Can we recognise that being a man is much harder than being a woman?

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at least can we recognise this? That’s not to say women don’t have challenges.  But if periods are your argument then leave it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I can't say because I've never been a man.

I think it depends on person to person. Men are lucky in some aspects more than women, while women are luckier on other aspects than men.

children for example, a girl's time for having them is much shorter than a man, even when today many women are having babies in their 40's compared to any other time before when it was believed that 30 was the red line, it's proven to be false now, but still our eggs do diminish and even when it's not at 30 anymore it's still shorter than men who are still having babies at age 80.

Maybe men get rejected a lot but that's because for the most part men are the ones doing the courting. The one that does it more is going to be rejected more because not everyone you choose will choose you back. if the roles were reversed and girls were the ones doing the courting, trust that even when you think almost all men would go for it, when there's all these girls courting men, men would be way more inclined to reject as well as seeing it's not an oddity but something very common.

the downfall for women is that since men are the ones doing the courting, even when today it's slightly changing, it's still for the most part men and many women are still waiting and left still waiting for someone to come court them. The men may think they are well off if they look good or something and may never go for such girls and the time is clicking so they remain single and sometimes too late to find love or enough time to make a family anymore.

Men can be unfit and still attract girl
on the other hand Men are not attracted to fat
so women are more forgiving in how a man looks than a man of how a woman looks.

I don't know what is more difficult because I've never been a man, I just know these type of scenarios of which I see and experience myself as a woman.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

can't imagine being to emotional as to make a post like that. Sad

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I agree w you on a lot of things. The thing is men usually don’t talk about how hard things are so women seem to think that it’s easy being a man. The girl who gave all those examples for you to check needs to check them herself. A lot of things go unreported by men so there’s no real numbers on a lot of that stuff life rape, sexual harassment, etc. The funny thing is women talk so much bs these days w modern society cause it’s easy for them to say men ain’t shit after everything has been built for them to live a co for table life. But they will never acknowledge that cause their feelings trump all things logically speaking. The one lady who decided to disguise herself as a man for 18 months committed suicide cause it was so depressing. The other girl cried her brains out because like the First Lady she said it was so lonely, so hard, that she had an easier time making friends w random women in the restrooms than she did as a man. But women have something most men want that’s why we let them think what they want to think.

normalice · Accepted Answer

The whole point of civilization is to keep natural challenges at bay and replacing them with artificial human-made challenges. While it may be true that the laws of nature made things slightly harder for the male role we don't still live in caves so those laws of nature no longer apply. It is entirely laws of our own making that make it harder for one gender or the other. And as men are the ones who wrote 100% of the laws it is unlikely they wrote them to favor women - indeed the fact that it is men writing them is an indication of men having choices women don't have, and having more choices makes things easier.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

This is a classic "the grass is always greener" argument and no one could possibly have as much difficulty in life as you.

You need to ask yourself why the answer to this question is important. Suppose it could be answered in an objective way and your life as a man actually is a bit more difficult than it is for women. WHAT are you going to do with that information? Have a sex change so your life will be easier?

Anonymous · Answer

It is much harder for men that adhere to the societal expectations. But for those guys that avoid marriage, dating and work less hours and don't care about what others think, life becomes much easier. I know guys that are married, working long hours, their wife doesn't have sex with them, they have kids, pay for everything (including her shopping addiction) and they are depressed and receive no thanks. Those guys are always trying to convince me to do what they have done, or claim that I am missing out.

As a man, if you ignore all of the nonsense society pushes, life is easy. Life is easier for women, but when their looks fade, they can end up having a life very similar to what men had and they won't understand how to navigate.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it hinges on your point of view.

It's hard for men to date. It's not hard for women to date but it's hard for them to find a man that respects them that they attracted to. Men also have about 3 things they look for in a woman. While women have about 300 things they look for in a man. So while women may feel it's hard for them, most of it is created in thier own head.

At the end of the dating is hard for everyone. Because MOST PEOPLE are not forthcoming about who they are and what they want.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Nah, it’s really easy being a guy. I know I don’t have to put up with rape, pregnancy, I can walk home alone or go to pub alone without anyone hassling me. It is really really easy being a guy for me.

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

If life is so hard for you as a man and you think it's better to be a woman, then become a woman. It's 2024 so go be what you want to be.

laly520 · Answer

check rape/crime rates

also check whos majority whom being raped n assaulted n killed

check domestic violence rates

check the gap of salaries based on gender

when u r done checking all of those

come back so I give u more shit to check

then u will be able to decide who is having it harder

HawkPerception · Answer

Men most definitely have it harder than women.  Just give this a watch:

Unit1 · Answer

We only need to look at the suicide stats indicating men committing suicide 2-4 times more than women. Being male is no fun unless you are rich.

SotiCoto · Answer

Apples and Oranges.  And nobody will ever truly get to experience both sets of issues.  Either way... it isn't a competition. The opposite gender is not an enemy to defeat. Let it go.

Anonymous · Answer

Men are stronger, faster, smarter, more assertive, more intimidating, more charismatic, have a stronger will, have it easier when having children, command more respect and authority, I could go on.

The only thing women have over men is the capability to give birth which is a nightmarish process that no man would envy.

Men literally rule the world, embrace it.

JayBones · Answer

Lol. 70% single white American women while all the men look for trad wives in Indonesia and Mexico. Have fun with your dilutes and cats.

DextroShade · Answer

Women live life on easy mode, anyone who thinks otherwise is delusional or a pathetic simp.

AngryCarl · Answer

It's not harder. Women just have a different set of problems that's all.

Pohjolan · Answer

Its contextual. Sure its harder in say US/EU but easier in Iran. Unless if you are gay.

exitseven · Answer

It's no picnic, that's for sure

KrakenAttackin · Answer

This is indisputable.

Chthou95 · Answer

Men do have it harder absolutely

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