What do you think about the responsibility that comes with bringing a child into the world without planning?

[oldpigg]

[Anonymous]

Case in point.
Plan all you want and it never goes to plan.
My sister was an accident, I was planned, and she was straight as an arrow growing up, honor roll, college, a masters then a bachelors degree.
Me I went to tech school to learn about trucks, heavy equipment, and ended up being rebellious, hard drinking, hard fighting kid. You did not want to get on my bad side.
Fortunately, I did change somewhat as I got older, got into the fire service, saved lives n stuff, but was a hard core truckie.
I was the guy that broke through walls, I never backed down, always charging forward, never took no for an answer. My sister and I turned out pretty well over the years.
I teach others now how to survive to live to be old, she has also made a difference in people's lives.
Plan all you want, you just never know who you will end up with, but all you can do is try.

[lightbulb27]

Responsibility needs taught from a young age.

The problem is selfishness and lack of using brain.

[dustybiker2]

The universe does not even ask this. There is no handbook, or coupon packet filled with days off. You have sex you open yourself up (unless raped) to this responsibility.

[exitseven]

People should only have kids if they can afford the raise them.

[princeofromance]

I am ready for that responsibility. I just need to find the right woman first.

[loveslongnails]

What point are you trying to make here?

[Agape93]

Abort it