Have you ever been stalked by a creepy stalker & did it ruin your life?

[TonyMetal___1986]

You can share your experience...

[Chazmatazz269]

Yes, i was stalked. It very nearly ruined my life.
I had met a woman who seemed nice at first, but the more i learned the crazier she seemed. So i stopped seeing her but she started showing up at my work telling people she was there to see her boyfriend and giving them my name. The store manager threatened to write me up for disturbances she was causing. I calmly explained that she isn’t my girlfriend and i have no control over her behavior. I told him to call the police if he wanted, but that i would sue if he tried to hold me responsible for someone else’s actions.
Fortunately he only had to warn her once that he would call the police, and she never knew where i lived. I half expected to find my vehicle with four flat tires or to learn that she had followed me home from work one day. I never saw her again though.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Thanks for sharing your story with us, i'm also glad that it ended up like this...

[darkcloud1945]

He was barely able to make it to his last birthday party. He fell four flights of stairs; he does not remember a thing except not to threaten little girls

[TonyMetal___1986]

Was he stalking your daughter?

[darkcloud1945]

Actually, 3 daughters, and he met 2 uncles. It took a year, but he will never bother anyone again after he slipped on a banana peel on the staircase, carelessly left by an unknown person on three different floors

[TonyMetal___1986]

He must have learned his lesson!

[sage2021]

I was stalked for 8 months by the man who did my taxes at H&R Block. He knew everything about me from doing my taxes.

It didn't end well for him though. The next year when I went to get my taxes done I asked where he was.

They said "Didn't you hear that he committed suicide"?

[TonyMetal___1986]

Thanks for sharing your story with us, but do you think that he was intending to hurt you & do you feel sorry for him?

[sage2021]

He had gone through a divorce and his wife left him after 24 years of marriage.

He found out real quick that women had changed since he dated his wife.

He would call me and tell me how bad and mean women were treating him.
This is happening a lot more now.
He was just a hurt man without any answers.

[TonyMetal___1986]

He wasn't a stalker after all, he just found some comfort in you and maybe wanted to become friends with you...

I feel sorry for him!

[sage2021]

@TonyMetal___1986

He came walking up to my porch while my neighbor Anne and I were outside having coffee.
He said to me that he has been driving by my house for 8 months trying to get up the nerve to ask me out.
I did go out to dinner with him, but only to see what his mental health was. I never went out with him again.
However, he must have found some comfort in me because he continued to call me and tell me his problems. I was always nice to him and would help him figure things out.
But then I met someone, Scott, and he became my boyfriend. So I told him that I have a boyfriend now, so I can't talk to him anymore.

Then he sent me a Christmas card and I thought that he was still thinking about me. It scared me. I called him and asked him to forget about me because I have a boyfriend.
But I was like his personal therapist and I just couldn't be there for him anymore. He said he was seeing a real therapist so I thought he would be okay. I guess not.😞

[DonaldDarko]

Don't know if his obsession with you made him off himself but that's awesome if it did.

[Agape93]

Stalked? Yes.
Ruined my life? No, I'd end up killing them before that.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Who was the stalker miss Agape?

[Agape93]

Two. One was a dude on here, one is my ex.

[TonyMetal___1986]

I wonder who is that dude who was on here 🤔

[Agape93]

I know exactly who he is. He's welcome to try anytime. Like I told him before, if he shows up at my house, I will kill him.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Did he threatned to hurt you?

[Agape93]

Yeap. He can threaten all he wanted, he doesn't scare me. I have 0 problem killing them and dumping the remains for the local bear and coyote population to enjoy.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Who is he?

[Agape93]

His account at the time was undermapsoftwigs

[TonyMetal___1986]

Never recall seeing this account in the past, maybe he was just a troll...

[Agape93]

Maybe, maybe not. No idea

[TonyMetal___1986]

Stay safe witch...

[Agape93]

Oh i will. I can't die anyways.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Good 🙂👍🏻

[Iron_Man]

No I have not Just crushes that happened a little bit been stalking me but I think that you have an old friend on here that likes you still

[TonyMetal___1986]

Who is that old friend? 😄

[Iron_Man]

Agrape

[TonyMetal___1986]

Ohhh haha 😂
I don't know about that, this woman is a ticking bomb, i prefer to keep my distance from her 🤣

[Iron_Man]

I’ve noticed that she’s on your page and now talking to you

[TonyMetal___1986]

Yes, sometimes she answers my questions or comments on my replies, i do the same too...

[Iron_Man]

Maybe you guys can meet in person. And get married have you ever thought about that? 😂

[TonyMetal___1986]

Hell nooo 😱
You want to lose your friend bro 🤣🤣

[Iron_Man]

Lol, I was just joking

[TonyMetal___1986]

I know 😄👍🏻

[Iron_Man]

Good

[TonyMetal___1986]

Have you ever watched this movie called "the wicker man" for Nicolas Cage, i guess that i'll end up like him, not only her, she will be with servents and that Brandi girl wearing a gertrude head... etc

After watching this movie, i'm done with women 🤣🤣

[Iron_Man]

I haven’t seen that, but that Brandi girl is really weird and she still has me blocked since June 27. I don’t know what her problem is. One argument and she loses her temper real bad and she started it anyway. and she’s always talking about drinking. She’s got a very tough character.

[TonyMetal___1986]

I still have my doubts that this Brandi with gerdy the giraffe is the same brandi with the "Randomgirl" nickname...

Yeah, she's tempered, i'm surprised that she hasn't blocked me yet 😄

That's the movie trailer...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r86OlE7rlFc

[Iron_Man]

Well, do you talk to her in private message?

[TonyMetal___1986]

To who?

[Iron_Man]

Brandi

[TonyMetal___1986]

Nope, she doesn't like me, plus we barely talk, she's sometimes rude...

[Iron_Man]

One time she started giving me quizzes grilling me she’s really weird like she was up to something. I felt like I was being set up. She was thinking that I was Jen. she started saying how many numbers are in a Social Security number and giving me five seconds to answer. Giving me a countdown saying 12345
And what day is tax day really weird girl than another time she came at me in private message that she wanted to follow me. I wouldn’t accept it. just because I was nice to Jen. Does it mean that I have another account that I’m pretending to be Jen silly girl

[Iron_Man]

Well, that’s why she didn’t block you because she’s being casual in the questions so she won’t get in trouble and you don’t talk that much with her

[TonyMetal___1986]

She's messed up in her head!

[Iron_Man]

Yes, she drinks too much to

[TonyMetal___1986]

🍷🤪

[Iron_Man]

Lol….

[Anonymous]

Only by a cyber-stalker, but my life wasn't much happy anyway.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Was he a guy or a girl?

[Opinion Owner]

Guys, a gang of hacker bastards.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Wow 🤦🏻‍♂️

[Opinion Owner]

One of the problems is, I live in a very corrupted country, so even the police won't do anything about it... they actually have a friend who is a corrupted policeman.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Where do you live, in which country?

[Opinion Owner]

Croatia :-(

[TonyMetal___1986]

I thought that croatia is a well established country, was the prime minister there this blonde woman?

[Opinion Owner]

No, she was the president... sure, she can pretend that the country is "well established", but it's not, unfortunately... typical political hypocrisy :(

[TonyMetal___1986]

☹...

[queenofcardio]

No, thankfully. I try to always be careful

[TonyMetal___1986]

Good 👍🏻

[NathanDavis]

as far as I know... nope

[TonyMetal___1986]

Good 👍🏻

[jazzy34]

Thankfully no.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Good 👍🏻