Do you agree that most people who blame good people for being used are the same people who would blame a drunk person for getting raped?

[Steven80000]

Just because someone doesn't have boundaries doesn't mean it is not evil for anyone to use them and same for someone that is drunk, it is not right for someone to rape them.

[Anonymous]

I agree with the point you're making. Some people are so quick to question why someone was too kind, too trusting, or too vulnerable instead of holding the person who took advantage of them accountable. Having poor boundaries might make someone more vulnerable to being used, but it doesn't make them responsible for another person's decision to exploit them. And being drunk does not make someone responsible for being raped.

We can teach people to protect themselves without shifting the blame onto them for someone else's wrongdoing. A person's vulnerability is never permission to mistreat them. ❤️

[Steven80000]

People talk so much shit on good people and treat them like shit yet complain about assholes. You can't have it both ways.