Why Do Men Think It's Ok to Hit a Woman If She Did Not Hit Him First and Expect Her Not to Fight Back?

[BrownSugar00]

[bolverk]

I would flip the question, Why do women think that they can hit a man and not expect the man to fight back?
If you are in a relationship where your partner, irrespective of sex, hits you without provocation, then its time to walk away from that relationship, and after working hotel security I can tell you that more often than not it is usually the women who start throwing hands, and the guys going defensive, deflecting and smothering the blows from the woman, men know full well that if they fight a woman they way they would fight a man the woman would be seriously injured inside 20 seconds, women NEVER seem to grasp that.

[Billlewis]

They should be able to hit us occasionally, with no fear of reprisals. If it gets out of hand, then maybe.

[BrownSugar00]

That statement is invalid to this question. Just answer the question straight up.

[bolverk]

I did in the second paragraph - no its not alright

[236color]

Guys are told frequently, they are supposed to make the first move, confidence is sexy etc... Now, that depends on what you mean by "hit on". There's a big difference between "Would you like to go out with me", and grabbing you ass. For the first one just answer truthfully, for the second one, by all means fight back.

[236color]

I miss read this as "hit on" as in make advances as opposed to "hit" as in strike. If man hits you and you have the ability, KICK HIS MOTHERFUCKING ASS! It will teach him a valuable lesson. I took karate for 9 years at a female owned an taught dojo. Trust me guys there ARE women out there you don't want to mess with.

[Anonymous]

But is this really a thing? I mean yeah there are men who are abusive obviously, but I don't see guys saying it's ok. I think it's more the opposite actually, society and women thinking it's ok for women to hit men because they are weak women and they can't hurt a man, which is obviously false.

[leahzrc]

please don't capitalize every letter it is painful to read this. noone should be hitting anyone

[BrownSugar00]

Sorry it's painful for you to read, but that's how I publish.

[leahzrc]

I can't be the only one

[leahzrc]

just forget it

[DextroShade]

The majority of the time this happens the other way around: women will hit men and expect them not to hit back. The look on their faces when a man dies hit them back is priceless, that is why I loved the pussypassdenied subreddit back when I was on there.

[BrownSugar00]

If you can't give a straight answer regarding this question pertaining menchitting women, then don't answer. Thank you.

[DextroShade]

Your entire premise is bullshit and needed to be called out.

[ohmyguy]

No man thinks that it's OK
Woman. With attitudes perpetuate. This myth... and provoke it to be true... truth is this is a social hierarchy trying to impose egotistical.. nonsense battle of the alfa sexes... playing games with ethics n moralities they realy actually don't give a shit. about..
.. some men can do no wrong.. cause they usually correct at assuming woman in their company desire for them to have that exclusive power over them..

[OddBeMe]

That’s domestic abuse no matter which gender. Just had some research out that says women are just as prolific BUT not even close to being as deadly or injurious.

But it’s often brought up here if a woman hits a man can he hit back? I always say be the bigger person (which we are usually) and defend yourself until you can’t, then hit back. Some say you can hit back right away…. eesh

[Anonymous]

Honestly most men don’t think that way. I think it’s more of women who hit men but it never gets reported.

[Yannae]

People who think it's okay to attack anyone and expect them not to hit back is evil let's get that clear.

[DaBiggestBird]

First those are just douche bags and you Don’t have to be a male to be a douche bag just thought that should be clarified. Anyways, these people, they can be described in one word. ShcaLibritghhhhtt Ghutff-Torifan.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you believe that is what most men think, you need to change the group of guys you are hanging with.

[John_Cobretti]

Most men don't think like that , physical abuse is always a crime

[exitseven]

A real man would never hit a woman. Even if she hit him first. I know there are people on here that disagree with me but it is what it is.

[jahaims]

Literally don't know a single human who thinks that

[BrownSugar00]

Good that you don't know any like this then, huh

[Nifrayu]

Men don't think this is okay. Monsters do. I don't understand the psychological of abusers, but it doesn't matter to me because there are no valid excuses for this kind of behavior.

[Anonymous]

"Why do women think it's ok to hit a man if he did not hit her first and expect him not to fight back?"

There ^ I fixed it for you. This is a female phenomenon, not a male one.

[CallmeTheKnight]

That’s something you have to ask those abusive men that those women are obviously choosing.
Plus, a violent person will always be violent

[love_conquers_lust]

Men don’t. Boys do. Typically girls have been the ones who struck us, most of the time it was because we teased them. It was fun.

[MikeInHawaii]

I see this attitude in women all the time. I don’t know many men who publicly would hit a woman.

[RedInnocent68]

Do they really though? I don’t think it’s ok. Dick-slapping though 🤔😉😂

[Willlovewinintheend]

I don't any guy that thinks that. Maybe you should find new people to hang around with.

[Anonymous]

Those men obviously aren't good people. I don't know what you us to say about it. Why do women think it's ok to hit men first? Some people are just bad.

[Opinion Owner]

*what you want us to say about it

[Anonymous]

What men? I don't see any media that shows him hitting women without being attacked first and not be portrayed as the bad guy.

I see that for women in media all the time though, and the show always tries to justify it.

[Luckycharms12]

I've never hit a woman never will if get that angry walk away.