Why do some women humiliate kind, shy men and justify it as payback?

[gasman70]

Why do women justify humiliating men that are weak by saying that they are justifying it by saying that men have been doing this to women, even though they are not humiliating the men that are treating them like crap, they are humiliating the men that would actually treat them with kidness and are just weak because they aren't born with all the tools that make them confident.

[Anonymous]

She treats like a sub-bottom because you act like you prefer being on the bottom while she is on top pinning you down.

So she assumes you're into being her bitch instead of the one who wears the pants.

That is the simplest way for me to explain it to you, but of course is more to it then that, but I think you get the message.

[gasman70]

I like how you're such a tough one not showing who you are. Oh wow! so hardcore, with your hardcore bullshit. just so you know, you are absolutely wrong about you're little fantasy world. I'm not asking about my relationship I'm asking about, in general why do women do this. you're really stupid.

[Opinion Owner]

If read it I mentioned that it is an oversimplification and doesn't have to be a relationship sometimes they get tired if a man who is a sucker and will humiliate him. They think you're easy or a sub-bottom boy.

I am not writing a college paper here.

[gasman70]

they don't think this is about being sub bottom boy, its way more complex than that. you're way over simplificating this. I'm not talking about a woman in a relationship with a guy, like with me, I'm talking about women in general. I know that you think I'm talking about me with a woman that I'm in a relationship I'm in, but I'm not. I'm speaking to women that make excuses about making fun of men because men have been jerky to women. The thing is, women don't act that way to jerky men, only to nice men. I've had this conversation with women that I've NOT been in a relationship with.