Why do people deny age bias against men while defending older women?

[Badtobad]

People whine that older women get judged and older men get uplifed, but when they go after a young person, the older woman gets support and encouragement while the man gets hate.

So why are people so fake and pretend old women get hate and men don't?

[Finchie40]

Because men get hated on for a lot of things and women get rewarded for a lot of things , it’s just the way society is. Men don’t receive compliments like women do , it’s very rare to hear a man being complimented on a regular basis , where most women receive compliments on a daily basis , especially if she is beautiful and has her shit together. Women are praised way more than men are praised in a lot of ways . Men are just here to work and provide and deal with all the negative shit that is thrown our way all the time , most of the negative pile is thrown towards the man not the woman , most women are here to be catered to , and she is use to being catered to and getting her way pretty much her whole life , ever since she was born. I can’t speak for every guy and girl , but girls’ definitely take lead on compliments and being catered to over men do. When a man comes into this world , he is raised to be a worker and provider , protector and leader of his household when he finds a girl that looks up to him to love him and and care for him. That’s pretty much what he was raised to do and believe , Girls’ on the other hand were raised to be rewarded , told to find herself a man that can provide for her and protect her and cater to her and romance her , and told not to break her finger nails , just look good for your man pretty much , like she was this gift sent down from above. Most of us guys’ never received that treatment whatsoever. Most guys’ have Dads’ that were strict to them telling them what’s right or wrong all the time , and being beaten and punished if he fails, his feelings don’t really matter as well , he was taught he is a wimp if he cries Girls’ on the other hand were barely ever beaten and barely ever abused for failing , if she cries? Her feelings mattered. unless she was completely out of control and had parents’ that were abusive to her , but most girls’ were raised by parents’ that treated her like she was fragile and she never does anything wrong. She barely had chores like her brothers’ did , she never got hit like her brothers’ did. Most girls’ do not experience the same shit a guy experiences in life. If a girl chooses not to work and she chooses to just look beautiful, and find herself a man to take care of her , she will be praised and complimented if she finds herself a guy that does that for her zx if a guy chooses not to work and he tries to find a girl to take care of him , he is considered a piece of shit loser. Just using that as an example. Guys’ do not receive the respect that girls’ receive. Most guys’ feelings do not matter compared to a girls’ feelings. Why most men do not express their feelings like girls’ tend to , if a guy expresses his feelings he is talked down on , why most of us guys’ bottle up our feelings so we aren’t consider a wimp. and we hold back tears just so the girl we are dating doesn’t dump us for crying. A girl can express her feelings and be praised for it all the time. Basically awwww don’t cry everything is going to be ok , but when a guy cries? He is a wimp or a pussy , told to grow a pair of balls and get over it. So to answer your question that’s why guys’ get talked down on for liking a younger girl , and girls’ get praised for liking a younger guy or hooking up with a younger guy. This society praises women over men most of the time. A girl can pretty
Much physically attack a guy , and the guy defends himself , but he is the one that gets arrested. Our court system favors females’ way more than it favors males’ I think Johnny Depp was the first male to ever win a case against a girl 😂 why there was so much hype about it. It’s very rare thing that occurs. Most guys’ have feelings and most guys’ crave love and respect , because we don’t receive respect very often like girls’ do , when a man finds a younger girl beautiful and attractive and he loves her personality and the way she carries herself he is wrong for liking her , but when an older woman finds a younger guy that she finds attractive , she is praised by her friends’ and everyone else that she landed a good looking guy . When an older guy lands a beautiful younger younger girl , he is praised by his friends’ for doing so but barely accepted by everyone else , he is told he is a pedophile , or that she is only with him for money blah blah blah. This society is filled with people that lack common sense

[Finchie40]

The main reason older guys’ like younger girls’ isn’t just her looks , it’s the respect he receives from her. Younger girls’ that like older guys’ naturally respect him , without him having to ask or beg for it , Most older women do not respect men period , especially if she experienced a bad relationship with one or more , she becomes damaged and starts looking at all guys’ like they are assholes that have no brains , never thinking she was any part of the reason he became an asshole to begin with. Older women carry to much damage and baggage that she will project onto her new man , she can find herself a great guy that loves her and cares about her listens to her , respects her , provides for her , protects her , but she will still project her negative feelings from her ex or exes on to him , making him feel like he is not good enough for her within time. A younger girl hasn’t really experienced much damage whatsoever, so she naturally is looking for love and respect as well and she likes older guys’ because guys’ her age only think with their dick , where an older guy actually listens to her and respects her , makes her feel like a human being instead of a piece of meat , why it’s a great relationship between the both of them the chemistry and connection and attraction is pretty much there right from the beginning without hesitations. Every young girl I have dated or hanged out with , was very kind and respectful towards me , it felt great having a beautiful girl make me feel that way again , especially after dealing with my crazy ex that constantly put me down and criticized me and belittled me never taking any accountability for her actions and behaviors whatsoever, I was always to blame never herself , all she did was point fingers without pointing fingers at herself first , but stupid me thought love would save the day and damn I was wrong , all she did was continue to bring misery and negativity into my life , when I was the one doing pretty much

[Finchie40]

Everything , she chose not to work , she chose to blow money like it grew on tress , buying useless shit all the time because it was on Sale , when money got tight , it was my fault never hers’ I tolerated this nonsense for a long time mainly for my children , once the kids’ got older , her true colors really shined and I realized she was just using me and didn’t really love me anymore. Once her and I separated , and I was ready to meet someone else , I met some younger girls’ that came on to me , it was a breath of fresh air by how kind and respectful these girls’ were to me. I felt like my feelings actually mattered , I felt respected and wanted. That’s all I ever wanted in a relationship with a girl so yes I will gladly date a younger girl over an older girl , because there is no hesitations , there is nothing but peace and happiness , no misery and negativity thrown my way constantly. A younger girl doesn’t hesitate to be in my arms and doesn’t hesitate to have sex with me , she is already initiating it before I walk completely on the room. So why would I want anyone else after the shit I went through with my crazy ex?

[stevenkelly]

Yeah, I get what you mean. Sometimes people just have a double standard about it. An older woman with a younger guy gets defended with “they’re both adults, mind your business,” but when it’s an older man with a younger woman, suddenly everyone has a problem with the age gap. A lot of it comes down to stereotypes about men, women, and who is supposed to have the power in a relationship. It’s not necessarily consistent or fair.

[Badtobad]

Yeah, and yet women are the ones judged for age? What kind of nonsense is this?

[Dancer102]

What about people with mild intellectual disabilities?

[Kelly6]

@badtobad Double standard,

And it's pushed into their brain by media

[exitseven]

Age discrimination is next ot impossible to prove. They know they can get away with it

[Badtobad]

What are you talking about? People, including you are discriminatory towards older men. You are so full of shit

[exitseven]

@badtobad I am an older man. I have seen it up close.

[Badtobad]

You need to clarify

[exitseven]

Once I got to be 50 when I would interview for a new job I could tell be the look on their faces that I was a lot older than they expected. The interview would be half baked and the interviewer was a young guy in his 30s.

[Shiprex]

It's socially acceptable to be a d1ck towards men

[Likes2drive]

Some

men and women do if it’s a big age gap

[Paige2006]

It's a double standard