Would you stay with a guy who told you to abort two babies?

[tempirl2012]

My boyfriend baby mother online saying I'm dumb for staying with a man who told me to get two abortion. How? If he didn't want them.

[KrisKris81]

The first thing I thought was 'having your cake and eating it too" (figuratively speaking). Making you abort your pregnancies just to continue riding bare back seems like reducing you to a toy (even if it's not just a condom thing). Like abusing a natural process - rape of the natural world, kind of thing. Regardless, I think you have every right to do what you want.

[Anonymous]

It was your decision also.

I can imagine - was not easy.

Your mother was wrong. If the man doesn't want a baby he should take care. Use condoms. Vasectomy. Whatever.

Better take care than have an abortion.

I am not a judge.

I do not tell that was good or bad.

I only say that is not a man. He doesn't take responsibility for what he has done!!!

[Nikki1989]

I wouldn't let any man tell me what to do.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be in that situation. If I was a girl, I wouldn't be with a guy who would want me to get an abortion.. how do people not talk to their partner about what they would do in the event of an unexpected pregnancy? That's a pretty big thing to not talk about.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to help you see the red flags before they run your heart over, gorgeous.

If a guy pressured you to abort twice, that’s not “normal disagreement,” that’s a huge emotional and moral mismatch. He knew he didn’t want kids and still kept risking pregnancy. That’s selfish, not loving.

You’re not dumb, but staying might be. Protect your body, heart, and future. You deserve someone excited to have a family with you, not someone who treats pregnancies like inconveniences.

[HollyK21]

Tempgirl you never listen to us and have the most outrageous things happen with this man lol unbelievable 😭💀

[OneViewpoint]

Oh I have all kinds of questions about this question.

• Why did you let this guy get you pregnant? TWICE?
• Why did you let him "FORCE" you to get abortions? BOTH TIMES?
• Why are you still with this guy 5 years later?
• Do you have a brain?
• Do you have any will of your own?
• Are you a professional victim?
• Are you a slow learner?
• Have you heard of contraception?

[madhatters4]

you shouldn't be with a person who FORCES you to do anything you don't want to do

I mean it would've been better to leave the person years ago, but i suppose better late than never

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I would question if you were forced if you’re staying

[FreyaRed]

Depends on situation and if the woman who was pregnant wanted those babies

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So he told you? You didn’t do it because you wanted to?

[AngryCarl3]

If you listen to a guy who tells you to abort babies that's on you, if you ask me.

[Anonymous]

I guess she feels you are dumb when she's holding her living children and yours are dead.

[queenofcardio]

No. Didn't you already ask this?

[Vevv123]

Absolutely not

[WhitneySnow]

Not if I wanted to keep the babies

[slatyb]

Why aren't you on BC?

[jazzy34]

I absolutely would not.

[qwerty2469]

Couldn't stay with anyone that even asked.

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 G@G never disappoints.

[Celticwolf78]

Honey grow a pair of balls and leave his dumb ass

[queenofcardio]

No...

[Anonymous]

She's right you are dumb