Is it ok to call Americans from southern states as Confederates behind their back in a joking manner?

[ggrurrllz]

[avery58]

Umm... Why? You know that not all Americans from Southern states are white right? I'm Hispanic and I would feel weird with someone calling me a Confederate... Even as a joke. I just don't identify with it.

Personally, I'm okay with people I trust making offensive jokes but it should at least be something I identify with. I wouldn't get mad but it would feel plain weird or annoying.

[avery58]

Also you shouldn't say anything that you don't have the guts to say in a person's face

[ggrurrllz]

why not? cos you're sensitive?

[avery58]

No, like I said as a principle one should only say something if they have the balls to say it to someone's face, pretty simple and fair don't you think?

[ggrurrllz]

what principle is this? people might tolerate you for their own reasons and say shit behind your back.
but you'd say "you don't know me!!!" eh? that's illogical. keep on with your imaginary rules and worlds=view you learnt as a little girl from your retarded church pastor. nobody has to give a fuck about you or me or anybody else.

[avery58]

You're not getting it, it's not so much about having respect but character.

[DrPepper12]

Or to their face... And a solid majority would take it as a compliment.

[ggrurrllz]

good then. people know you're a racist. but who posts about kindness and tolerance and is sensitive and has rules in his head from his church that he cannot be judged.

[ggrurrllz]

lol. grown 51 year old man who doesn't get how people behave hahaha. sorry I've "judged you". i just never got a memo that people had to warm to you. as a supposed healthy human, you'd mentally process and take it.

[DrPepper12]

WTF are you trying to say and why did it take two days for you to say it? 🤔

[nolabels]

Why would anyone do such a thing?

[ggrurrllz]

Since they're not sensitive like you. and don't think like Hitler and exclude when you can just live your life.

[Surely]

Depends upon what the person that you are talking to feels about it. You can call me Yankee to my face. Cause it doesn’t bother. I have been called worse!

[jahaims]

It wouldn't be considered funny if that is what you are going for. It would just be weird.

[Yabbut]

Why not say it to their faces?

[ggrurrllz]

Oh i have. and what have they done? not much. why ca't people think of you as confederates?

[Yabbut]

Probably because I've never lived in the south.

[ggrurrllz]

But if you are happy with it, then they can do as they please and say as they please. and? aren't people entitled to their opinions?

[Yabbut]

Of course you can say whatever you please. You asked about talking about people behind their backs. I merely asked why you wouldn't say it to their faces, as talking about people behind their back is childish and cowardly.

[ggrurrllz]

but then you're born "special" and cannot be judged.
sorry, i don't follow imaginary rules from thin air.

[ggrurrllz]

says who? people have their reasons. did your church as a little girl tell you everything in life is formulaic?
but then you have thoughts and beliefs in your head that have no basis in reality. since you hate being judged, when you lack the internal confidence and airs to ignore them looooool. weirdo.

[Yabbut]

Are you okay? You're reply has absolutely nothing to do with what I said.

[ggrurrllz]

it does. it's the truth. and it's funny. since it's symptomatic of your brain.
and it's funny to pick out and exploit. since you cannot handle random strangers having any view they want of you. of course, the imaginary rule of being "special". all cos your church as a little girl said hahaahhaa.

[Yabbut]

I don't know what they teach kids in church. I wasn't raised in the church. I've never been a fan of organized religion. It comes off as corrupt.

[ggrurrllz]

didn't you say you're from India? I guess it's from your pandit and temple. tell me "you don't know me!!" i don't care. you're human, so handle it. you're not anybody i need to give a fuck about.

[gatixek710]

Go for it. I'll wear it as a badge of pride.

[ggrurrllz]

Good! then you prove the point and we'll now who is the racist fuck!!

[gatixek710]

Awww, you called me a racist? Guess how that affects me? Absolutely zero.

[ggrurrllz]

loool. good! You're the one with imaginary rules, right? loooool.

people can judge you. handle it. most do. you don't. you're not special hahahha. weirdo.

This is your brain "I'm special! you've never seen me before, but you must love meeeeeee!!!" hahahahahaa.

go and beat me then, since violence makes right. hahahaha. or process your thinking, weirdo.

[ggrurrllz]

i'm serious. go and beat me for violating the rule you learnt in your church as a little boy, that you're special and cannot be "judged" hahahaha. what a dumbfuck rule from thin air hahahahaha. your pastor was clearly retarded.