]

Yes, it's rude. You can make plans privately with the people you want to invite. People don't like to be excluded. Your invitation to certain people and not others may or may not hurt someone's feelings.

[GreenLanternI0I]

It is both rude and impolite. Put yourself in their position and imagine how would you feel when someone was doing the same thing in front of you and your husband.

[molonski2]

Incredibly rude.

[bededazzle]

of course, but you can choose what to do

[Danny_dan92]

The question is why is it a problem?