Would you say it’s immoral for a woman to never tell the man that impregnated her that she is pregnant and also get an abortion without telling him?

[Anonymous]

[DoggyDude]

It does depend on the relationship and how the guy's treating the girl (and their position toward sleeping with them).

If the person sleeping someone is some kind of jerk, or some one night stand; Where he's not given their sexual partner a second thought after having sex with them, then the girl doesn't have any obligation toward such a guy.

If though its a partner and their in a serious relationship, and they feel they are making love with vs a cheep sexual thrill, then its dishonourable to not at least talk it through with them before making a final decision either way (and it would be dishonourable of them, once fully disussed and understanding the ladys decision to not support her choice [even if with explained hurt], and the girls part she needs to reflect understanding of the guys position, and, if they stand counter to each ther, at least give it a few days before commiting to both mull it over. At then end of the day, its the girls body and future and her choice, the reality is once the guy gave her their sperm the rest is down to how the girl feels about everything; Though I would certainly advise an abortion is truamatic even when the child is totally unwanted).

If the guy and girl where having sex specifically to have children and one of both had second thoughts, then I would say it verges into immoral territory to hide the fact a person fell pregnant then.

Think that covers the bases.

[RebelinSteel]

Sort of but also no. Greatly depends on here relationship with the guy and how the relationship is. If there is a chance of marriage and it’s going well, then yes she should discuss it. If however the relationship is not heading towards marriage or he’s a person who would say no and most likely walk, then she should just go ahead with it and he does not need to know. There is also the thing that people starting a sexual relationship should discuss what to do in case of a possible or actual pregnancy.

[RebelinSteel]

@ pink anon, thanks for MHO

[Asker]

Welcome

[HelpfulWoman]

one night stand? understandable.
committed relationship? dick move, unless abuse is involved

[MadhuriDixit]

I'm against abortion for unprotected sex in the first place, so...

[RainbowMarinade]

@madhuridixit
What about abortion for protected sex that failed?
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[Hayley-Jade]

It's a complex ethical question with no one-size-fits-all answer. While some may argue that honesty and communication are crucial in such situations, others may consider a woman's right to make decisions about her own body and reproductive choices as paramount. Ultimately, it depends on the specific circumstances, dynamics of the relationship, and individual beliefs. What's important is that decisions regarding pregnancy and abortion are made thoughtfully and with consideration for all involved parties.

[ohsheeT]

Well that's none of my business to be honest with you it's only your business and you have to either live with one of your choices that you make it's up to you..

I can't tell you this right or wrong because I'm not you..

I know what I would do but that would be my choice. And only my choice

[Billlewis]

No -- not in the slightest. When a woman gets pregnant, the course of action she decides to take is her decision in its entirety, and if she chooses not to involve the guy who impregnated her, I don't have a problem with that at all. If they didn't jointly decide to conceive a baby, why would the guy have any say in the matter whatsoever?

[JacobJordan]

Abortion is not okay and if a woman has right to an abortion (she shouldn't) then men should have the right to not pay child support on a child they don't want, not lose half their shit in divorce, not have to pay alimony. So either women don't get abortion and men have to deal with child support or women do get abortion and they are on their own even if they keep it

[molonski2]

Id say a giant YES.. It takes two to create pregnancy , and he should certainly be told , and its never just the choice of one to murder the unborn , she will never recover from this by the way , if that's what actually happened.

[RoronoaZoro8]

I think it's her decision ultimately. The guy might have wanted a child but he can't force a woman to bear one for him if she doesn't want that.

I don't think it's immoral not to tell the guy but it would be nice to tell him.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Yes, very much so, at least in a consensual case. I'm not saying it should be illegal necessarily but it's definitely not something I'd consider to be right.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the man. If he really wants to be a father and is pro life then this news could be devastating. Potentially for the rest of his life.

But if he doesn’t want to be a dad and/or is pro choice it will have less of an impact.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea and pretty cold towards human life as Well, some women just don't know the gift they carry until they lose it

[goaded]

No, it's her choice. Maybe if they're married or in a similar long term relationship, but still not really.

[slatyb]

No, I wouldn't. Her body, her decision. The male's investment in a fetus is negligible.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Unforgivable and the fact that she'd kill her baby is worse.

[Danny_dan92]

I think it depends on the contact of the situation.

[zagor]

If she's not in a LTR with him what he doesn't know won't hurt him.

[jahaims]

You are asking if killing a man's child is immoral? Obviously

[Anonymous]

For the most part "yes". There is no catch all answer for this question.

[DarkWinterNights]

I would never forgive a woman that did that to me.

[Night_Descends]

Yeah. Absolutely.

[gorydetails]

COmpletely immoral. It's his child also.

[Agape93]

Nope

[sirderpsalot123]

Yes.