Why are women so against the idea of paternity testing?

[Anonymous]

This is something i have seen a lot, Even France made it illegal for men to get paternity tests for their children without the consent of the mother. Yet places like Tennessee (this should be everywhere by the way) are making it mandatory at birth. Why are women so against this? Women never have to worry about weather or not a child is theirs unless the hospital messes up. Where as men have ZERO such guarantee. And yet women get offended by the idea of a man wanting paternity testing. Its almost as if women expect us men to NEVER doubt them, when women are just as capable of lying if not more so.

Ladies its for our peace of mind. Ever asked your boyfriend or husband to comfort you after a bad dream? A paternity test is literally the same thing to us. It kills a fear, an intrusive irrational thought that doesn't have a basis in realty. Let me put it a different way. Say you're a woman who has nightmares constantly. What if you were told that a simple cheek swab would permanently end those nightmares, wouldn't you want that? Its the same for men. Its sad that a lot of women aren't intelligent enough to understand that.

See the below video for context. Please watch before commenting. Insults will be deleted.

[HighValue]

1/3 of paternity tests come back negative. There is valid data and statistics that show it is so common for women to cheat and fraudulently trick a man into raising another's child that paternity tests need to be mandatory.

Most women don't want to be held accountable for their actions/decisions. They want the law to treat them like children when it comes to responsibility. They want to cheat and make the wrong man pay for and raise kids, and trick the kids into believing the wrong person is the father too. (They really should be charged with child abuse and fraud for that and go to prison for years. At least one year per year they defrauded the man, and one more year for each year they abused the kid.)

It is just like how most of them don't like prenuptial agreements. They want to continue abusing men.

Anyone that stays friends with someone that cheats, steals from, or abuses others is guilty too and shouldn't get upset when others treat them the same way. That is one of the problems. Women OFTEN stay friends with and are supportive of other women that have very bad moral behavior, which encourages more bad morals.

[Zack-Bann]

Without fail every woman here illustrated the problem


Wanting a test does NOT mean we suspect cheating.


It’s an easy and harmless examination that creates real tangible proof that your kid is yours


And since the teat happens between a father and his supposed own kid the idea of the mother having a say in it is hypocritical


“My body my choice”


Or have we forgotten that little slogan

[MzAsh]

It’s interesting how you equate a paternity test to comforting someone after a bad dream, framing it as a simple solution to quell fears. However, this comparison overlooks the significant trust and relationship dynamics involved. While it’s valid for anyone to seek assurance in a relationship, paternity tests, unlike reassurances from nightmares, involve deep questions about fidelity and trust.


If trust is a foundation of a relationship, how do paternity tests fit into this without implying suspicion or doubt? Isn’t the need for such a test possibly a symptom of deeper issues in the relationship that a swab won’t fix?

[Capewonder]

Please this has nothing to do with trust. It’s the simple fact that a lot of you women are lairs and want the ability to pin a baby on any man because you can’t keep your legs close. DNA testing would prove a lot of you women are liars deceitful and can’t take accountability for your actions. It’s not that the man wants a dna test it’s the fact that you don’t want the world to see your as a lair period point blank.

[MzAsh]

Men lie just as much as women but of course, you don’t want to admit that do you? Nope because you’re the one lying.

[Asker]

Nah women just get away with lying easier than men. Doesn't mean men don't lie just as much as women.

But when you have 1/3 of all paternity tests coming back that the father is indeed not the father, it leads one to believe that legislation like that is necessary. You can disagree all you like, but in my opinion, when child support mandatory in all 50 states, and no giving up one's rights doesn't stop that, then having a guarantee that said child they are paying for is actually theirs is a good thing.

Besides you're the kind of woman who likely believes that an 11 year old boy who was raped by his baby sitter should be on the hook for child support too. Because according to women like you, only women can suffer sexual assault, not men. Only women can suffer rape, not men. Only women can suffer domestic violence, not men.. And women never lie about who the father is.

[MzAsh]

Who are women like me and how do you know?

[Asker]

Just basing it in your responses, any time men bring up any issues they have in society, you ridicule, belittle, and put down those that talk about it. Just giving you a taste of your own medicine.

[MzAsh]

What things have I said that has ridiculed or belittled someone for saying something?

[Kelley1]

When the husband is not around, wives are always snooping. In other words, we have doubts.

[Kelley1]

However, that is not the same thing because there is always a chance we might have the opportunity to f**k our dream movie star or in some cases a guy that is exceptionally attractive. That is something that absolutely we would want to do but a paternity test takes away that opportunity. Therefore, of course, we object to paternity testing.

[Kelley1]

Thank you for the MHO.

[RavVid]

Guilty conscience? I guess innocent women are going to be offended by the slur and guilty women are scared of being caught out.

France's approach is pretty stupid because a man can have a test done surreptitiously quite easily. He might have to be careful in disclosing that he knows "his" child is not his but he could still act on it.

The real world is that paternity can be established with great certainty and both men and women now have to accept this reality.

[msc545]

Women are worried that their cheating will be exposed.

There is NO other reason that they oppose paternity testing no matter what they say. They don't care that their child will not know who is the real father is, and that the man that they wrongly name as the father will suffer financial duress, and that the man who IS the real father will be deprived of a relationship with his child

Paternity fraud creates three victims, and it is not a victimless crime.

[Tamera952]

Huh? Well, it looks like you’re misinformed. Where did you ‘hear’ this? You said you’ve even “seen” this — I don’t believe you. You’re not really asking a question here, are you? More like a thinly veiled statement. I’ve never in my life heard such a bizarre claim.

[Asker]

It's obvious you didn't watch the video.. Nonsense answer is nonsense.

[Tamera952]

Of course i didn’t watch the video… nobody is watching your video.

[Asker]

Then your opinion is automatically invalid

[Ariesman81]

Isn't it like 25% of children in Europe are being raised by men who think they are biological but aren't?

Who's gonna pay? The State? The woman?

My good buddy found out recently that he was being fucked for the last 4 years.

[ProbablyClueless]

It's kind of insulting. Even if it's a reasonable request for us to make, women tend to hear it as questioning whether she was loyal.

[Asker]

It's sad because they expect us to apologize for cheating when they dream about us cheating.. Like how the hell are you expecting us to apologize for something that you dreamed about?

[ProbablyClueless]

I personally haven't met too many women who are like that, but I imagine they would be quite irritating if I did. Immature people just suck in general.

[Finchie40]

Because they know they are whores that’s why , they can’t take accountability for their own selfish actions.

[NamerOfStars]

Giving the government a complete genetic database of every baby born is INCREASING your peace of mind?

[Anonymous]

meanwhile they'll fight tooth and nail to get abortion into the constitution

but the idea of paternity test is offensive to them? FOH

[genericname85]

because women hate accountability for any of their actions xD

[Anonymous]

Not all the women, only those who cheat on their husbands.