Do you think it’s right to abort a man’s baby without telling him?

[Chelsdope0]

I don’t think you have to tell him…. Especially if you know he doesn’t love you… but at any stage… married or not… I don’t feel obligated to tell him…

[Cutea]

You should not care about this man feeling or wish.

The question you should ask yourself is:

Do I want to have this baby? Do I really want to abort?

What matters to you is more important. What you are going through right now it is you who will endure the thought of what happened in your life? You know your experience much better than we all do.

For me personally I would not have abort of a child even if it meant that I had to disappear from life of the guy. That is a personal choice. But for you it is about what you want in your life, what is happening right now, or if you have a trauma with the dad of the child.

It is your choice to have your baby, abort it or give the baby to adoption. But what you need to think about. It is you who will deal with consequences. Make the best choice that there is for you. Chose an option where you won't be having regrets after years. Don't do it because of a man. Do what is best for you, with a choice you know you can live with.

[WhitneySnow]

It is your right, but I don’t think it’s right not to tell him unless you think he’s a really terrible person. And if he’s that bad then you really shouldn’t have had sex with him. (And if you were raped then of course you don’t have to tell him.)

[Finchie40]

I don’t think it’s right to abort any baby, abortion is murder , so if you want to be a murderer go head and get an abortion , I think you are a selfish person by you not telling him the truth , it takes 2 to tango , so you are both responsible for that baby , you shouldn’t of slept with him if you didn’t want to be with him or vice versa. And you should have been more responsible before spreading your legs and made sure he wore a condom or you were taking birth control pills , so the fact that you didn’t’ makes you both irresponsible people. It’s not the babies fault for your stupid decision. So the right thing to do is tell him the truth and maybe he will want the baby and raise it or you both can agree on putting it up for adoption , but killing the baby , makes you a murderer and something that will probably haunt you the rest of your life by making that selfish decision.

[Danielle93]

You can aborto in exceptionally cases such as the woman's life being threatened of she gives birth, doctor tells you the baby will be deformed and not live longer or a teenaged girl got raped.

[Finchie40]

I still consider it murder , considering their are alternatives a girl can make after having a baby , she can put it up for adoption or find a couple that can’t have kids ‘ , but to make a final decision just to kill a baby is demented in my opinion ,

[Danielle93]

It's interesting that you don't have an exeption to the rule. So if a 10-12 girl got impregnated by a pedophile and she can either have complicatons or even die giving birth, let the kid should still risk it.

[HawkPerception]

If you're married to him, you should definitely tell him. If you no longer want a relationship with him, then feel free to end things and have the abortion. But again... if you're married to him, you're obligated to communicate with him like an adult.

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[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

The only time a man has any right to tell a woman what to do with her body is when she is carrying his child. But the world isn't fair, and my opinion doesn't matter.

Why did you have sex in the first place with someone who didn't love you?

[Nikki1989]

I most jurisdictions, a woman has the legal right to make decisions about her body, including the decision to have an abortion which is the way it should always be.

[FunkyMonkee]

No. He was involved in creating it, he should get a decision in aborting. UNLESS, he's one of those hit & run guys. If he knocks you up and doesn't care to stick around for the end result, he gets no say!!

[Paige90]

No! The baby is half the guy, and he should know about it and have a say in what she does regarding the baby.

[msc545]

Evidence that many women feel that not only do they have a right to take your money, they also have a right to kill your child.

[Ironco]

That's because you are only thinking about yourself, and you are afraid to have that conversation with him.

[Anonymous]

You're a selfish asshole. It's people like you who are the reason men don't even have the right to know they have a child in the world.

[Anonymous]

Sure, men can just be more careful about who they stick it in.

[Amur8711]

No he deserves the right, because you chose to let him put one in you.

[LazerBean]

It's not right to abort children at all.

[itsannalee]

Your body your choice.

[slatyb]

Your body, your choice.

[CarolinaGirl5]

Why won't u just stop being a hoe bonquisha?

[Chelsdope0]

You tried it 🥱

[CarolinaGirl5]

Didn't have to try you proved it bonquisha

[ehatsham_hussain]

You have to ask him once before abortion.

[Chelsdope0]

Why …?

[ehatsham_hussain]

Sorry ,, actually I don't know about your culture where do you live ,,
But i shared opinion about married couples,,
And if it's before marriage,, he might be marry you because of his child.

[Juxtapose]

No that's selfish.

[WowGIrl4ever]

Nope

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Nope.