Why doesn't society put most of the blame on women for broken homes?

[Anonymous]

Women are ultimately the selectors in dating which means they get to pick and choose which men become fathers and husband. Men for the most part don't really have any control on the matter other than which women they can approach and even then men are faced with the hurdle of being rejected 100s of time and likely being single for years before anything comes their way.

So when a woman is presented with a long list of potential candidates at her doorsteps and she actively picks bad candidates to be her child's father or long term partner, why don't we put most of the blame on them? Since they are the ones who are ultimately picking this choice for their family unit and could have selected a better candidate.

We understand this from a real world perspective when countries employ DEI candidates over those who are qualified for a job and it results in the company turning to crap in like 5 years.

[Anonymous]

We humans did not evolve for the world of mass media much-less social media today.

Our brains think we live in a community much larger than we actually do with options much better than we actually have. This effects both men and women's view of each other as invariably less than Idea.

The only difference is this is a lot harder for women to deal with.

This is because a woman is programed to want to get the best seed and support for herself and her children. She sees Brad Pit and wants him over every real guy and therefore can in many levels struggle to 'settle' for a real guy given her primitive brain may think someone like Brad Pit or anyone else on social media is available.

Unfortunately a lot of guys like Brad Pit either in looks or wealth do exist out there and they do in fact like most men have a desire to spread the seed around. So they are in fact courting women with false promises. Theses are the guys sleeping with all the women and ultimately marrying none of them.

Theses are the guys dumping and betraying women leaving a lot of them hostile toward men. When it was them who picked the player for the same reasons every other woman did. In a tribe such a man would be well known and not allowed to play around. But in a large digital world nobody is known, yet everyone is seen.

Without strong marriage pushing women into marriage with their very real peers almost in high school and forcing their commitment. There is nothing to stop such people in the modern world from taking over.

Then with Birth control and the total absence of commitment the population will collapse.

[exitseven]

I am the product of a broken home. It was my fathers fault.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[Anonymous]

lol society won't blame women for anything

even when they delete their own unborn babies, society still blames men for that

[Ariesman81]

Because there are weak men willing to take responsibility for something they don't control in hopes of getting laid. Simps man... simps.

[Anonymous]

W2omen should start approaching men.

[Asker]

They do approach. Be a good looking guy and or rich and you will see tons of women come up to you asking for her number. Problem is being good looking for men often means needing to have above average genetics.

[SmokinAces2000]

They do

[Asker]

nah. Society for the most part puts most of the blame on men for deadbeat homes and says men should do better. It's weird because we never ask the question who picked these men to be fathers