My girlfriend doesn't know that I know her tumblr account and has posted something scretchy

[Anonymous]

Ive know my girlfriends tumblr account for a while now but she thinks its well hidden. I've found its a good way to learn all the things she won't tell me in person. Recently she posted something about getting a phone call from a boy she's talked to in the past, and it has put her in this great mood. Looking back further in her posts it seems at one point she liked this boy but he was away for a while. Religion seems to play a very big role in her life, and this boy is of the same religion, which is not a plus for me. Do I post anonymously on her tumblr? First saying something random so she knows its not me and then finding a way to ask about the boy? I can't bring it up in person because it probably won't end well if she knows I know her page! she's a very trusting person but I'm not sure what will happen when it comes down to religion. She also didn't answer my texts (right before she posted this on her wall), and said she was taking with her mom for a while (aka on the phone).

[peace-love-couture]

What's wrong with you knowing her page?

Sounds fishy. It's sort of in the realm of not knowing her Facebook, ya know? It's not a big deal and every tumblr retard I know tries to tell everyone to follow them cause they're dumbasses who think it's a competition.

I'm normally against online accounts having such an influence on relationships, but this is something you should probably bring up...even if it won't end well. Doesn't sound like it'll end well either way to be honest

[Asker]

I don't think she has the blog in order to try and talk with guys, more or less a online personal journal. The problem with that is nothing online is personal

[Arwens-Fire]

Ewww...snooping like this will not end well.Doing this only bring up trust issues.I don't know mch about Tumbler,but I do know if my boyfriend did that,i might not want to be with him anymore.Youre lacking trust.She is with YOU so what's the problem exactly?Im not sure what to say concerning this only that it may backfire.

[DaniJ]

I'm sorry, I guess I'm not sure what the problem is with his religion... Could you explain? Is this guy dangerous? If she's happy, then why not just let her be happy with this guy? I can certainly relate to wanting to be with guys from my own faith, since we'd have more in common spiritually.

[Asker]

I personally don't know the guy, but she has mentioned him in the past saying that he kept on writing her letters when he was away, and tried to make it sounds like he was annoying. After reading some of her old posts it seems she actually enjoyed the letters. And by religion I meant that they tend to marry withing the religion.

[Hckychef]

if she's your girlfriend and she's very trusting, then trust her back and just drop it. They could have been friends in the past or whatever and they were catching up. I would def not anonymously reply because that could eventually blow up in your face. If she keeps posting about this guy, then maybe say something. But for now, just let it be. After all, she is allowed to have her own (male) friends, and at the end of the day, she's is with you, not him.

[Anonymous]

If I were you I'd really want to know how she feels about this guy. I'd do a little snooping, learn more about this guy about this guy and their past. Then I'd snoop around on her tumblr. But you need to play your cards right and keep from being caught and from her figuring out it's you. If you were sneaky enough you'd figure out this guy's name and make a "temporary' account under his name and she how she reacts with this person. Good Luck!

[naturaldisaster]

Uhm I think you should tell her the truth about you finding her tumblr account and telling her you read all her statuses, she might not talk to you like she used to but she "might" decide to trust you again. It seems that she likes this guy more than she likes you because of his religion.

[Anonymous]

She's clearly not as into you as you are into her.

I would say start to emotionally detach from her, get ready to dump her or to be dumped, and keep looking at her tumblr. Don't post on it. And start looking for that next girl friend.

Then when the time is right, dump her and walk away. You don't even have to tell her why. Just dump her and walk.