Do I know that feeling...
Adding someone on Facebook is not the same thing as asking them on a date all of a sudden. If a girl added me on Facebook after I talked to her once I would think: "heeey, that's that girl. She was nice. I'll accept". Even if I wasn't interested the first time I saw, I wouldn't find her creepy.
I think you should go for it! Especially since you started to add other people as a cover :P
There is nothing that can go wrong.
I've had this same problem too. I also talked to a girl I liked once and decided to add her. After a week, no reply. I was devastated. I was thinking "she doesn't like me, she thinks I'm a stalker etc etc." A while later I sent her a mail (school related) and asked her about it. She told me she did not spend a lot of time online and that she did not notice my invite. She gave me her MSN, which was awesome :P
You will be fine :)
Good luck ;)
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not on Fb.
almost nothing is creepy on Fb.
i mean, people have hundreds of friends on there. how can anyone seriously have hundreds of friends?
they can't, they're just strangers, random people who got added with a minimally reasonable excuse.
so if having strangers on there isn't creepy, then adding a guy you talked to at least once isn't either.
What does it hurt to wait a little longer? Facebook isn't going anywhere ;)
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This would not be creepy, but I would advise waiting a bit and talking to him more in person. You want him to learn about you from you, not a newsfeed.
Just for the record, a creepy Facebook add would be something like adding the guy you talked to for 10 minutes at an airport coffee shop while each waiting for separate flights and exchanged nothing but first names and where you were each going.
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