I really hate being a human. Who else feels the same?

[Anonymous]

The more I get exposed to the way people are, and what being a human involves in this world, the less and less I want anything to do with this life. I even feel resentment towards my parents for having me. I can’t even begin to comprehend why someone would bring another person into all this. I don’t accept the premise of counseling/ professional help either. I know deep down they’re only speaking to me about my problems because they’re getting paid to do so, and not out of the kindness of their heart. Profit is the single and only driving motivator in this rotten society we live in. So yeah…. I’m sick of all this. Thanks to those who took the time to read this. I don’t have anyone

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[lightbulb27]

Can relate, mine wasn't hate (this is a very bitter feeling) so much as fear and shame and doubt, I'm on the other side of those feelings now in a good place. I did not like myself or others for long time. When put the right order to traumas and issues and see things from better perspective, it gets better. You feel better. It's all how you perceive. What you learn from exploring... is getting to know yourself, how the world works, and what approach you are going to take while in this world.

I don't like human behavior but I have compassion for them, for they are lost and it's easy to get lost in this world. There are good hearted people doing work, for free or cheap... it's called missionaries. Many volunteer to help others, animals, etc.

Some of my best moments have been engaging with someone and helping them through their a rough patch of life, and charged nothing. But it takes time and energy too, many train for years to do this, it's how they live. Isn't that worth something, if you can get your life back? Yes, the heart needs to be in it... that is a valuable lesson.

You should read about Christ and explore what He said and His mission because that brought me to a better place. It aligns with the pit you fell into and need to get out of.

What you are experiencing is accurate to a large extent, but there is a better way to view it and have purpose in life... to get your life back... if you want to. Your life will change several times over the decades, so you have to embrace the challenge to overcome.

Saving the lost from this world is what Jesus, the Christ did. Only solution I know.

the choice is yours.

[Lynx122]

I don't see this as a reason to stop trying to be a good person yourself. In fact I think the more you try and be good to others the more you see it can be difficult and the more forgiving and compassionate you can be about other peoples flaws. And when it comes to therapy it doesn't matter at all to me that they're getting paid to help me as long as it works. Are you spending your time helping other people without any compensation? In my experience most people who think like you are mad because they're not getting enough from other people not because they're doing so much for other people and others are not doing the same.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I like being human, honestly. I like being able to live in the time that I do, to do what I’m doing and learn what I’m learning.

[Kayleigh2005]

Hugs, u should really see someone

Asking for help is the hardest thing 😪

[Asker]

Thanks for the hug 🫂

[Kayleigh2005]

Not directed at u but I grew up around addicts it can get dark

[Juxtapose]

Your station in life is largely your own responsibility. If you are not happy with your life, fix it yourself. You are the most privileged species on Earth and you can set up a very comfortable life for yourself in solitude if that is what you want if you are willing to work hard enough and be clever enough.

But instead of fixing your own life, you're blaming everything on other people. What do you expect? For people to give you shit like therapy for free out of the kindness of their hearts while they waste their valuable daylight hours and don't earn enough to feed themselves?

You sound like you need a lot of humility because you are feeling yourself too much.

[Asker]

As predicted, you people don’t get it

[Juxtapose]

Of course I don't get it, you are blaming a therapist for trying to put food on their table when they spent a lot of time and money mastering their profession.

If you want free therapy, get a friend.

[seeyounexttuesday]

You sound like a toddler. Fix your problems and change your attitude.

[Asker]

no toddler on the face of the planet has the capability of talking like this. You sound like a mentally deficient moron. People like you are exactly why I hate the human species. No empathy.

[seeyounexttuesday]

You're confusing empathy with coddling your immature world view.

[Asker]

Is it immature though? The way our society is structured is messed up

[seeyounexttuesday]

Yes, it is. Because mature men know they have to make their way in the world, and they’re responsible for their happiness.

[Anonymous]

So would you prefer to be a cockroach or a mouse that is experimented on by humans?

[Anonymous]

What about friends?

[Asker]

What about them?

[Opinion Owner]

Do t you have any friends who care about you?

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t

[Asker]

Not really. A lot of people like me, but I really struggle putting myself in a vulnerable position. I don’t become close to people, because I fear someone knowing me as well as I know myself.

[Opinion Owner]

I understand. I hope someday you find a friend you can trust.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome