Would you stay with a guy who has a baby on the way?

[tempirl2012]

My ex constantly keep trying to get back with me. but I'm not doing it because he cheated on me and got another female pregnant. I was so stressed out i started playing on her phone. Which probably wasn't a very good idea.. He said he didn't mean to get her pregnant and that i should take him back because he doesn't know for sure who's baby she's carrying since she's been around and with his cousin in the past.🙄. I told him i don't want to be with him anymore. Yet, says he's not talking to her because he wants to be with me instead. Blah blah! Whatever!!! 😴Would u stay with your man if he had a baby on the way? 🤔

[Leopard23]

For whatever reason women are more likely to forgive a cheater especially in the early stages of relationships.

If I was in your situation and I was in a similar one with no pregnancy what I would do is block off all contact it's over. A cheater will only cheat again. Think of it this way a criminal might get jailed for a single crime they committed but the court doesn't know how many crimes they did before they were caught. So in your situation he got caught this time but how many times did he cheat on you with different women that you didn't catch him, how many times will he cheat on you in the future before you catch him, will you catch him after he gives you an STD? Then there's this baby he's going to be hit uo for child support for the next 18 years.

[Annajamey]

Staying with someone who has a baby on the way can be a complex decision that depends on a variety of factors, including your feelings for the person, your willingness to take on a parenting role, and the nature of the relationship between your partner and the mother of the child.

If you decide to stay with your partner, it's important to have open and honest communication about your expectations, boundaries and concerns. You may also want to discuss what role you plan on taking in the child's life and how you will support your partner through the pregnancy and after the child is born.

Ultimately, the decision to stay with someone who has a baby on the way is a personal one that only you can make. It's important to take the time to consider all of the factors involved and make a decision that feels right for you.

[Bee-Hatch]

Most phones and social media sites have a block function. Have fun working them out.


Think about it. He's happy to flit between women, depending on what suits him. Getting people pregnant then, walks away because it doesn't suit him. This guy's a man child, doesn't take responsibility for himself or his actions. Is that the kind of person you want to pin you're future on?

[lightbulb27]

This is a mess because the guy is screwed up emotionally and now running away from responsibility, because he's immature brat. He needs other "godly" men around him to help him mature, come to Jesus, have an epiphany, and grow up... fast.

Stay away from him, end of story.

He needs help and should be the one out asking questions.

You need to tell him it was over when he cheated, accept the choice he made and make a good life of it. To be a good father to his child assuming is his. and you are done.

[LovingJo]

In this situation, no I wouldn't. If he cheated on me and got someone else pregnant, there would be no escaping the constant reminder of betrayal and potentially my sins a child that he bore with someone else.
If he had gotten sometime pregnant and it didn't work and then you had got together, then maybe.

But for me, absolutely not!! 💯

[katiesmuff]

No I wouldn't have as he will have many issues to resolve before becoming free to begin another relationship.

[boggboss]

That u are even entertaining him is ridiculous even if the baby isn't his he cheated u think he will just change and be loyal now

[Msputiton]

Nope. Once they cheat. It's a goodbye forever

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Hell no, they already shown that they can't be trusted and have no integrity. In addition, they're also extremely irresponsible.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Depends when i met him... when the baby is about to be born in days or in 9 month?

You get what i mean?

Ita a VERY BIG difference

Aslo... nope. no. He can go to his babymama

[Anonymous]

Lol absolutely not. Just block his ass wtf why even talk to this loser. No way.

[designer1]

I’d block him from having any part in my life.

[In_Trance]

stop interacting with your ex

[LazerBean]

Hell no.

[Minahh]

No I wouldn't