So tell me what am I supposed to do 🙂?

[Babygirl_S]

If I post a normal question, at least one rude comment will be posted and it will be because I don’t look a certain way (white 🤡)
If I question the racism I faced, I’m considered a troll and receive backlash
I think I’m gonna stay because you want me gone 😈

[KostasKouvalis]

That's so funny 'cuz I always thought you look White. Considering you have over 605 followers, your hater community is probably very small.

They're probably saying that because your questions are sort of repetitive. Maybe just stop asking them or ask them anonymously. It's not worth the stress. You don't owe them anything.

I don't want you gone, but you could always just stay off for a while and wait for the heat to die down.

[Babygirl_S]

Do you know I joined almost 7 years ago? I must have blocked at least 100 people. No, I look North Indian because that’s who I am.

[KostasKouvalis]

Me too😂
Yeah, North Indian. If it has fair skin and none slanty eyes, I consider it "White"😂

[Babygirl_S]

https://pin.it/cSe5eWmFV I guess she’s white according to you? 🙂

[Babygirl_S]

It’s actually harder for guys to gain followers on social media.

[Babygirl_S]

Another white girl? 🤡

https://pin.it/799DDEmfg

[KostasKouvalis]

Guys, yes.

The first girl, NO
The second girl, YES. I would consider her a "White Indian"

https://de.pinterest.com/pin/697706167267789963/



Oh maybe YOU can explain to me. Because I am very confused because I thought Punjabis were White, but I've met dark Indians who said they're Pubjabi. And I've seen dark Indians with Punjabi names, so how is this possible?

[Babygirl_S]

This girl is most certainly a Kashmiri/Himachali girl. The thing is, more people from the Northern regions have lighter features so that doesn’t mean all of them do. Also, higher castes, urban people and rich people are more likely to be light-skinned.

[Babygirl_S]

I’ve lived in India all my life and travelled to various parts of the country. The frequency of light skin, light eyes and even lighter hair increases in the North. Still no Indians call themselves white. They just call themselves Indians.

[KostasKouvalis]

The pinterest link is another girl, but the picture that's showing is of a Kashmiri girl, YES! You're good!
That sounds about right.
One of my co-workers said north Indians and Persians are descended from Scandinavians who migrated south because of climate change. But I didn't the Aryan race come out of north India?

[Babygirl_S]

The other girl’s surname is Sharma and that’s an upper caste. Like I said, upper castes are more likely to have those features. It’s also a lot more common to find taller guys in upper castes. I don’t know about the origins of Aryans.

[KostasKouvalis]

Yes, yes. My dad says they're White because anthropologists classify them as "Indo-European". But a lot of people will argue that being "White" and having "white skin" are two completely different things. But some of them DO have European features.

[Babygirl_S]

Yes, many Indians are Indo-Europeans but they’re still considered Indians.

[KostasKouvalis]

Really? I never knew surnames were connected to casts. That Sharma girl used to post about how she gets bullied for being so fair skinned

[Babygirl_S]

Yes! Most Indians can tell your caste from your surname. Castes are certainly related to surnames. No! People might bully them because they’re considered prettier/more handsome but not like the bullying faced by dark-skinned people in India.

[Babygirl_S]

I’m sure people bully people because of jealousy also all over the world not because they’re considered inferior

[KostasKouvalis]

"State" I knew, but I didn't know about caste. What can you tell me about PATEL
Yeah, so out of envy.

I was on a tour one time with an Indian family from Canada, and the guy was telling our guide that there is no racism in India and I wanted to say something. I was thinking to mysef, "What about colorism?"

[Babygirl_S]

No, I’m not going to lie. Indians are pretty racist. They favour white people or those who at least look similar and look down on all others.
Patels are from Gujarat which isn’t considered a North Indian state. It’s not the highest caste but it’s not the lowest either.

[KostasKouvalis]

Last I checked, India was ranked number 1. Though some of them don't like White people either and other Indian ethnicities even. I'm starting to sense that a lot of Indian girls are secretly into White men, but they feel they'll never get one.
I saw a hilarious meme once, it had four pictures and it said, "Indian girls look like THIS, want THIS, date THIS, marry THIS." But I could never find it again

Yes they are. And they all own hotels, so middle cast sounds right I guess. Is it true that Christians from Kerala all have J names like John James?

You should check out Akaash Singh

[Babygirl_S]

No, Indians love Eurocentric looks. Why do you think they have lighter skinned actors and actresses? I think that meme means that those guys are probably not interested but it’s true that most Indian girls like either white or North Indian guys. John is a common name.

[Babygirl_S]

I don’t understand why you keep saying Indians don’t like white people. Maybe some hate the British but not others. Those haters probably assume those people are British

[KostasKouvalis]

Most ethnicities seem to prefer Euro-centric looks to be honest. Except for black nationalists.
I really wish I could find that meme, but it had a hot Indian girl, and the WANT was a Bollywood actor, the DATE was a model and the MARRY was a generic Indian guy who looked like one of those creeps or scammers

[Babygirl_S]

I have seen two such memes but the WANT was a Hollywood actor. They’re trying to say they pick someone who has a good job and more money

[KostasKouvalis]

We might've seen the same one.

[KostasKouvalis]

Thanks for MHO

[Tarifa]

It's easy to spew hatred from an anonimous keyboard, sitting at an obsure desk somewhere out in 'nowhere land'. Most of these haters, if not all of them, would be afraid to say these things if they faced you in real life. Don't worry about these losers. They're not worth it.

What you should do? Keep posting and sharing stuff.

[Babygirl_S]

Thank you! 🥹

[ohsheeT]

This is a good question it's kind of funny kind of sad at the same time

I've been here for many many years and I've just about seen it all

Yes realize that there are angry people in this world and on here on Gag

And it's like there's a holy war going on in society today

There's good and there's evil out there

And no matter what you do there's going to be an evil person or a bad person to try to ruffle your feathers to test you to see if you're going to be just like them and fire back at them..

They're trying to piss you off they're trying to make you mad upset to become just like them evil in their own way

And you can either block them or you can either laugh at them but don't become like them they know who you are they know that you're good and they want to try to change that

They are just like bullies of the world they took on people and only people that they don't think can harm them they pick on people they think are weak and they can manipulate

And by giving them the time of day by answering them back or arguing with them they kind of win

So if you think they want you out of here the best thing to do in the world is stay here and piss them off even more

Or even ask a question about them and say his person ever bullied you before make them feel like a half inch tall show them that you're not who they think you are and smilere-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Joshydavid25]

You're a decent looking girl with light skin and light eyes (if those are your real eyes)... I doubt anybodies doing it because of your "race".. You do seem pretty obsessed with "White" guys and Henry Cavill, but in the same breath comment on racism.. Lmao.. Maybe it's cause your always talking about race..

[Babygirl_S]

So you agree that people are racist towards those who don’t have those features? You find light skin and eyes attractive and tell me that I can’t like them?

[Babygirl_S]

People can be racist towards Indians with light features too. They say things like pooping in the streets, not working indoors etc.

[Joshydavid25]

Not really... At least in the West.. Most people don't care or put too much stock in it.. Maybe in India that's a big thing, I know you guy still have that caste system strong..

And no you can find whatever you want attractive.. I'm just saying that maybe there's a bit of projection there.. But yes I know that people can still be like that towards Indians, but this is the internet, every group gets roasted..

[slatyb]

Whatever you want. There are trolls everywhere. You can keep posting and ignore them, or just stop posting online. I've been called stupid by dozens of MAGA-head idiots for questioning their ridiculous assertions. I don't post to convince them -- I post for the other readers.

[Unit1]

Get on therapy. This isn't funny.

And yes, the GAG admins are dumber than the average humans.

[Babygirl_S]

Of course I need someone to heal me because guys like you hurt my feelings 🥲

[Unit1]

Keep pointing your finger.

[nawtee_me]

I like the way you look and don’t care that you are not white. Most of those that are white aren’t really white… I am French and German and Irish and American Indian. So even though I am white, I am not really white….. I am maybe fifth generation American, beyond that I am all over the place. @babygirl_s what about you?

[Babygirl_S]

I’m Indian

[nawtee_me]

I know you are Indian. I was just wondering if all your past generations were also Indian or if some were from other places?

[Babygirl_S]

I never did a DNA analysis 🧐

[Berethor]

Maybe if you dye your hair to blonde then you would look more white, why not try that? :)

https://www.youtube.com/embed/AHzD6zHqQtg

[Babygirl_S]

Many white girls are naturally brunette and even those who are blondes like Henry Cavill’s wife are actually dying it. Aishwarya bleached her hair and she still didn’t make it big in Hollywood

[Berethor]

Well I for one like Aishwarya, mainly for her eye color, have you ever tried blonde?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=puuCnkMBrt8

[Babygirl_S]

No, I haven’t but I’m curious

[IslaTheWitch]

it's how trolls get their fame here... as long as you show them your reaction, they feed on it... ignore them, and they will starve :D

[sage2021]

You have your opinion on one of my questions and you sounded like one of those weaponized feminists.
Maybe it's got nothin' to do with color. You need an attitude ✅

[Babygirl_S]

I never said anything like that but you sound like one of those masculine aggressive women I block here

[Babygirl_S]

And I know you’re trying to impress guys by saying you’re not a feminist and I am but it’s not going to work as everyone knows white American women are the worst feminists out there. They don’t even want equality. They want men to be their slaves

[Miristheiss]

If you post anything on line you'll always get negative remarks. It comes with the territory. Don't post any pictures in your avatar.

[Babygirl_S]

It doesn’t happen to other users though.

[college-student2021]

It’s unfortunate that there’s rude people in GAG, and that you are encountering them. Just ignore them , they are keyboard warriors who like being rude and fighting online.

[Billlewis]

I'd love to discuss this with you, please follow or message me if you'd like to do so. Thank you very much, Bill, Chicago

[Staximus]

Everybody will be fine as long as it's not another question about Henry Cahill or why people don't like Indian women, crazy lady

[Babygirl_S]

You’re a crazy man

[Staximus]

I want you to stay, and your haters can go to hell

[Knightwatch27]

You're not supposed to blame "one negative comment" on not being white. Everybody gets rude comments here, get over yourself.

[Babygirl_S]

It’s not one negative comment when I’ve blocked at least 100 people. Most of them actually said something racist. I just asked normal questions like which blouse is the best for an interview. A guy said that there’s no way I work indoors because I’m Indian. I don’t want to recollect other similar comments. I don’t think it happens to other people here. You seem insensitive.

[Knightwatch27]

Oh yes it does. There's tons of "is this appropriate job/interview wear" questions and they all recieve significant backlash. You can't just be so up in your own world as to think this only happens to poor old you, that's immature.

[Babygirl_S]

I said it’s not just one question. I’m blocking at least 3 people every month. Many people also assume I’m a racist but I’ve never even said anything remotely racist while they’ve said things like I probably eat poop or I’m pale as heck. I’m sure it’s racist to comment on someone’s appearance

[Knightwatch27]

It still happens to everybody. Can't go and expect to not ever recieve any bad comments. Some get more some get less, but it happens to us all. I've recieved loads of racist comments. Think I care? Nope. Maybe people are also exasperated at your seemingly obsessed race-questioning all the time. It's practically all you ask about.

[Babygirl_S]

Maybe you didn’t read my question? I said I ask other things and they don’t answer positively. It’s a perception that I only ask about things like that because they only care about those questions. Maybe it’s because they’re obsessed with race themselves so that’s all they see? Of course, if it’s happening more often to someone they’re more likely to question it.

[Knightwatch27]

No you really do ask a ridiculous amount of race questions. Whether you ask about other things isn't the point. It's how often you nag about race when no one cares. "Does she look white" "what do you think of indians" "Do Western men hate indian girls" etc.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Lol nothing like trolling them trolls right, if they want you gone, you stay

[DrPepper12]

Sorry that happened!! Trust me you are welcome here!!

[Babygirl_S]

🥹🥹🥹

[noohair]

I have not posted any questions. But you have to accept the moron trolls if you do decide to post. It is part of the process. Just ignore the noise. It is not personal. Good Luck.

[Makeushiver]

Everyone is dorewarned. I'd lobe to answernyournquesyions.

[Surely]

Be the good person that you are and learn to ignore the comments by idiots.

[Rohaan2020]

Just ignore them and live ur life… u don’t have to justify urself even if they something to you

[Subtle_Luminescence]

Don't take people so seriously here.

[Jennz6]

I get the same thing sometimes

[seeyounexttuesday]

where?

[Babygirl_S]

On this app

[seeyounexttuesday]

Like what?

[Babygirl_S]

I don’t remember but mostly disrespectful things

[seeyounexttuesday]

how are you facing racism? Your profile pic is white?

[Babygirl_S]

Can you believe one has to look like this to avoid racism? 💀

[Babygirl_S]

And once they know you’re Indian, they say something racist

[seeyounexttuesday]

lol, sure.