For me, race is a big factor: White girls have never been special to be considered seriously. Mixed race girls are always a maybe. Most black girls don't qualify as attractive. Most Asian girls are also maybe. Latin, Mediterranean, and Middle Eastern girls can be attractive but too awkward.
I'm an equal opportunity dater (I like all races/ ethnicities) with a preference leaning towards South East Asian women, but will avoid any woman that's passed a certain point of overweight for her height.
Personality wise, I'd like nerdy/intelligent, creative, down-to-earth, warm-hearted, affectionate, sense of humor, even sarcastic but not rude, wholesome/clean cut, romantic, low maintenance. Not all are needed but would be a plus to have all.
Likes - board games, puzzles, video games, picnics, the arts, walking/hiking, bowling, escape rooms, and mini golf. Obviously, we are not going to have the same hobbies on everything besides those. I really like being able to do things together.
Turn offs for me: History of cheating, compulsive liar, does relationship tests, addiction. There are others that might pop up.
Weight, past partners, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes. All are things that are non negotiable criteria. Weight has to be healthy will never be with a fat person. For partners the same or lower than me. I had zero so zero. I am now married making it 1. So if I was looking it would be 1 or 0. Alcohol. Anything beyond occasionally and I am out. Drugs ever, at all etc absolutely not. Cigarettes ever, at all etc absolutely not. Rest I can typically work with
I range anywhere from a 5 - 6.5 so ideally I'd find a guy who's a similar range of attractiveness (4.5 -6).
If he's too pretty he'll think he can do better and if he's a 3 then I think I can do better. I think clothes, hair style, and makeup can do wonders for someone (hence the range).
Same as you. I'm now married to a nigerian man but even before meeting him I was never into white men. I've dated arabs/middle eastern but for some reason I've always been attracted to black men the most.
clean, shapely teeths (i have something against teeths, if they have problems they scare me) petite ( the maximum limit is 5'6 but preferebly around 5'3 or 5'4 (can be 4!10 too though) thicc body (not obese)
@EmyyWolf we met before and i said it there that i am not searching or wanting anyone, i am not dating, i was answering here ''if'' i was dating my criterias are this but since i have no interest in dating i don't have to find anyone either, sex: 1- relationships: 0
At your age right now you can definitely find someone pure , loyal, probably anti feminist cause I was all this at 22. I was total virgin. But there’s not many of us like this. The problem was that I was obese , extremely obese. I looked 36 at your age.
So I’m saying yes “right now” as we speak , you being 21, you can possibly find a virgin 21yo. But her being hot or attractive in any sense. Are unlikely.
@EmyyWolf well lucky for me, i am very flexible about weight, as long as your face is pretty enough i can consider you hot (also being fat means big tits and when it comes to big tits i can tolerate most things (aside from other guy existence) what about not choosing anything? fuck the hot (in the literal sense) be friends with the pure one if i ever feel so lonely that i would want the company of a girl (unlikely though i already have too many woman that i socialize relatives and such not really feel like having a girl around for company) also just because i am a certain age it means i should go for my age, iam very flexible with age, they can be 15 to 55 for all i care (don't even go to the pedophilia place i was that i age when i lost my virginity and it was with a girl that was 6 years older than me (infact the daughter of my middle uncle from mother side) and i think i can find both pure and hot at the same time with younger girls (before you go with they might report you and such shit don't worry i might be a lot of thing (not all of them are good things i admit) but i am anything but stupid don't worry i know how to save myself from law very well (if not we wouldn't be having this talk right now and i would be having my 7th year in jail) also like i said before, i don't want a relationship, i'm not cut out for that cloth unless it is bisexual girl harem (even 2 girl would be enough to call it that though)
That’s no PEDO, that’s PREDATOR. That woman should’ve got caught. And I’m not saying you shouldn’t be attracted to 15, cause 21 is close to 15. But if you try dating 15, chances of you getting arrested are high
@EmyyWolf like i said don't worry when it comes to law i have my ways (questionable ones but let's not go there) and i am not saying i am planning to but i sure as hell not denying the opportunity if it presents itself either) also i really don't care if it was predatory, why would i? i was a young horny guy and wanted it as much as her, she was hot i was eager and that was not the first time we were sexual either, hell i was 6 when she first kissed me (she was 11-12 i guess)
All I know... remove that bottom left girl in the pic, and that manly-looking Asian girl at the top (normally Asian chicks get first choice, but she looks like a feminist), and then I'll make those other three squirt all over my balls. ... hold up.
That white bitch have an Adams apple? Get that trash outta here too! Yuck... feels like I almost metaphorically fucked a tranny dude.
I'd say, how much he loves God and shows others around him love cause it kinda determines how he'd love me too. I also place emphasis on character, personality then how he looks can come to play. I want a guy that shows care, understands, respects, is loyal, can trust and allows himself to be vulnerable to me. I want him to be open to me, let me in and communicate with me. And he should be humble, its ok to say "I'm sorry".
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Do you practice what you preachthough? or is it one rule to suit your gender and manipulate and control
I actually do. I've realised to some extent I have to be what I ask for. My previous relationship made me realise the things I wanted and I basically give what I take.
Yeah? I want to be close in height with him? Regardless I'm not going to be very compatible with a guy under 5'11. I've gone on dates with guys like that and it's uncomfortable
I'm 5'11. When I've met guys who've lied about their height, immediately the first thing they say is 'wow, you're tall!' and then the rest of the date is awkward. It's like this elephant in the room that we both notice. I don't think it's unfair of me to say I'd like a man my height or taller. Short guys don't really want a girlfriend towering over them either so it's an understandable whim 🤷♀️
I’d say it would be unfair if you wanted your guy to be a foot taller but refused to date an inch shorter…and actually personally I would rather date a woman slightly taller just so I know she doesn’t have a height fixation
I’m going for any woman because white women because my racial trauma were from white people. They’ve enslaved us and spreaded colorism in every culture so I don’t see myself long term with a white woman
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