Would you feel offended if someone offered you free food assuming you’re homeless?

[Anonymous]

[slatyb]

It happened. I was in Phoenix Arizona (US) for a bridge tournament. There was a coffee shop between my hotel and the playing site. I would stop in every morning. I asked the barista her man and greeted her when I entered. On the last day, after checking out of the hotel, I went into the shop wheeling my suitcase. She want there and I decided I didn't really need coffee. A woman thought I was short of money and offered to buy me a coffee. I explained. She knew the barista, v said she was single and suggested that I might like to date her. She was attractive, so I said that I would except that I was married and living in Seattle. Now I don't remember the baristas name.

[Asker]

Lol because you were attractive so she's like giving you free food hoping you would ask her on a date.

[Finchie40]

Not really because people assume things all the time without knowing the true answer , I would take the food and thank them and let them assume whatever they wanted to assume about me. After I eat the food , I will tell them the truth that I am not homeless but the food was good, thanks again lol

[petitedollbabee]

Nope, free food is free food, and it’s still kindness on their part regardless.

[Intelligent_Lady]

I would probably feel offended, because it would be an incorrect assumption.

[indissoluble]

People give me free food regularly and I'm not homeless or on government assistance or anything like that. I don't ask for it, but I think it's kind of rude to not accept gifts. I figure if they give me food now, it will either be sitting in my pantry later or I will grow food on my land and if they need something later I'll help them out if they need a hand. That's just how my neighbors are...

[Anonymous]

It depends on how it’s done. While the offer itself comes from a place of kindness, the assumption can feel hurtful. It might imply that you look unkempt or struggling. However, most people would appreciate the generous gesture if it is offered politely, without judgment or condescension.

[Zack-Bann]

I wouldn’t take it. It’s not in my nature to take handouts.


But I will be very self conscious about my image.
I do everything in my power to not look homeless on an average day and if I failed at that I need to make a change

[Bricealan]

Yes. I would never be in public looking like I were homeless, but a woman friend had this happen to her and she did not see the implications that the 'offeror' thought her homeless

[glennos89]

I wouldn't be offended. I would take a good look in the mirror whats wrong my appearance because apparently I look like I dont take care of myself

[Asker]

But would you take free food?

[glennos89]

No not if it was meant for homeless people

[KostasKouvalis]

People gave me food all the time at any old job, and I obviously wasn't homless, so I don't know why they would assume that. I probably WOULD be a little offended, but I'd take the food anyways.

[SamIam96]

If it's offered as an act of kindness, no. If I'm hungry, I would accept it graciously.

[DonaldDarko]

No Id be happy I got free food. Especially if it would have went to some junkie otherwise.

[Anonymous]

First of all , I get sus about the food that i suddenly got offered

but I will decline it properly.

[genericname85]

Lol if the food is good, I'd just take it. I don't care. Free food is free food xD

[Shy_Steve]

I would feel guilty not really offended.

I would be worried what i have done to make them think that im homeless.

[Godihateyou]

There is only a few things I never turn down. Free food, a hug, a blow job, and a fight.

[Asker]

So you are not offended they thought you are homeless.

A fight woah you are not scared?

[Godihateyou]

What they think or believe has no barring on reality. I've been in probably hundreds of fights. I'm 45. I've slowed down so most of them were in my teens and 20's. Scared? No. I'm a sociopath. With adrenaline punches don't even hurt. The point is to do the most damage as fast as possible. I normally kick their knee caps in to start the fight. If there is any fight left I jam my thumbs into their eyes until they pop.

[Asker]

So I have a neighbor who is well known for being tough when it comes to fight she's bullying me and my family. My cousin is her boyfriend and siding with her. So I cut my off my own cousin but Im not even scared of her does it mean I am sociopath too? she's way older than me by 7 years and fatter than me. She always bully me but I just don't care I might physically fight her to put her in her place Idc if she's my cousins girlfriend anymore.

[Godihateyou]

Atta girl. Hurt her real bad and fast. Your not getting paid by the hour. I suggest breaking her knee first. Its easier if she is fat. Her body weight will do most of the work.

[Godihateyou]

Some people that aren't scared are just brave. That's not me. I've just never felt any emotion really. Just a detached and analytical analysis of violence and how I can use it to win.

[Godihateyou]

I wasn't always good at fighting but I never lost. I faught 2 older and bigger kids when I was 11. They beat the living shit out of me but I just kept coming. I chased them up a tree and when I pushed one out of the tree he broke his arm. They never came back to that playground. I crawled home but I won.

[Asker]

LMAO why would be scared of her she's a major bitch. she's cunning by the way she lied to my cousin that her kid is my cousins just because my cousin earned good money her sister in law is former nurse and found the truth that no 8 months baby was delivered that day in the hospital because she has friends there. Her baby was 8 months but all babies there are all 9 months normal. She was confronted by them she told the truth and then she cried this is why her and her sister in law is not good terms because she exposed her lies but her boyfriend (my cousin) is obsessed with her or maybe stupid he's still siding with her. My cousin lost his seaman job by the way and just became constructrion worker everyday she's screaming at him and now he went to Saudi to work in construction and she's happy again LMAO by the way the beef started after her kid (its grown up now) bullied my nephew I tried talking to them and she's f--- violent she's siding with her kid even though her kid is bully and my cousin sided with them again. I hope there is also karma for her kind and family.

[Asker]

She's not very nice person. she's cunning and bitch.

[Godihateyou]

You should wear all black clothing and jump her. Hit her in the head with a sock full of quarters. I think you have to be the karma she deserves. Come back here and let me know when it's done

[Asker]

Okay I will 😂 She thinks screaming at me will make me scared of her. I might pull her dentures first when fighting her.

[Anonymous]

haha. you've got to be a terrible person to get offended by that.

[strateguy632]

nope. i would thank.

[_Jenny_]

I’m not offended, I’m taking the food

[exitseven]

I would think it was funny.

[Tomislav7]

No I am a bum ill take anything