Where is a space you can ask feminists ANY question and they will not get mad?

[Anonymous]

[normalice]

Anywhere with actual feminists and with questions meant to seek knowledge instead of questions meant to push an agenda or vent a persecution complex.

[Asker]

Such a place I have never seen. Even the most educated feminists I've seen on reddit are always a hair's bredth away from exploding.

[normalice]

That seems like something in your imagination. I consider myself a feminist, for example. You've made me chuckle slightly but not even the idea of getting mad has crossed my mind.

But it's also true that if your basis is then internet there is a lot of skewing going on. Not only does anonymity guarantee that at least a few of the feminists you encounter online are actually just right wingers trying to make feminists look unhinged, but it's also the case that people on then internet generally don't say anything unless it's complaining. Your "question" for example. You "ask" anonymously, of course, but I doubt you have a history of "questions" where you ask about how praiseworthy something is.

[Asker]

I actually study feminism on a scholarly level and even on that level feminists are unhinged. Don't make me do a bunch of homework to come up with tons of references for you. I'm not doing that. If you dont know this truth you don't know anything.

It's common on a scholarly level for people to have fights and act crazy actually. Not just feminism but different sciences and philosophies from the past 2000 years until modern day.

It's just that overall the feminists are the worst about it. I know wtf I'm talkimg about sonny boy.

[normalice]

Well, the problem is I don't actually believe you. You're obviously here to push an agenda instead of having a real curiosity about an answer to your question. And since you are dissimulating at least to that extent I have no reason to believe you aren't just a full on paid troll - nor is there really a way to prove you aren't as the claim that you aren't can only be of benefit to you if you are.. Election season is wild, yknow?

[slatyb]

Here's a question for you. Let's see if you get mad.

Why are you so fucking stupid?

[Asker]

Why would I be mad when you are the one asking a stupid question?

[Asker]

Oh I didn't get it. I guess you're a feminist? I made you mad with just this question. I dontget that.

[slatyb]

Of course you don't get it, because you are fucking stupid.

[Asker]

Lol what evidence do you have for that claim? If I am stupid it might be helpful for you to explain exactly why. Inb4 evasion saying I'm dumb for not knowing. Evade harder please. Or not.

[NamerOfStars]

An opium den. NOBODY gets mad when they're stoned to the gills.

[John_Cobretti]

Bruh, feminists are mad the the very existence of men , what makes you think you can ask them a question without pissing their purple head?

[Agape93]

Ask me

[Asker]

Okay I will but I have to go work and do stuff so I'll ask later! Thanks.

[Agape93]

Anytime

[Asker]

Okay here is my question. Why is it wrong for men to be worried about the sexual nature of women?

Or maybe I should phrase it like this:

Most women BDSM freaks and in order for men to improve in dating men need to get on the "bdsm spectrum."

Meaning men need to learn what women want. Men have been trying to learn what women want. I as a man have figured it out. I have become a lover who can make a woman cum for hours and hours and hours on end. I can make a woman wallow on pleasure for as long as I wish. I can make any woman addicted to me.

And it's all because I figured out the truth. It's because I finally understood why literally EVERY woman I've been with previous to understanding, wanted me to hurt them, bite them, choke them, "play rape" them, and worse.

I now know that most women are looking for a man to be her BDSM "daddy."

Why don't we educate men what women really want? Why is it that women deny these truths? Just because some small amount of women are not into some kind of BDSM.

The world of men have been trying to figure out women since the dawn of humanity and I know I found the key.

Women literally want men to dominate them. In that special way that women like. Key words "that special way women like."

The world of men is lost and angry at women. We can't figure out why women don't like us. Why bad men get all the girls and good guys don't.

Because women can tell when a man is capable of being Mr BDSM in the bedroom, outside of the bedroom.

And I know for a fact that women are looking at men and observing their behaviors and determining if a man is capable or not and rejecting him before he ever asks, because she knows what's up in the bedroom.

Why can't women just admit these truths and try to educate men as to what women want?

I think the world will be a better place when men understand what WOMEN want in the bedroom.

[Asker]

And I don't mean any kind of arbitrary "masculinity and dominance" that causes men to act like bad boys in some false sense.

I mean precisely the way that women want it and women like it. This is a truth that is very hard for most men to understand. We don't understand why women want to be dominated, degraded, assaulted, and so on.

Why not just spill the beans and improve sex for women everywhere?

They talk about an orgasm gap. You realize when your fetishes are for rapes, abuse, and degradation, vanilla sex is not going to be good enough.

Most women are looking for the sex of their dreams. Sex that takes them to a spiritual plane. Sex that takes them to hell, then to heaven, and back to hell again.

Thats what women want and I'm not allowed to talk about it. I'm not allowed to ask about it. I am considered a troll. I am considered some evil red pill guy

Well I'm none of those things. I am a good man who figured out the truth after many years of wondering.

I'm sure you're upset by my words. If so just forget about it and don't even reply. I'm looking for genuine discussion about this.

I believe it is relevant. I know feminism as an intellectual pursuit doesn't believe this to be a valid realm of pursuit. I have studied feminism on the intellectual level. I believe feminists are purposefully evading this BDSM aspect of female sexuality.

[Asker]

One could argue this BDSM aspect is socially derived or evolutionary derived. I honestly don't know. Either it's created by the patriarchy or its created by biology. It doesn't matter for the purposes of teaching men what women want, closing the orgasm gap, and making people more happy in their lives. Especially women. I know most women are starving for their dream BDSM scenarios played out in real life.

If only men understood this truth. Men could be GOOD men, who do what women want in the bedroom. Relationships would be better. Last longer. Love would be abundant. And so on.

Sorry if my words offend you but this is more important than you realize. And this is a major blind spot for feminists.

[Agape93]

Its not wrong to worry about it. Sex and sexuality is messy, literally and metaphorically and not everyone is into the same stuff, or is even ok with it.

Like for me, as an example. I get off on seeing and feeling how others react to what I do. I'll do stuff otherwise, but it's not strictly my own kink. Not every girl is into bdsm, some just want spanking or dirty talk, some like my girlfriend want to literally cut into you and make you scream. Some just want loving affirmations, some dont even want sexual contact at all. So that nuance of individualistic natures makes sexuality a deeply complicated problem to navigate. Especially for guys.