Do you instantly lose respect for people who act like hypocrites?

[Badtobad]

To me if you are a hypocrite, I look down on you no matter what and if I don't like you, I lose all respect for you.

[Finchie40]

Not necessarily lose respect for them , but I do look at them like they are idiots that are talking out their ass😂 There are a lot of judgmental people on this planet, that like to talk shit about other peoples’ choices and decisions in life that act like they know it all , but what cracks me up about judgmental hypocrite people, is the fact that they will talk shit about someone else , but when it comes down to them experiencing whatever they were talking shit about, it is all of a sudden ok for them to do , Making them a hypocrite , making them look like a fucking idiot. I think people do it out of ego or jealousy , it’s an insecurity that they have within themselves, They like to rain on someone else’s’ parade but when it happens to them , it’s all of a sudden ok for them to do or experience. No matter who we date or who we choose to have sex with , there will always be some. Jealous hypocrite asshole trying to rub their 2 cents together , I don’t really hold age as a deciding factor when I meet a beautiful girl that I have great chemistry with and connection and attraction with , her age doesn’t determine that whatsoever , , I am just wise enough not to go for a girl that is under legal age of consent , but if if she is legal age of consent and her and I hit it off , then I am going to continue dating her and having sex with her , because I don’t care what other people say about her and I’d relationship and connection, people can assume whatever the fuck they want because it doesn’t mean shit , all that matters is her and I’s connection and attraction for each other. Why it’s important to prioritize your partner when you get into a relationship with someone , it’s the both of you facing life together , no one else should be able to come in between the both of you whatsoever. You and your partner should be a team working together and choosing each other over everyone else. I like younger girls’ because younger girls’ that I have met liked me back the same. That’s all that matters , fuck what other people think or say about our relationship period

[Zack-Bann]

Hypocrisy is the source of most grief’s in the world.
Certainly all wars.
The claim that “they hurt us” so easily made as you proceed to hurt them is the best example.


But it can also cause problems in person lives.


And yes we all have some degree of hypocrisy which we use to maintain our sanity and avoid hating ourselves.


But when people go beyond the baseline I do in fact lose all respect for them.
It takes real maturity and self reflection to look in the mirror before speaking on others.
And i would respect someone more if they called other people’s behavior and admitted to their own at the same time.

[FreyaRed]

Yes, this is normal human behavior. I don't want even hear what they say anymore, their opinion is always worthless.

Maybe is credibility in politics or social media not much worth nowadays, but in private life it's highest virtue an individual has.

[Kelley1]

Trump hasn't done much of anything. He is only the president. The power doesn't belong to the president and Congress. The power belongs to Israel and the billionaires who put them in office.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I think most people are hypocritical in some way or another. Nobody has perfect awareness of themselves so I don't really feel like it's fair to judge people that way... At least not by default.

[Badtobad]

That's not true, it seems like you want to make yourself feel better

[Telekinetic-Potato]

See like this reply I'd say is almost certainly just you mirroring. Because people who say what you originally wrote usually end up being the most hypocritical, close minded, most unwilling to self reflect, everything is someone else's fault, type of people.

[Badtobad]

Most people are not hypocrites, that's a fact

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I don't know what to tell you other than try reading something other than a magazine to learn about stuff. What's factual is humans are famously bad at seeing themselves in a way that's not idealized and famously good at coming up with excuses for why we do things that. Reak our own rules

[ohsheeT]

Sometimes people might share things with to teach you not to be like them that there is always a better way.

And they know this because they have been there

[sage2021]

Yes, if they had my respect to begin with.

I don't hand out trust or respect like candy to just anyone anymore.

I've been burned too many times for doing that blindly.

[loveslongnails]

News flash: the problem with that philosophy is that everyone is a hypocrite when it comes to something. You may not have discovered it yet when it comes to your friends, and you probably don't know it about yourself either.

[Kaneki05]

Simple answer yes, complicated answer Everyone is a hypocrite to some extent though so depends how it is the obvious hypocrite is a yes.

[whosnumber_1]

Yeah, I don't like hypocrisy either. I mean, sometimes people get carried away or make lapses in judgment but a person who is regularly hypocritical is pretty annoying and I also loose respect for them.

[DonaldDarko]

I wonder if they're sincere or covering up their true motives. That looks like hypocrisy but it could be something worse.

[_Jenny_]

@Badtobad Not always instantly, I think it’s fair to give them another chance

[msc545]

Not instantly. I usually wait until they finish explaining why their hypocrisy is completely different.

[msc545]

It's very reassuring to know that apparently you, like some hypocrites.

[RepleteAura]

Only if they refuse to acknowledge their hypocrisy. You can work with someone who has self awareness

[Pterodon]

in my opinion if you go to church you’re a hypocrite

[Cidknee]

No, you are putting forth effort! Going to church to learn of God and the gospel doesn't mean any lighthearted expression of silliness or making out with your girlfriend pigeonholes you as a hupocrite.

[Pterodon]

You’re not. You act so holier than thou in church but at home behind closed doors you’re the opposite. I’ve seen it, grew up in it and lived it. I’m a preachers kid.

[Cidknee]

Not everybody has this stigma.

[Pterodon]

The majority does and we were Protestant. Look at the Catholics. Even worse

[Cidknee]

Just because we're all humans doesn't make us the same. Maybe thats why I don't have a lot of folks trying to engage in conversation with me at church. I'm still the same nasty fucking asshole there as I am at fuckin home.

[Cidknee]

As a matter of fact i used to drink beer and smoke joints in front of my pastor sitting in my den in 98, 99, 00. He would tell me stories about Stevie Ray Vaughn whom he new while living in Austin.

[Pterodon]

I stand by what I originally said. If you go to church you’re a hypocrite

[Cidknee]

But you're probably right about 90% of them.

[Cidknee]

Yeah, but thats saying everybody. 100%. Improve it's not 100% since I'm not a hypocrite. I don't talk about being a favorite of the creator. I know better. He doesn't have to tell me I'm not. I find him to be much to polite to do that anyway.

[Pterodon]

Please spare me the bullshit. Churches are nothing but gossip and rumor mills

[Cidknee]

Then spare the cynicism! Everything is not cut and dried as you say.

[Carolinacowboy]

Yes do what you say mean what you do!! Lots of people don't do that!!

[strateguy632]

nope i am tolerant. of various sinners.

[strateguy632]

asker @Badtobad
how do you feel about people who are rude online to opponents, while same person also judging: "trump is bad for not talking nice" ?

[Badtobad]

I don't care about it

[jshm2]

Aka Americans & Israelis

[Badtobad]

Go away troll

[Cidknee]

Resp2ec r and trust is gone as is friendship.

[Kelly6]

@Badtobad easily yes

[jamesgoldman]

Yes it's a line I won't cross

[canamlusciouslad73]

D**N SKIPPY !!!11

[CubaPirate]

I never had any respect to start with lol

[KostasKouvalis]

Honestly, yes

[Paige2006]

Yes I do!

[audean57]

Most of the time

[wkhan_87]

Yess

[wkhan_87]

You are just a troller

[Badtobad]

You are a hypocrite

[Badtobad]

And a perv

[6942Dantheman]

yes of course