How come, when a woman gets raped after they both have been drinking, the woman gets blamed for it while its seen as an excuse for the man?

A woman gets told ”Oh but you shouldn’t have been drinking, its your fault”

But a man is told ”Oh but he was drunk, it was a mistake he shouldn't have to suffer the concequences of his actions”

And YES YOU HAVE HEARD OF IT, im going to delete every single ”ive never heard of that” because yes you have. it happens everyday you’re too ignorant to give a shit.
How come, when a woman gets raped after they both have been drinking, the woman gets blamed for it while its seen as an excuse for the man?
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