I am bad at everything. I am a total loser. What should I do with this pathetic life I have?

[Nihilist__]

[Taurus_Woman]

You’re probably being much harsher on yourself than you would ever be to another person. Nobody is good at everything, and struggling in some areas of life does not make someone a loser or make their life pathetic. A lot of people reach moments where they feel stuck, disappointed in themselves, or exhausted from comparing themselves to others. That feeling can make it seem like every mistake defines who you are, even though it doesn’t. Instead of deciding your whole life is a failure, try focusing on one small thing you can improve or rebuild. Real change usually starts very quietly—better habits, learning one skill, taking care of your health, talking to someone honestly, or simply continuing even when you feel discourageYour value is not measured by being perfect, successful all the time, or ahead of everyone else. Life changes slowly, and people often underestimate how different things can become with time, effort, and patience.

[Babyseal23]

Honestly mate, I've found myself thinking that way very often in life. You just gotta keep working on things and push through and dont give up on yourself. Good things come to those who wait with you win at everything in life instantly the awards start to feel lesser and you take advantage of the good things in life until its all gone.

You aren't a failure life is just testing you atm

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life I always say if you never try you will never know & as for you at least you are trying. As for being bad at everything no one is perfect & as for being a total user you aren’t. My brother from another mother it’s time for you to face the sunshine & let the shadows cast behind you. Turn your frown upside down & smile while you still have teeth. Better days will come, hang in there, you can do it, you got this.

[RavVid]

Stop being so negative towards yourself as a beginning.

What would like to be good at? Find something and work at it. It really doesn't how bad you are at the beginning. Everybody starts with conscious in competence. Simply work to get better at it. Nothing is pass or fail so just don't think like that... mark your self out of a 100. Today you got 5% tomorrow aim for 10%.

[RavVid]

Thanks for a mho. Find something you can feel passion for.

[strateguy632]

realizing your life is important. and important to your family. your 'nihilism' is just depressed depression. "Nihilism is the belief that life is without objective meaning, purpose,". that is your error.

[Calyptomaniac]

Remember how you think it's a miracle all women survive without you? Float back into that dream world you were in at the time, and bring all the confidence you had in there back to reality with you

[Nihilist__]

But you all made fun of me that time

[Screenwriter]

Get professional help through therapy. Ask therapist to help you with self esteem. Won't happen quickly, but you'll eventually make progress... Good luck.

[4ngelic]

If you feel like you're a 'loser' who is bad at everything, try to take the steps to change that maybe?

[Nihilist__]

I can't. I am lazy.

[4ngelic]

You can. You just got to find a way to stop being lazy

[Dargil]

See? You're good at being lazy. There's that.

[Dargil]

Find something and make it matter and jump in with both feet. I bought a light touring motorcycle and had many 300 mile days and took hundreds of pictures.

[Anonymous]

Actually no, there are people worse off than you. You are a nursing student, and your dream is to sleep with whore while working as a nurse in America.

You have goals, people who are total losers don't even have goals.

[genericname85]

whether or not you feel like a loser or not always depends on who you're comparing yourself to. chose your comparisons wisely. they say "comparison is the thief of joy" for a reason.

[FreyaRed]

Write a book. "The loser I am" maybe you win Pulitzer Prize sponsored by chose ones

[Lesbologist]

Hit the weights... get buff. Everything will fall into place.

[exitseven]

why not pick one thing you are interested in and try to work towards completing it.

[Staximus]

Everybody is good at something, you just haven’t figured it out yet

[Godihateyou]

Enjoy it. Winning isn't anything if you can't enjoy it. Losing is even worse.

[temu_shrek]

You sound like a perfect politician

[Nihilist__]

Don't politicans generally try to convince others that they are invincible?

[temu_shrek]

Yup, all you have to do is start lying. Your future is bright.

[NathanDavis]

get a Coca~Cola

[DryGermanGuy]

Go to Ukraine and help defending them.

[OneViewpoint]

Maybe get hooked up with a fentanyl dealer?

[Agape93]

Stay in turkey.

[Nihilist__]

Omg lol😂
You are really funny

[Agape93]

Didn't know I was telling a joke

[Nihilist__]

I will come usa and marry with a beautiful woman

[Agape93]

Nah.

[andreasderjuengere]

Run for President?

[MannMitAntworten]

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