Why is that when I was fat people are telling me to lose weight and when I lost weight they want me to gain weight?

[Anonymous]

When I was fat my aunt would tell me to lose weight and then I lost weight 160 cm. 54 kgs and then she said I look better when Im chubby because I look old and sick now.

[pascal_climbs]

First of all, it your own body and if you are happy with it, the opinion of the others does not matter. How you look when you loose weight, depends on how you loose it. If you just loose fat, than your muscles will become more visible and you will look very toned and streamlined. If you also loose muscle mass, your overall look will stay the same, only less chubby.

[Anonymous]

When fat women lose weight, they have sagging skin, which makes them look like they are malnourished. Women who want other women to gain weight are envious fat people.

[Asker]

I dont have sagging skin.

[Opinion Owner]

54 kilos is not really thin, I weighed the same a few years ago and I am much taller than you.

[Asker]

Yeah but I still want to hit at least 50 kgs.

[boggboss]

Because for some reason u are living life to the degree of others

[robhazelnut]

I don't know. If you think she's right, then you may benefit from looking up foods which are good for one's skin and circulation, which you aren't allergic to.

[Danny_dan92]

People are assholes. Just be happy you are healthy and tell those telling you to gain weight to eat a bowl of dog shit

[ChicoFromThe305]

You can never fully satisfy people, if that's your goal then my best advice is change that.

[Anonymous]

Live your life girl people will say anything you can't make everyone happy.

[The-Stud]

People just need something to criticize

[PrettyCrumblBb]

That's messed up.