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im sick of being the third parent. responsible, mature, severe, rigid, pathetic. i wish i was an only kid. i hate the prospect of having kids bc i never got to be one!
*continues watching barbie life in a dream house*
*continues watching barbie life in a dream house*
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As someone who was the youngest sibling, I’m sorry you dealt with that. Being “the third parent”.
The “I hate the prospect of having kids bc i never got to be one!”, hit me right in the soul I tell you.
Childhood is a sacred experience for children, that should be absolved of responsibility, being so stern serious and beacon of maturity, rigid, limited, etc. Enjoy your barbie life in dream house, also all the things that bring you closer to the childhood you never really got to fully indulge in while growing up due to the pressures and woes.
I’d say in your circumstance it is true and I won’t revoke it because that would be not validating your feelings, which you are entitled to your opinion especially you must’ve went through a lot to forge that opinion. Again I felt the words smack me, so I stand by your thoughts and opinions, feelings. I say it is true that eldest daughters don’t have a childhood and I wish to live in a world, where that is false. No child should go childhood-less.
My mom had a brother who was sick she was younger than him though, but she became like focused on what you're "supposed to" be doing and she passed it on to me. She never did therapy or anything it just became her whole personality. I'm only now actually dealing with it because I had so much other bullshit happen to me that was more visible so I processed that first and now I'm actually getting to this stuff that's underneath. I'm working on a message to send her to talk about this but a lot is going on in my life atm so I need some time.
exactly what im talking about man
Hugs :)
I have been through hell
I don't know it would be fun to be a big sister no?
im like a third parent
spoiler: im strict, boring, serious and stupid
From experience they tend to be resentful of having to be the babysitter.
Depend upon what kind of family she belongs to.
thats fair
@fonduegirl i saw some family where elder daughter is near to maid and some where elder one is wild cat.
trust me in my country maids are more common unless they are rich. thank fuck i put my foot down sooner
@fonduegirl sounds frustrated?
you bet im frustated, sweetheart
@fonduegirl followed your dear.
your English sucks by the way
@fonduegirl sadly yes, because its not my first language.
English isn't my first language either
@fonduegirl I bet you are 10 times better than me. LOL
I know I am
Thanks
@fonduegirl can i expect a follow back?
This is forum, not social media. Here, you have to prove you are interesting to get any follows
@fonduegirl OK, Thank you.
anytime xx
we're all frogs... in a well
False. My sister did.
That is very sad. If you do ever have kids, I'm sure you will give them the childhood that you did not get.
im never having them
im pampering me on the behalf of my parents
When are you gonna live off on your own?
when i win a lottery
til then im adult child bc i sure as fuck wasn't one when i was younger
That is never for most of us
To be honest, I don’t know, but my sister says so
Um no.
That isn't how true and false works.
on what planet would that be true?
False
Nope
Very false
False.