How can I be more of a b word so people at work won’t think I’m weak (I always get bullied)?

[Anonymous]

in other areas in life such as some family members and strangers, when they bully me I can stand up for myself no problem. But when I’m bullied at work or some family/friends, I can’t I feel so weak afterwards. How can I stand up for myself? I’ve been bullied my entire life

[Agape93]

Here's how I manifest it. I say I'll do something, and I do it. End of story. Want help? No, I have shit to do. Don't want to be fired? Tough shit. Need a raise? Don't bother me then.

Just be blunt

[Coden7]

I was bullied in Elementary school. After a while of that, one day I just had enough. You can be professional without being kind.

[Staximus]

The treatment you tolerate is the treatment you get. Just don't tolerate it. You have to draw a line somewhere, sometime

[Asker]

Like I’m a nurse and I can stand up to patients but not coworkers because I know I might need them sometime.

[jahaims]

Being a bitch doesn't keep you from getting picked on. You can stand up for yourself without being immature.