I am extremely jealous of my boyfriend's groupies.

[Anonymous]

I haven't expressed my concerns to him, but he is slightly famous and constantly has women commenting on his Facebook about the things they would like to do to him/how hot he is etc. There is no proof on his Facebook that we are together, either. I went through his phone once and saw some flirty texts to a girl and it completely broke my heart. I got upset and told him I was leaving, he said that he was only flirting with her because it would help his business (she does stuff with that I guess) and said it was as harmless as a waitress flirting with a customer for tips. I sort of believe him, but I can't get it out of my head. Also, I tagged him in a post of a present he bought me and he removed it from his page, claiming its because he just borrowed money from his parents and didn't want them seeing he bought me something. I also sort of believe that, but I am feeling insecure that he is trying to hide from fangirls that we are together. He displays an angry/hard persona for his music and said he doesn't want too much of his personal life on Facebook because people have made jokes about him on forums and stuff when he is seen with a girlfriend or smiling in pictures etc.

Also, he had a FB status about how girls can be pathetic/rude when guys tell them they aren't interested so I commented saying "you could have just told her you have a girlfriend haha" and the next person to comment said "why would he lie about having a girlfriend that's just as immature etc" and he told me he messaged the guy saying I was his girlfriend and the guy removed his comment (but why couldn't he have said it on the status or what if my boyfriend deleted the comment himself?) I'm wondering if these sound legitimate or like excuses so he can find a way to cheat.

[TheoryOfAvarice]

He sounds insecure, immature and he seems to like getting attention.

He might not be cheating but this sounds like a frustrating situation to be in.

Personally I wouldn't want to be with a guy who felt like he had to hide the fact that I'm his girlfriend - whether he's popular or not.

You need to think about what this "relationship" means to you, and trying talking to him about this stuff more seriously, if you haven't already.

[Asker]

How do I go about doing this? It is still fairly new (2 months) but I am completely infatuated with him and he tells me he feels the same.

[TheoryOfAvarice]

Tell him you aren't comfortable with the way you feel he's treating you. He might be doing all of this on purpose or maybe he just doesn't realize that his actions are upsetting you so much.

Either way some communication is needed here because even if the two of you are supposedly infatuated with each other, the two of you are clearly not on the same page things like what you want from your relationship.

[1inmillion]

Slightly famous and borrowing money from his parents? Hahahahahaha

[Asker]

Well he used to have a pretty bad drug problem so he's in a lot of debt lol

[1inmillion]

WINNER... not!