Honestly trying to talk sense into a stubborn old person is very hard. I just watch him work and it's like beating a dead horse. I just step away and laugh when you try to help them. It's so hard to fix stupid people especially when they pull the age question and then you ask them what will happen when you do this etc...
Stupid people are everywhere.
Sometimes older people apparently find it harder to learn something new, the same way you may find it harder learning something complex even at your age from someone who knows something really well and they give you a hard time when your the one in the ball pit or in the lion's cage trying to figure out the basics even. The basics even 👀👀👀👀🙃😏 maybe that's the food for thoughts sir? Without invalidating what you're saying. You're as correct, as a wiser older instructor teaching you the basics directly and harshly. Both are, not invalid , 😞. Intriguing, isn't it? ☺️🤗
An older person generally has more experience in life and has adopted opinions and ways of doing things that passed the test of time. For example, a few years ago I saw they are teaching how to calculate division problems differently in math. Young people were saying it is easier. To me, it is far easier to use the same method that I know well and can perform the math operation quickly and easily using the method I learned 45 years ago.
Would you want a random 5 year old telling you how to do things and telling you ”how it is”? To them you’re the 5 year old. You’re technically an adult sure, but the age difference is proportionally about the same as between you and the 5 year old and to them you’re basically a child how knows nothing and experienced nothing yet.
It's a pride thing plus a lot don't keep up with new developments and cling on to how they were first taught. It's a big problem in my industry (farming) where they continue to treat animals with medications that no longer work and ignore veterinary advice etc.
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Maybe they're stubborn, maybe they just don't want unsolicited advice. There could be many reasons depending upon the specific situation.
Experience tends to add to a person’s certitude as well as their wariness in accepting information that contradicts their experience.
That’s the thing with stupid people, it’s not an age thing, it’s just people doing their thing.
This is a generalization that is not based in fact. Many older people display a curiosity to learn new things. Maybe if you did not talk down to or ridiculed the person you might get better results.
Because they have seen it all before and are tired of the bullshit. More Republicans should be that way.
u They have so much experience so much wisdom that they don’t want a young guy being a shot caller or acting cocky so they stay their ground and let you know how it is
I’m kind of old, i’m 44
but I’m not stubborn for shit. But if you knew me, you would think what the fuck this guys got so much energy. Because I love doing all kinds of crazy shit. And you could probably talk me into just about anything.
A lifetime of habit wrapped in inflexible identity.
All people are stubborn. Older people are set in their ways but are open to change their opinion on certain things,
Why are young people so keen to generalize?
See? I bet you didn't like that either.
I am in my thirties and started to be stubborn, I can’t imagine what I will be when I am old
u I was stubborn before I was born
Are you sure it's not you being stubborn?
equality , you must be as well
It's how they cope
