Why did nature make it so women can have all the sex they want easily, but men, who have a much higher sex drive have to work to get anything?

[Anonymous]

Is that not twisted?

[Sangita93]

The main purpose of sex – penetrative sex between men and women is reproduction. Nature has designed sex as one of the most pleasant and enjoyable activity to encourage men and women to produce babies to keep life everlasting on earth. Sex is not purely for pleasure; it is deeply related to responsibilities of producing babies and their brought up. Therefore, the difference in ease of obtaining sex stems from evolutionary, psychological, and have many social factors. Women have higher reproductive investment, but they are more selective due to risks associated with pregnancy and child birth. They receive more sexual offers making it easier to have it. Feeling of safety and comfort for them and their babies is necessary precursor for female arousal, making them prioritize safe environments. Women's desire is more complex, influenced by emotional connection and psychological factors. They need emotional safety most, therefore they may not desire sex as readily without that foundation. They are selective to protect their reproductive interests, they enjoy high sex drives, but their sexual desire is more readily influenced by stress, tiredness, and environmental factors compared to men. Societal norms teach women not to appear easy. and create a suspense around female sexuality. Men have higher, more stable sex drives, but they need to initiate sex and it is a brain game. Men are like butterfly, more sexually attracted to women's bodies to deliver their sperms, leading to more frequent advances toward women, requiring them to chase potential partners to satisfy their sex drive. They are historically and socially conditioned to be less selective than women about sexual partners. They are evolved to maximize mating opportunities, and to grab maximum matting opportunities, they need to work hard to get more sex and more partners.

[Kelley1]

That is natural selection. Our ancestors are men and women who produced the most descendants, and we inherited their genes. In the Stone Age, our male ancestors impregnated the most women. Since impregnating a female took as little as 15 minutes, the cost was insignificant, so the quality of the women didn't matter, nor did it matter whether individual children survived.

In the Stone Age, our female ancestors are women giving birth to children with the highest survival rate. Since the cost was 9 months plus about 12 years of support until her children could survive, the cost was extremely high. Therefore, they had to make wise decisions on which men were allowed to impregnate
them.

To produce a living descendant, men invested 15 minutes; women invested 12 or more years.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I don't get how you mean nature here.

Nature made it easy to have sex with everyone, and I'm pretty sure men didn't have to work with anything to get that sex. I'm sure they took what was there, for millennia.

Culture, on the other hand, modifies the game, when it does change it, which probably doesn't give the same results depending on where you live on earth right now, in which culture.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

And you can be mad at certain cultures for that, sure, but, to me, it's a bit like yelling at the rain when it falls.

[Asker]

Culture comes from nature

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

From? Culture comes after nature, to me. I can't say culture comes from nature, because it could mean there was a sort of global plan from nature, and I don't believe in that.

[Miristheiss]

Well, NATURE made it to where she can have sex ONE TIME and will have a baby.

That is why people married and had families for thousands of years.

Sex equals babies.

Only in the 1960s and birth control pills did women just start fucking around in mass and stoo having kids to where the birthrate is below replacement levels and to start having many sex partners.

[purplepoppy]

Because we get one egg a month and if we fall pregnant can't get pregnant again until we've given birth. You guys get to spray the baby battery daily and get hundreds pregnant. Therefore nature has made us really selective who we have sex with.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Boy batter, as I call it.

[strateguy632]

That is not nature. That is civilization law. forbidding grabbing. So in old days, a solution was: ladies rented their body but now society banned that too. Luckily they invented for men somethings that is like a female vibrator machine.

[Sunshinelips]

I don’t think it’s easier for women. I find it hard actually without looking or acting desperate where I’ll be called a slut. People say getting a man is the easiest thing but I disagree.

[Nikki1989]

Your logic is twisted if you believe any of this bullshit is based in reality.

[Asker]

Shut up, women can hop on Tinder and have sex wgenever they want, stop lying

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe because guys have LOADS of sperm all the time whereas, girls only have one or 2 eggs per month to deal with.

[jahaims]

Nature didn't make it that way. Social constructs did.

[exitseven]

God has a sense of humor.

[ushagomez]

No, just the process of natural selection.

[Asker]

How is that? Any ugly girl can get sex