Is it rude not to give up your bus seat to parents with young kids?

[Jewelmyth]

I generally don't give up my seat to just anyone, but I would if they were disabled, because being disabled isn't something a person can control. But I don't give my seat to elderly people; I used to, but I never do anymore. I also don't give my seat to mothers with young children. Because yesterday, mothers with children boarded the bus, and each of them had at least three young children. Also, senior citizens can ride the bus for free, so there are elderly people who take the bus even just to buy bread. I don't have sex, but poor people have children. If they don't know how to buy a car, they shouldn't have children either.

[ohsheeT]

If they're elderly elderly I will last year I had to ride the bus for 2 days just to go someplace so I can get car parts to fix my car because I didn't want to call anybody but yeah I mean I gave up my seat because I'm only going a couple miles anyway

But it depends on like when they get in the bus and I look into their eyes their eyes will tell me everything if they hurt if they're tired if they really need to sit down I'll get up and say here you go because like I said I was just going a couple miles

But if I give up my seat it's because I seen something in their eyes and I just felt it was better off if I did for them anyway it doesn't matter for me I mean I've been through so much stuff doing something good for somebody does not bother me or not doing something good for them does not bother me

[slatyb]

Yes, you are a selfish bitch with no care for anyone other than yourself. Perhaps someday you will have difficulty standing on a moving bus.

[Jewelmyth]

I've been through this and I'm not complaining.

[EmmaMary]

I should have realised, typical Turkish attitude. 🙂‍↔️

[Jewelmyth]

Yes, that's a correct observation; if you don't have the means, don't have children, but if you do, you must provide them with good living conditions.

[Jewelmyth]

Also, if you're elderly, it wouldn't make sense to take the bus because nobody is obligated to give you their seat; they should either take a taxi or a car.

[whosnumber_1]

I would offer my seat to anyone that needed it. Standing is better for you anyway.

One day you will have a screaming kid and karma will get you.

[Jewelmyth]

I don't have children, but I rarely ride with my younger brother; I never ask anyone for a seat, I don't have the right to, karma will definitely find me, I believe that.

[whosnumber_1]

Think of it as pay it forward. An act of kindness everyday.

[Jewelmyth]

Yes, of course I do good deeds, and I do them selflessly. Because I'm that kind of person, I often encounter good things when I go out, but do you know what the problem is? People's lack of awareness. They say elderly people have free cards and they ride the bus three or four times a day for no reason; one old man even broke a record in this regard. What about penniless or irresponsible parents who have many children, and those children are often very young, and those who have many children are usually poor. Of course, I sometimes give space to mothers like that, but not always. Their lack of awareness is not my problem.

[KBird]

I probably would give up my seat, but that's because that's my morals (doesn't mean that mine are right). It just depends on what yours are. If you feel like you dont need to, then dont.

[HollyK21]

I think what’s considered as rude can be subjective, so it really comes down to your own morals. If not giving up your seat feels right then you don’t need our stamp of approval, it’s your choice.

[NathanDavis]

it's a choice, personal one too...

I always give my seat to almost everyone... for many reasons, lol

[Kvass]

A toddler can really wear their mom out. Personally if she looks so exhausted I’d give my seat, not a big deal to me

[fantasticass]

Yes, it's rude to not give your seat to an elderly person. You're probably the kind of person that doesn't hold the door open for people either. Yeah, Karma will catch up with you, and it won't be pretty. 🖕

[Jewelmyth]

Older people have free bus passes, so they sometimes ride the bus four times a day, and every time I get on the bus there are a lot of elderly people; I can't give them all my seat, and if they're not in good health, they shouldn't get on the bus.

[Jewelmyth]

Also, you slut, at least I don't have a fake account like you.

[aceleon]

i wouldn't give them seat either, they seat themselves not even their children for f sake.

[Drumlin2001]

No. Everyone has paid for their seat. That being said, I usually would offer me seat. Having young kids myself, I know it can be difficult

[loveslongnails]

I'd always give up my seat to someone who needs it more, but the last time I rode a bus was about 15 years ago.

[Laulenke]

After my car accident years ago nope I dont give up my seat the bouncing throws my balance off and makes my knees hurt

[Anonymous]

Parents and kids don't need seats over anyone else. It's their choice to get on the bus. It would be polite for a man to give up his seat for the mom but certainly not the dad or the kids.

[nudeNhorny]

I give up my seat to anyone, old, young, women, men, pregnant, disable, literally anyone.

[MrChinaski]

Wow. You have terrible manners.

[MrChinaski]

No doubt you will DM abuse at me again like last time I answered one of your questions. Yay, for me.

[Jewelmyth]

I didn't insult you, I just said you're an empty person. That's not an insult, it's a characteristic of yours. 🤭

[Jewelmyth]

You live in a small town, and I'm sure the people there know how to behave, or at least they don't have too many children.

[Jewelmyth]

But even the elderly here are disrespectful, very disrespectful, sometimes I even see them using their seats to catch the bus, I call this a difference in culture. If you were a thinking man, you would think about this.

[AngryCarl3]

Unless you're pregnant, elderly or disabled you can stand.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I dont think it's rude but as a man if you dont morally you suck

[Jewelmyth]

Yes, you're a perfect guy and I'm a terrible girl 🤪

[AviatorTom]

Yes, it's rude.

[Paige2006]

I think it is!

[_Jenny_]

Give up ⬆️ your seat

[jahaims]

Nope

[bradyhawkesjr73]

Very much so.