When they can't accept the unhappiness that comes with chasing your goals.
Like if you want to go on vacation in Fiji, you will have to endure 3 long plane rides, jet lag, delayed meals, expensive hotel resort fees, prolonged periods without hydration while waiting for buses and cars to pick you up, as well as weeks priming your boss for your vacation with over time work before you leave: it's not as easy as having a taste for luxury and desiring tasty organic food, there are hardships involved in travelling there.
And if you want good instagram photos of hiking trails, you have to train your muscles and your body mass to endure long and difficult hikes up long trails so you can get the unique vantage points that give you those photos.
I've been harassed and gossiped about by those that were jealous of my restaurant meals, but I had to pay for it, and I had to lose weight before and after each dining visit, to avoid weight gain after my visit. It's not easy to force yourself to lose 3 pounds each week to avoid weight gain every time you dine at a restaurant.
A lot of people see the gold, but they do not see the pirate ships they have to fight to get to the gold.
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