Why was it so much easier to get laid when I was in my teens and early 20s?

[Anonymous]

When I was in high school it was easy to get laid. Girls would be twerking, and grinding on you, it was this Miley Cyrus gone crazy after being a Christian good girl era. Super easy to get girlfriends, and sex. College came along and it was a drug fest, going to raves, and getting fucked up, so sex came easy. Right after college, and boom, Trump came along, the metoo movement came along, going to parties, bars, raves, was perceived as more deadbeat like, and sort of had like a stigma to it, like you are too old. After that it kept getting worse, the pandemic came and people stopped socializing completely outside of Miami’s party seen the whole country just stopped socializing during Covid-19, and after that it was never the same, and it wasn’t over yet the Supreme Court came and overturned Roe V. Wade, and abortion became illegal in Miami, and ruined the last of it completely for the last place still doing it in the country.

[4ngelic]

when girls are young they're less likely to be cuffed and they're more likely to be into hookups, drinking, partying etc so it's relatively easy to have fun. Once you get to a certain age, people stop doing that and start getting into serious relationships, and then marriage & babies. so it gets harder and harder to smash

[chrissykerdock]

easy the dating pool is shrinking girls as they age will get married have kids

[dudegreat91]

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[Anonymous]

Because there weren't MeToo statutes and firing squads not COVID which scared many into hiding

Now they are smart enough to see how bad overpopulation is and that the planet has about 30 years supporting humanity

[Sonorous]

Because of perceived Looks, Money, or Status. If any of those go down through the eyes of others, so does your smv. Which means you get laid less.

[Asker]

I get the feeling there was a sex recession partly caused by my generation. It was the first generation that didn’t have to worry about dying from AIDS because of proper medicine. I think social media, rise of right wing politics and left wing pushback, and the pandemic, caused a sex recession. I think in my ways my generation went harder than boomers in the sexual revolution, and this was just a pushback.

[Sonorous]

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[Asker]

I just don’t see it like it used to be. I think people are more monogamous now. I don’t think people are just single but the crazy sex times seem to be a thing of the past. Not even going off the Internet idea which I believe has some truth to it. I think there has been a criminalization of sex workers, a hostile political environment nobody cared about politics when I was a teenager besides really old people like retirement age, it seems like teens are obsessed with it now. It was the start of the opiate epidemic when I was growing up and I think drugs and sex mix together well, I think this gen z generation is more sober. I think it’s a long mix of things. I don’t fully agree with the incel media narrative, and think it’s far more complex, but I do believe there is a male loneliness epidemic, something that didn’t exist when I was growing up but I think both sexes, including the LGBT community (partly due to right wing pushback), is having less sex than in 2008-2016.

[Asker]

Seems to be the times I’m getting laid now are from long term relationships, and tinder dates with single moms. The days of going to a rave, grinding with a girl who was twerking, and high on molly, are long gone. I once got laid in high school just because I had a small amount of weed on me. I also once raw dogged a tourist from Florida who was on vacation, now abortion is illegal in Florida, that situation likely would have not happened.

[Apple1996]

More opportunities when you are young because you are meeting more new people especially in high-school/college. Even just meeting new friends is easier during those times but harder as adults

[Asker]

I think I had it easier than young people today. I think political events, made it harder. I also believe with the Gen X generation people growing up in the 80s and 90s had it harder than me also because of the AIDS epidemic. I think the baby boomers post Vietnam crazy hippie generation, and my generation the millennials, which the HIV is cured by basic medicine and no longer was a death sentence, no political events causing division, had it much easier than Gen X, and Gen Z, did.

[Asker]

The politics have to change for the next generation coming up, this Andrew Tate red pill stuff with the guys, or this I’m not any Zionists stuff with the girls needs to stop now. Nothing good will come out of it, when I was growing up we didn’t care about politics, or global events.

[Apple1996]

Maybe but millennials as a whole were just a mess. Gen z seems to be in more serious relationships/marriages so maybe they are having less hook ups

[Asker]

Way more serious.

[Apple1996]

I know personally as a teen I had a lot of opportunities to have random sex but I was saving it for someone special. The idea of casual sex didn't interest me at all. It just seems icky

[Asker]

I took all of them, and I don’t regret it at all because I would have missed out big time. I was fucked over by multiple women, ending up cheating on me with some dude who they thought as more successful than me, and I wasn’t even bothered that much in part of the fact that I got laid so much.

[Apple1996]

I just don't get the hype of that like having multiple sex partners isn't a flex especially for men 🤢 it's easy enough to get with only serious partners rather than the whole town 😂

[Apple1996]

Men having self control and sexual discipline makes them more attractive and sexy. I'm guessing between generations there was just a shift in how people view sex

[Anonymous]

Assume every girlfriend you had you had to be the one to ask her out