Is it bad that I get upset when some plus size people lost or try to lose weight?

[Anonymous]

Especially the plus size celebrities and actors. I mean if they had health issues and overweight or obese I understand but it is so upsetting to see that some of them have lost weight because we’ve seen enough skinny, thin or even slim celebrities. You don’t see a lot of chubby or plus size celebrities and as a plus size woman I find it so refreshing to see celebrities the same size as me. Jennifer Hudson didn’t look bad and she looked good before she lost all that damn weight. She’s tall so she carries it well. I never thought she was fat. Also Rebel Wilson and Adele look amazing don’t get me wrong but they look weird slimmer. Their plus size look suites them better. I understand they did it for health reasons. Also Queen Latifah has always been a tall big girl and I know she lost some weight but it was upsetting. I had to unfollow plus size celebrities after they lost all that weight. Just because you’re plus size doesn’t mean you’re fat! Stop trying to lose weight! Not everyone is meant to be skinny or even slim. Some of us are meant to be thick or chubby.
I’m 5’6 a size 14, chubby but I’m curvy and I’m happy with it. I don’t want to be slim or skinny.

[NaultD]

I feel obesity can be as large of a problem as alcoholism, gambling addiction, debt management or even anorexia eating disorders. As much as other people can be responsible and manage potential dangerous behaviors others can not.

So it is bad to judge people who have determined that their current habits are not sustainable for themselves life liberty and the pursuit of happiness.

I'm personally a giant guy. I like being a giant guy but I can't carry myself like I could as a teenager playing football. Life isn't getting any easier and bad habits are growing faster then my muscle growth. Something gotta change to sustain the same mobility and strength that in of itself will give away at somepoint.

[OneViewpoint]

You don't see a lot of fat celebrities because the majority of people don't find obesity attractive. Be body positive all you want. It doesn't change that reality.

[Genie23]

See, if you're happy being chubby that's great but you should also understand that many people simply chose to lose weight because of health issues they had. So, I support them for making a good decision by losing their health because it means they're most likely going to live longer and have less health issues. Also, everyone have a different view when it comes to beauty. Just because you and others found them beautiful doesn't mean they must have felt beautiful. Maybe they didn't feel confident and they wanted to work on their body to feel better about themselves and it ended up fixing some of their health issues too. Who knows.

[Olivier24]

You are bothered by someone doing something to improve their health? Really?

[Asker]

No! Of course not. If people are overweight or obese, yes you should take care of your health but if plus size people like say are a size 10-14, they aren’t fat, but it depends how tall you are.

[SmokinAces2000]

Not everyone wants to be chubby and unfollowing people because they lost weight is one of the stupidest things I’ve heard.

[Asker]

That’s just your opinion and I respect that. I said what I said.

[In_Trance]

Whatever works for you.
You're definitely not considering all angles here

[jahaims]

You have issues