You got me there. More confusing to me was when I was working in bars seeing people get drugged that rather than working solo they'd work in 2 man or more teams... Like how does that conversation come up? I've known 3 guys who violently raped before, and all of them were on steroids.
When they were out of high school/college and the sports team or frat wasn't covering them anymore, they burned out and went missing fast. People probably target relatives more because there is less fear of legal or personal retribution there. It's the same for abuse and robbery.
I'd go further to say that after the first conviction they network and support each other. I don't know about Australia, but in the US you can pull up maps of registered sex offenders. Typically rather than living alone, there's like 3-5 of them sharing the same address. Checking further into that, no one actually lives there, it's just an address to use. So there's some support network there, only question is whether it's to reintegrate into society (next to no chance for the repeaters) or more easily hide their activities.
Anyway, Texas offers to eliminate sentences for repeat offenders if they opt for castration, and that has shown a 100% effectiveness in stopping them from committing any more rapes. Some criminals report feeling relief from no longer having those urges.
Few men commit rapes, but the ones that do, do so over and over again. It's a clear problem with a clear solution. I doubt you'd ever get the answer of why, and personally I'm less interested in that then how to keep my daughters safe.
Many possible reasons and each case is probably a combimation of variations of them, but the main ones in my guess are:
1. Humiliation or dominance, which you alluded to. This is more common in prisons or war zones, though.
2. Entitlement. Many men, especially younger men, don't fully see people as other people of value equal to their own. Everyone is an object or an "NPC" and so they don't see what the problem is with using anyone who can be used, unless they think they could get beat up or whatever if they try. This goes for all genders but it just happens that women specifically can be used for sex and are generally smaller so there is less chance they could get beat up if they force it.
3. Self esteem. There is a "women would love my dick if they just gave it a chance" line of thinking. This is also commonly seen in men who go to prostitutes but don't want to pay - they want the sex to be the payment. The thing is ejaculation feels really good to men so some men don't understand how it can possibly feel anything but good to a woman.
These are all of a piece, of course. They are all variations of failing to see the humanity in others which is too often a result of failing to nurture the humanity in oneself.
Often it is wanting sex but more than that, wanting power over someone and that power is having sex whenever they want. Depending on the person, some are willing to go to any length of violence to get submission.
This is why so many rape victims will either recant and say it was consensual (or never happened) because they are terrorized. After all this person did already attack them, there is no reason to believe they will not live up to their additional threats.
Much like human trafficking with sexual slavery, they condition the victims through violence and treating them worse than people would even treat a dog. Until they comply and become conditioned.
This is why I say no sex offender or rapist can ever be rehabilitated, they should never get let out of prison or get the death sentence. They will just get better at doing it to make it harder to get caught in the future.
There are many psychological theories and scientific ones, but my best guess is not being able to control lustful and immoral urges. It simply 'feels too good' for them, otherwise, they wouldn't do it.
I like sex too, but I don't go and rape my boyfriend or the first man I see, because I have control and morality thats what stops people from giving into innate desires in my opinion, people who lack this give in to their 'ID' which is what Freud defined as "the id is the primitive and instinctual part of the mind that contains sexual and aggressive drives and hidden memories"
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It’s down to power, hate, control, sexual gratification for the majority.
For others it’s not understanding consent, that boy at the party with a drunk girl, it’s not likely about the above, he wants sex no matter and will cross the line and not follow consent.
It will also vary between genders, men do rape men, women do rape women (had a long drunken chat about that at weekend) and women do rape men. The numbers and level of violence used does vary hugely. Where the male is the rapist then it’s likely going to be a high level of violence or threats of violence, death.
It is a means to propergate their genes. Often they are undesirables and cannot attract women. Therefore, regardless of the risk, rape is the best method for them to pass on their genes. Some attractive men may rape too. However, typically the penalties makes the reward/risk of propergating their genes unfavorable. That is, unlike the undesirables, they can fuck more women if they are not killed or otherwise severely punished. That is how natural selection works.
According to the criminology 'degree' I did in lockdown
Primarily it's power related be it from having power in the act and additionally afterwards notable in spousal and paedophilic cases
Usually planned but occasionally opportunistic incidents arise mainly manifested in younger people or other petty criminals
Rape isn't about sex but a psychological rush of power over a victim who is helpless.
Most rapist or near all of them have some sort of mental illness since raping someone isn't something a healthy individual and mind can actually do to someone.
Power, entitlement, revenge and for sexual gratification.
Personally, I think it's because they really want to be skinned alive and nailed to wooden poles.
When men rape women, the data suggest that sexual satisfaction is desired. When prostitution was legalized, the reported instances of rape declined sharply:
https://journalistsresource.org/politics-and-government/legal-prostitution-reduce-rape-holland/
Uncontrollable urges, no self control, don't know how to manage their emotions, not knowing the right way to deal with a problem, they may want multiple partners, they may not care about consequences or low, they may get ultimate high and want to keep getting it or more
It's hard to find a reason where there's none. You and I think about from a "normal" point of view, a rapist doesn't, whether it's temporary or usual.
Can be many things. A power thing, a way to get something he couldn't get normally and frustrate him, or he was just swallowed in the moment and couldn't stop himself when told no.
As I understand it, the psychology behind most rapists is the person has much anger and resentment towards the opposite sex. I would agree that it's more of a psychological thing than a sexual thing.
I imagine it's highly dependent on who they rape and why. But the commonality is sexual drive. I imagine nobody would be raping anyone without that.
Animal instinct. As civilized humans we are supposed to control this, but some people lack self control. They know it’s wrong and do it anyway. You cannot teach a rapist not to rape. Teach your daughter how to shoot
It's because of his high lust and sex drive to that person, only trash men do it..
It's a power thing, but it includes a lack of respect/caring for the other person. and just taking what isn't offered freely when they don't get their way. traits of a self centered uncaring person.
I couldn't honestly answer that because I have Never Raped Anyone, You're actually Asking me a Question That I Have No Answer To Ever So Just Shoot Me, I cannot imagine why Any Man Would Rape A Woman
they have control issues and crazy most of them get away with it so there is no penalty for it if they would be sent to prison for ever then things would change
Why does anyone do anything immoral or illegal
the only legit reason (and no, im not trying to legitimize doing immoral or illegal things).
TO GET AWAY WITH IT
A psychologist once told me it was only a power thing. I'm not so sure I believe her.
A empty mind is the devils workshop
Keep yourself occupied or the devil will do it for you.
As simple as that.
Because they are sad, pathetic excuses for human beings and a waste of life
Unwilling sex is called :Rape:when people don't get sexual satisfaction by legal means, they adopt illegal means, Rape is punishable crime
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