Should you tell the man who got you pregnant that you got an abortion?

[Chelsdope0]

Especially if he doesn’t want you or if a guy did want kids

I don’t feel obligated to tell him and I would do it so quickly

[itsannalee]

I don’t know, my ex who really wanted a kids cheated on me. I was pregnant, I told him I had an abortion. In fact, I had a miscarriage because of stress and depressed. He was so mad at me coz of that. Said u killed our kids who might be twins.

[Chelsdope0]

Good for you! He deserved that shit!

[TonyMetal___86]

In my opinion, you shouldn't have sex with someone whom you do not love and planning for a future with him, as getting married!

If you were raped than no, there is no need to tell him, if he's your boyfriend than you need to tell him and take his opinion into consideration, if he's your husband than he has a decision, no abortion without his agreement and i believe that abortion is a sin!

[qwerty2469]

I would sue you for destruction of property and win.

[slatyb]

You might try. You wouldn't win.

[qwerty2469]

In this judicial environment? Id bet my Bitcoin on it.

[Nikki1989]

The decision to have an abortion is a deeply personal one. You have a right to your privacy and to not share information about your medical and emotional life if you don't want to. You don't owe anyone this information.

[glennos89]

That's crazy and selfish!

[Chelsdope0]

How so?

[slatyb]

Certainly not if the relationship is over.

[Jennz6]

I haven’t figured out who he is

[hello4433]

You can but it won't matter to him much

[eagle1951]

probably be a good idea

[Anonymous]

Yes , he’s the father