How to be more successful in life?

[Anonymous]

By not caring what others think and improve your life and make good choices? How do you get people to stop thinking bad of you? I am a very confident person and a lot of people love me the way I am what can I do to act more mature?

[ohsheeT]

You might as well just accept that no matter what there's always going to be somebody that is going to be rude is going to be boisterous is going to try to make you look bad for whatever reasons you just have to accept that and not worry about it

And understand those people are only in your life for a moment because you don't hang out with them

they don't really probably know you

And if they give you a hard time in their bullying you they're probably unhappy in their lives

You have to learn not to take everything so personal

You listen to it you hear it and then you keep the good things that you like about it and you just throw the rest away you can't please everybody
And to be honest you don't even have to try Because like I said

Let people say what they want to say and just walk away you can't let it affect you you can listen to it and take in the bed and take out the bed or listen to it and if it's true then do something about it

I have found in life when people are talking to you and they say something that you don't like and it upsets you it's usually because it's true and now you know that other people know whatever it is they know LOL but yeah most people get upset only when whatever they say is true or partly true

And if it's true and you don't want to hear no more than do something about it everything we do in life is learning experience every time somebody says something to us it's a learning experience it's for a reason you just have to figure out the reason

[fishbone77]

You are using someone else’s voice to talk bad to yourself about yourself. When you stop that you’ll mature.

[Asker]

Ok that’s a good idea!! I will be more emotionally stable and not ask too many questions and impulsive ones it’s a bad habit I need intense therapy that works

[fishbone77]

You don’t need to pay someone $150 an hour. You need to practice it.

[Billlewis]

Avoid whatever is extremely popular, because that's probably what a lot of people will be pursuing. In the 80's, when I was finishing high school, everyone wanted a degree in something computer related, yet today, most of my friends and co workers, etc are working a more lucrative job in a field that either doesn't require a degree, or doesn't require one in the field that their degree is in.

[Pterodon]

You cannot in any way make others think a certain way about you. It goes back to why do you care what others think?

[Paige2006]

Learn everything you can about the person and/or product.

[strateguy632]

by being friendly. by not being bossy.

[jamesgoldman]

Stop caring what others think

[jahaims]

Gain skills and use them or scam people

[Anonymous]

Stop caring what other people think