What are your thoughts about me?

[Anonymous]

I'm 17 and I don't have a job yet. I've gotten in a couple before but because they wanted an older person, or someone who could work full time, I couldn't work there. I was searching for jobs this year, but I wasn't successful and most wanted an experienced worker. I'm going to an art university, but I'm kind of afraid of failing any classes because I love art too much, and I don't know how I would handle it if I fail at it since it's my dream. I'm a virgin because I was born in a place where they looked down upon someone who has sex before married. I don't think it's horrible to have sex before marriege, but it did make me want to wait because I think sex is too special and personal to be outside of marriege. I havn't been in a relationship before.And I'm kinda really short for my age. I try to pretend that I don't feel slightly sad and hurt when others point it out that I'm really short. This one guy in uni said that he almost stepped on me because he couldn't see me :$ But I'm not a dwarf. People refer to my size as the petite since I'm both slim and short. So what are your thoughts about me? Is it negative or positive? And personality wise, I'm kind of a pioneer. I want to explore the world, the good and bad side. And though university kind of scares me, I love everything about it. And I'm kinda shy but nice. and I'm kinda both a tomboy and girlie girl tye.

[BCRanger10]

What are my thoughts about you? "She's fairly normal and seems to have a good head on her shoulders."

What kind of jobs are you looking into? You should be looking into places like grocery stores, coffee shops, restaurants, small retailers, etc. Lots of part-timers working in those places, probably a lot of other kids your age.

Good for you on waiting until marriage. Don't look at it so much as "shame, shame, shame!", but more like what you said. It's too special to give to more than one person. Read a book called Men, Women, and The Mystery of Love. Good book :-)

Finally, don't go into your classes being afraid of failure. At that point, you'll question every single thing you do. Having said that, even IF (big IF) you were to fail out of your classes, that doesn't mean you're a failure at art. Walt Disney was fired from his job at a newspaper because they didn't think he had any good ideas. Do what you love.

All the best.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, you sound like my kind of girl. Going down the list, not being able to find a job the way the job market is right now isn't something to be ashamed of, I've been searching for quite some time and haven't gotten a single callback from dozens of applications. I like girls who are artistic. I am a virgin saving myself for marriage because I think that there is nothing more special than saving yourself for your life partner and experiencing sex toghether with them the first time, and I'd ideally like to find a fellow virgin who shares my opinion about how special sex is. I've never been in a relationship either, so I'm certainly not going to judge you on that. I actually prefer girls who are short and petite. Your personality sounds great, I love girls who are shy and nice. I think a tomboy/girlie-girl mix is ideal, I like a girl who isn't afraid to play rough or get dirty, but who also like to clean up nice and look feminine.

[Anonymous1023]

You sound like a normal girl for your age. Obviously driven since your in school, and probably cute since your short, slim, and sensitive especially about sex. With the information at hand I'd say you sound like a great girl.

[Asker]

thanks :D

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You seem pretty normal. Depends on if you are nice.

[front2back]

You sound normal...

[Anonymous]

You're alright.