Girls, Why is it so easy for girls to get laid?

[Anonymous]

Why is it so easy for you despite the fact that you don't have to spend hours in a gym everyday, be tall, be rich, look like a model/actor etc which are things us men require in order to get laid.

It's very depressing seeing your posts about having sex with your boyfriends and talking about hooking up with random guys. I wish I was that guy, I wish I was that boyfriend you talk about having sex with.

I'm 23 years old still a virgin, never kissed a girl, never even touched a girl, never been told I am handsome, never received any affection from the opposite sex. And it can only be for one reason and that is because I am Indian (asia), from Africa, because I don't drink alcohol/drugs/smoking and I am not bad.

[Anonymous]

From the sound of things, your attitude sounds like your real source of your girl troubles.
You can't judge an entire gender based on a limited experience, especially with such negative sweeping statements. You seem unwilling to accept any indication that you might be at fault for your lack of experience and reluctant to alter your situation at all to try and improve it.
I can't speak for all women either but I find that only blaming women as the cause of all their issues is one of the most unattractive qualities a guy can have.

[Asker]

But it's ok for you women to say all men are pigs, all men are sexist, all men this and that?

It's ok for you women to complain and blame all men for your problems. Why do you oppose Free Speech so much? Why are women allowed to say what they want? Why are you allowed to bully men because of the size of our dicks, make racist and sweeping generalizations about men of a certain race to feed your egos.

This is why I don't agree with feminism because it only allows women the right to criticise men but forbids men from any form of Free Speech.

And I cannot alter my race you hate Indian men and there is nothing I can do to change that because I can't fix racist people.

[Opinion Owner]

Sweetheart, if you'd care to actually read before your tirade, I didn't say that "all men" are anything - just the fact that your attitude (and yours alone in this context) is rather toxic.
I'm sincerely hoping you're just trolling here but the sad fact is I know there are some men out there who genuinely behave like this - and quite frankly, it's frightening.

[Asker]

I didn't say you said all men. I said it is ok for you women to say all men are...

Typical feminazi crap, trying to silence people for having an opinion and speaking out. Im used to the troll silencing tactic but it doesn't work with me. Just goes to show how evil and fascist some people are.

[Opinion Owner]

If you hate women so much, why are you so desperate to sleep with one?

[Asker]

Bwahaha nice strawman. So because I called you a feminazi it means I hate all women? bwahahaha. So if I say pitbulls are a violent breed it means I hate all dogs? Feminazis are not a representative of all women so no I do not hate all women just feminazis some are even men.

[Opinion Owner]

I've got much stronger foundation for saying that than you saying I hate all Indian men. Now there's a straw man argument.

[Princess-alexandra]

Based on your description and the comments on other girls' opinions, the reason you've been single is because you blame everything on girls and wallow in self pity. We're not interested in that. If you want to find a girl who likes you, go out and meet people and think about what you can do that would attract girls.

[Asker]

Im sure you would think so highly of yourself if everyone around you always brings you down, insults you race, and bullied you because of your appearance throughout your childhood.

[Princess-alexandra]

Sticks and stones may break your bones but words should not hurt you. Why listen to what people tell you if you know it's not true? And it is not fair to use your race as an excuse because I know plenty of Indian guys who are in happy relationships

[Asker]

Would you like it if everyday your race was bashed? Would you like it everytime you see people saying (assuming you're white) "argh these white people are scammers, they stink and they treat their women like X, Y and Z"? Would you like it if you constantly heard people saying "lol white girls are ugly they stink and they're short etc"? You say that you see "plenty of white women with Indian men" but I see zero. All I see is white girls with black men and white men. I only see the opposite Indian girls with white guys. I don't see white girls with Indian men on TV, I don't see Indian men in leading roles alongside white women in movies, all I see is SJW commercials showing white women with black men.

How can I think positively about my own race when everyone things negatively about my race? And it is not an excuse it's a fact, look at porn there is no "hot white girl gets f3cked by Indian cock" it's always "hot white girl gets f3cked by bbc".

[Asker]

I am also tired of Indian people being called scammers, and annoying tech support. I am also not responsible for any white person losing their job because some company outsourced to India.

[SHEKNOWS]

I'll tell you why! It's because men have low standards!!! Dude, you're doing nothing wrong and I'm truly sorry you feel depressed when you see these kinds of posts. I'm sure you're a good guy!

I hope you feel better about yourself it's society that's flawed!

[snowangle]

Both guys I've slept with were poor and very average looking. One worked out from time to time but certainly wasn't ripped; the other was pretty out of shape. I will say one was taller, maybe 6', and the other was 5'8".

Sooo maybe don't blame your frustrations on us? Clearly we don't have unrealistic expectations. Just learn some social skills maybe.

[Asker]

Yes I've heard it all from you women, you say we must be nice but you sleep with bad boy douchebags, you say we must act this way and that way and approach you a certain way but go for guys who do the opposite.

And it is not my fault my race is negatively portrayed. I did nothing wrong.

[snowangle]

I said nothing about being nice. I said get some social skills. Be fun to hang out with, and girls will believe you're fun to sleep with too.

[Asker]

Social skills = be nice and everything that puts guys in the friendzone.

You didn't say anything about race but that is what most women believe.

Also if "being fun to hang out with" is what it takes to get laid then why is the bad boy douchebags get all the women?

[snowangle]

Bad boys tend to be fun to hang out with! They're relaxed and confident and often they're pretty funny or charming.

Also that's not what social skills are. Social skills mean being able to hold a conversation, be witty and make jokes.

[Asker]

ikr they're so fun abusing women and referring to women as hoe and bitch, cheating, making you pregnant and then refusing to pay child support.

And those men you naive immature girl are cunning they know how to manipulate women to get sex they are not genuine.

[Asker]

Does social skills also involve buying and drinking alcohol since I refuse to drink or buy alcohol. i know you women of my generation find guys who do not drink alcohol "boring".

I will just go to India and get married to a boring vegetarian hindu.

[snowangle]

Lol okay do that. Clearly you have it all figured out.

[Asker]

Yes I have it all figured out because you white women hate all Indian men and you have made it obvious that the only way a man can get laid is to be bad and abusive. I refuse to be bad and I refuse to be abusive. I also refuse to be nice to women because you say it is creepy.

[snowangle]

Funnily enough, neither of the guys I've slept with were abusive. Funny how that works.

[Asker]

You said bad boys are "fun" and I am saying bad boys = abusive assholes.

[erica1999]

guys tend to not care as much as girls do when looking for a partner. this makes it easier for us to find one. guys are also a lot more open when they approach someone. girls tend to hold out, making us seem like more of a catch because you worked harder for it

[Kitten967]

I've never been with a guy who goes to the gym everyday, is tall, rich and looks like a model actor. Most guys I've been with are avergae looking, my height or a little taller and not rich at all. You dont need them things to get laid.

[Asker]

Then why am I still a virgin at the age of 23? I also have a crooked nose.

[Kitten967]

Maybe the girls you've been meeting aren't into you or you've been going about it wrong or maybe it's just where you live and the girls are too picky

[Asker]

I don't meet anyone, I don't go out, I don't talk to anyone. I am in a situation where I cannot go out, I moved to the U. S 7 years ago because my father passed away and it's just me and my mother, we have been moving from state to state over the last 7 years because jobs are not steady so wherever there is an opportunity we move so I have not lived in one place long enough to be able to go out because 1. I do not know anyone 2. It is not safe to go out alone in a place you don't know.

[Kitten967]

Well that's probably why you're still a Virgin then. Also if you work or go to college or go to clubs you can meet people through them. I'm sure you don't spend all your time indoors

[Asker]

Fine you move to a new country and see if it is easy to go alone anywhere.

You probably live in the same town, same street, and same house you were born in. The only place I can go out is the town where I was born and that is 3000 kilometers away. Also I do not like clubs since I don't like drugs or rap music. I would rather go to a EDM rave in Europe than some shitty club where they blast drake and whatever is the popular rap these days.

[Kitten967]

I live in the same town but not the same house or Street. I've also moved towns before but I went to college in the town I moved to so it wasn't that hard to meet people. I also didn't mean clubs where you go to drink I meant like games clubs or anime clubs or something. It's not that safe to go out on your own but you have to do stuff on your own eventually. You can't just sit in the house all day not going anywhere

[Asker]

You think I like being indoors everyday doing nothing? You are living in the same country you were born in, you speak the same as everyone, look the same as everyone, like the same things (music, sports) as everyone.

I don't speak like everyone, I speak with a South African accent, I don't like American Football, I don't like basketball, I don''t like baseball, I don't like modern rap music, I don't look like everyone else, Im just always the one Indian from Africa in a sea of white people and black people so of course people will hang out with and associate with people who are like them.

[Asker]

And I can't and refuse to hang out with other Indian people because they don't like me because I speak English and not their native language, because I come from a Christian background and they are hindu and I am not a vegetarian.

[Kitten967]

I don't look the same as everyone and I don't like the same as everyone else. I don't know that many people who like the same things I do. No you probably don't like being indoors that often but you aren't exactly doing anything to solve it.

[Asker]

You are white everyone around you is white, you go and watch those college basketball things, super bowl etc and you attend those tailgate things, you talk with your peers about the game last night etc. But I can't say hey did you watch the soccer match yesterday? Or talk about my favourite team.

Just in the same way if say for example you moved to the U. K you wouldn't go attend a "soccer" party or watch the big soccer game because you don't or wouldn't like it and prefer NFL.

[Kitten967]

I don't like basket ball, I don't like super bowl, I don't go to tailgates; I don't talk to my peers about the game last night since I don't watch or like sports. I'm already from the UK so It would be like me going to America. I just wouldn't do the stuff I don't like. I'd look for games clubs to join and meet people like that or meet people at the college I go to or where I work.

[Kitten967]

Just because everyone is white where I live doesn't mean we all like the same things. I like video games, anime, rock music and gothic fashion. I hardly know anyone who likes them things

[Asker]

I've looked and searched but there is no Cricket club, only Football (soccer) clubs and they're always far from where I live like halfway across the country far.

[Kitten967]

That is far for a club, well I'm not sure what to suggest. If you don't work or go to college or anything like that you'll probably never meet other people. You could try online dating or something like that

[Asker]

I want to work but I hate night shifts and I hate sweeping, mopping and folding things.

[Kitten967]

Couldn't you do day shifts?

[Asker]

They don't give new comers day shift.

[Kitten967]

Really? That's weird

[Kitten967]

Why don't you apply for places that only do day shifts

[Asker]

I have.

[Dwiller924]

Because most guys usually start off thinking with their private parts 1st; causing them to try to fuck us right away. But most of us women usually start off thinking with our minds 1st; causing us to have more respect for ourselves to not be so interested in fucking right away.

[Asker]

You think with your brain? Thats news to me since you women irrationally go for abusive men aka "bad boys" and irrationally choose your sex partners by looks, penis size, physical appearance etc.

[Jennyg123]

because pussy is pussy my friend lol. many guys can be much less picky when it comes to the success or overall stability of a woman when they're only thinking with their little head.

[Asker]

None of that matters since I am Indian. You all hate Indian men for no reason other than (insert stereotype) .

[Anonymous]

It's not easy for every girl. I've never touched a guy. It may seem easy because some guys will have sex with anyone but most girls at least ones that I know wouldn't have sex unless they meant something to them.

[Asker]

But no matter what your race is, your physical appearance, your financial status, your height some guys will find you attractive.

[Opinion Owner]

True but that doesn't mean I'll have sex with them or any of them want a relationship

[Asker]

But you know that when you are ready you will find someone but me I will never have sex because I am Indian (you all hate Indian men), I don't have six pack abs, I'm not 6ft tall, Im not rich, I don't drive an expensive car, I don't drink alcohol, don't smoke and don't do drugs.

[Opinion Owner]

Nationality, body type, financial status doesn't matter. I know a lot of people that aren't Indian that haven't done anything either.

[Asker]

Then why do you all say Indian men are ugly, and you say a man must be 6ft tall, have a big dick, must be this and that then he can be considered attractive?

[Opinion Owner]

I never said anyone was ugly. I don't care about height, size, or anything like that. I've been attracted to a lot of different types of men.

[narange]

Some ladies could be desperate, others get tricked in lies.

[Paris13]

Because of Guys like you Here, dear.
Good Luck. xx

[Asker]

Hahaha lets laugh at someones misfortunes. I hope I helped you feed your ego.

[Sparklegemz]

Not all girls.