Why do women think it's okay to hit men and if they men push them off them then they play the victim?

[massb]

I am not saying all I'm saying why do some women think that, that's okay? Because the law always favors women so they never ever face consequences for thier actions. Unless it's murder. Any other time they never do

[NamerOfStars]

Because they're raised with a far less developed sense of accountability. Spend your life hearing that your actions don't matter, and eventually you'll start to believe it. Or you'll refuse, and face social rejection on an overpowering scale. This is why domestic violence rates are so horrifyingly high among lesbian couples.

With women hitting MEN, you've got the combination of predators not having their violence taken seriously, and victims not having their bodily integrity, to say nothing of their safety and comfort, taken seriously, so...

[massb]

Thank you, men get hit all the time. And nothing happens

[SotiCoto]

I've got no patience for people who believe being protected by law or social standards makes them invincible. If they start behaving arrogantly because they're sure society has their back, I'd be only too willing to remind them that I don't respect the law NOR the standards of society.

I mean back when I was in school it did happen once. I got into a lot of trouble because some girl decided to slap me in the face because I disagreed with her... and I responded by punching her. I got in trouble and she didn't. They spent about a week trying to pressure me to apologise but I refused and they had to give up in the end.

[massb]

I second that, but I don't know when or if ever society is going to stop treating adult women like kids and start treating them like adults and hold them accountable.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

The same reason that some guys think its ok to hit women, anger issues where they were probably taught at a young age that hitting solves problems.

[msc545]

We know it's not ok. We get arrested and jailed based on women's unsupported allegations.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

And yet there are lots of guys who still do it, knowing they will possibly get in trouble

[msc545]

Try real hard to not provoke men.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

That's a terrible excuse. Women deserve to be hit because they somehow provoked a man? He can't use his words? What, is he a toddler and can only lash out?

[msc545]

This is not a matter of deserving or not deserving. Men will hit another man who provokes them even more readily than they will hit a woman. Women believe they can get away with saying anything to a man and their gender will protect them - until it doesn't.

Don't poke bears, and don't provoke men if you don't want to be hit. If you cannot help yourself, stay away from men altogether as well as bears.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

So yes, you are basically saying men are toddlers who hit when they get angry. Good to know.

[msc545]

I am not saying that, and you know I am not.

[grega239]

The difference is that if a man huts a woman, it was a deliberate choice.

When a woman hits, she doea so completely convinced he'll do nothing.

I'd slap a bear too if i believed it won't maul me.

[massb]

First off going to say it's not okay for anyone to hit anyone. But women are so protected they think they can do anything and suffer no consequences. Why would I hit someone that I'm not prepared to fight. Men know that if you provoke or hit a man he will fight you back. If women actually got in trouble for thier choices they wouldn't be doing shit like this.

[_piotr]

@Ez-Bri-Z_v2
If someone is attacked, one defends themselves. If you were attacked by someone who would try to injure you would you not push him off and run away or you would just stand there a take punches and scratches and kicks?

What a terrible thing victim did to try to defend himself? Sorry, but justifying mistreatment of others and protecting perpetrators is evil. I grew in house where I witnessed a woman often attacking defenceless man. She scratched his face to blood many times, smother him with a blanket while kicking him, or threaten to kill him with a knife. All because he, for example, was standing in her way or said something she did not liked. I was a small kid then, but I knew better to try to push her away. This was traumatic. I believe we all have rights to defend ourselves.

[massb]

Exactly thank you , that's what i was trying to explain to her

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

You're also misunderstanding. I'm not condoning a woman hitting a man and not expecting to get hit back. That's not how I was raised. My father always taught us that we are to defend ourselves when being hit.

I'm saying men hitting women in general is them not controlling their anger just the same as it is for a woman who hits a man.

[msc545]

Oh I see you're backpedaling now. What you were saying in the beginning is very different than this. I think secretly you think that when men hit women, it's the men's fault and when women hit men it's the man's fault. That is the impression that you've given so far. You're backpedaling isn't helping you.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

My first statement literally says that women who hit have anger issues where they were probably taught at a young age that hitting solves problems. I can't help your reading comprehension sucks.

I've been saying since the beginning it isn't right for women to do it.

[msc545]

You said it in a way that suggests you don't mean it. You keep referencing men's bad behavior and never reference women's.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

No, I said it was bad when both sexes did it. You then said "don't provoke men" leading into the rest. You assumed I was ok'ing women getting to hit men and not getting hit back. Again, I can't help your poor reading comprehension.

[grega239]

But the debate isn't about men.
Its about women feeling comfortable swinging at a man and cry about it if he swings back.

Stay on topic

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

It was about both. That's why my comment addressed both. You even said as much right now about men hitting women back. I'm saying that in both cases they are acting like toddlers.

Learn to read.

[msc545]

Insulting people doesn't help your argument.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Neither does trying to explain it to those who can't read and instead dogpile on a comment because their feelings got hurt because men were included in being called out for being toddlers for hitting just the same as women were.

But fair enough.

[msc545]

More insults. This is less than impressive and suggests you have nothing better to say.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

No, I have lots to say, but as long as you get my point then I'm done here

[grega239]

No i didn't.
I said the topic was about women hitting men and crying when they get hit back.

But here, i'll repharse it.
Why are women so comfortable hitting someone that is significantlly stronger?
And why do women play the victim when they get hit back?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

My answer remains the same as my first response.

But I'll rephrase it too:

Hitting = bad no matter who does it

Hitting = toddler behavior

Defending can = walking away, using your words to diffuse a situation, calling for assistance, etc

Defending doesn't have to = a OHKO on a woman just because you are stronger

Because...

Hitting = BAD

[msc545]

@grega239 That is obviously untrue.

[grega239]

Still haven't answered why women feel so comfortable doing it

[grega239]

@msc545 what is?

[msc545]

@grega239 What is what?

[grega239]

@msc545 what is obviously untrue

[msc545]

good

[msc545]

@grega239 That remark was for her, not you/

[hahahmm]

Because they never got punched/slapped. Eons ago, a drunk girlfriend slapped me. I instantly slapped her back. Just enough to send the message: don't f with me. She sobered up real quick and never tried it again. I don't start it. But I will finish it.

There was a case in Oregon where a beauty contest winner pretended to be attracted to a man so she could lure him somewhere & then another man she knew murdered him. She got a slap on the wrist & was even allowed to travel out of state while awaiting trial. If a woman has nice boobs and looks even a little good the judges & cops are practically slobbering on her. But it goes to show: be very careful what woman you bring into your life. They can get you killed in a lot of different ways. Drama queens for example... they get other people upset and then those people want to kill her boyfriend/husband.

[massb]

Damn that's great advice and very true statement. Thank you for the opinion

[hahahmm]

Check out my mytakes if you're interested in some other traditional ideas I have.

[massb]

I will for sure

[DarkLegacy]

Because outdated chivalrous men have tried to ram it home that it is never ok to hit a woman, and feminists have also backed this up whilst stating that it is ok for women to hit men. Feminism has also implanted it into women to play the victim card to get away with what they like.

It is also typical for women anyway to manipulate things round to favour themselves.

[massb]

Exactly, they know they will never face consequences that's the main reason. I'm sure they wouldn't be so quick to hit men if they actually start getting charged with assault like we would if we do

[Finchie40]

My ex use to hit me and throw things at me, when she had a mental breakdown, she suffers from PTSD anxiety and depression , and she would take her aggression out on me , I put an end to that shit

[massb]

That's good I'm happy for you and I don't know. why they act like that

[Drewtate]

A lot of women have been raised to think this way. That their actions and words have no consequences because they are female. I think that's why a lot of crazy Karen types are shocked when they fuck around and find out especially when they do with other women.

[massb]

Exactly my point and most times their right nothing happens. Even if it does the consequences are very minor if any

[Drewtate]

You often see that with lesbians in a toxic relationship, both pulling the victim card.

[massb]

Very true , but they don't want to see that. They always say men are the abusers

[_piotr]

Men should have right to defend himself and push women off. There is something awful about women, who think that, because they are protected class, may freely mistreat defenceless men.

[massb]

They know we don't have the right to and who will they believe in court always the women. I don't know why they think women can't lie

[msc545]

Because the law always favors women so they never ever face consequences for thier actions. Even in many cases if it IS murder. So women get away with assaulting men - yet another reason we want nothing to do with them mostly.

[massb]

Thank you I agree. Hopefully one day the laws will change if you hit someone you get charged with assault regardless of sex. That's why they will do it over and over again

[Anonymous]

Because a majority of the time it works. They know most men aren’t going to hit them back. Plus many of them are never taught responsibility. Feelings trump all things. So just play the victim, start crying. Automatically a majority of people side w the female before hearing what really happened.

[massb]

Yea very true smh

[DextroShade]

I have a rule with this: if I know I will let her get a shot or two for free, then I will put her in a submission hold if she continues; if I don't know her then I will deck her like I would a dude, and I have CCW in case any simp tries to be a white knight.

[AngryCarl]

Women are weaker than men so they develop this passive-aggressive mentality. Also they know what they can get away with.

[massb]

But if I'm weaker than someone why would I attack them. As guys we know this. Don't hit someone your not prepared to fight and don't hit someone if you don't want to get hit back

[ProbablyClueless]

Women are generally smaller enough that they don't think they can do any real damage. So they kind of excuse themselves because it's "not that big of a deal."

[massb]

Basically which is stupid it's still abuse

[Billlewis]

What's wrong with a woman smacking a guy upside the head once in a while?

[massb]

Lol very funny

[Paul09]

Blame the parents, especially the father. Which is ironic. "Daddies little princess" treatment is horrible.

[grega239]

Because they know we're not allowed to retaliate.

And if a man does hit back, he's the bad guy because we're expectes to just take it.

Must be nice.

[massb]

Very true

[massb]

But if you even you just push them off or defend yourself we go to jail. No consequences, will lead to people doing whatever they want

[Anonymous]

because they don't want actual equality, only selective equality that favors them

[JonCobretti]

Maybe because their hits are so weak that it can't even hurt a kitten?

[noohair]

I consider it ignorance when a woman hits a man. Low class slobs.

[Anonymous]

Probably cause they're weaker so they don't think it's a big deal.

[massb]

Smh thats probably true. But if we push them off to defend ourselves, we get in trouble

[msc545]

You don't have to be Strong to hurt somebody. All you have to do is pick up some sort of weapon like almost any household object Will do. Women pick up weapons and use them on men all the time. Try getting hit with a frying pot pan or stabbed with a kitchen knife and see if you think women are still weak.

[Opinion Owner]

@msc545 I'm more talking about her punching/kicking/slapping. It's of course different when knifes and frying pans are involved.

Also, I'm not defending them, I'm just saying this is most likely how they try to justify their bad behavior.

[Dongie]

Penis envy

[massb]

Lmfao

[Loner111]

It is not okay, it is unacceptable

[massb]

I know but they don't see that

[massb]

The law protects them so they women will keep doing it and getting away with it. But then play victim if we defend ourselves

[Loner111]

I mean, if I had a girlfriend and she hit me, I would be done with her.

Take care is what I would say, walk away and that's all. Because if u continue with her afterwards, she thinks she can do it and u will stay with her. A woman wouldn't stand for that from a man, so why should we?