Is responsibility not part of a womans maturity?

[Sharkstealth]

My sister felt that I am responsible for her dead beat son.

I've never known a female who did not get in to credit card debt and then get themselves out in late teens to early 20s.

I've know a few gals who have wanted to live with me but as women felt that it should be expense free on their part.

[NaultD]

Ability and to gain higher "sense of agency." Is higher in males while calling agency "responsibly" is the fastest to take away agency from someone being criticized.

In the same way not getting drunk and while driving is how responsible a person is. compared to lacking agency getting killed by said drunk driver. You're getting fucked right?

So analyze how much agency your sister had and actively is getting compromised or help gaining by yourself in fair analyzes.

Like "No spoiling diner with candy in an hour." You hear that and become willy Wonka. She is being responsible but you are actively shitting on her agency so keep that in mind. Hope that make sence.

[Sharkstealth]

She was harassing me and calling me selfish because I wouldn't let her son live with me for free with no intention of getting a job.

[NaultD]

Potentially a soft adoption that turns into a real adoption. What ever is best for the child and who knows what the future.

Life is hard and you have to have a brave face or the world will eat you alive. That's the agency part what control you have at any given moment at any time.

If you have full agency life agency life can be amazing. The world beating you down life is not worth living for yourself. I think it's brave to say my child is in danger from my lack of agency and something anything needs to be done.

[Serkee]

It is, but today's society teaches women to be immature. They want traditional men who pay for and take responsibility for everything, but refuse to be traditional women themselves.

[MzAsh]

Can you clarify how your personal experiences with a few women inform your views on the maturity and responsibility of all women?

[Sharkstealth]

Were you not in credit card debt and a member of your family got you out? I said it wrong on the remarks.

[MzAsh]

I didn’t have credit cards until I was at least 25, and I’ve always paid my own debts off.

[Sharkstealth]

Power to you but most gals I have known we're bailed out by parents.

[Sharkstealth]

It's no secret that credit cards are most husbands worst nightmare.

[MzAsh]

My parents weren’t exactly wealthy, so it was either sink or swim since I’ve been out on my own. And I have too much pride to mooch off others as a habit

[Vegasrunner]

Good question, most women aren't held accountable so they never lean how to be responsible.