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Secretly moving out of my parents house to live with my fiance?

My dad was physically abusive until I was about 13 years old. He stopped because my mom threatened to leave him and after that it's just been emotional abuse ever since. My family has made me feel so low that they are a big reason why I began cutting myself and attempted suicide and when I asked for help they said no because it's a waste of money. So I've been with my boyfriend, now fiance for almost 8 years now. They absolutely hate him for no real good reason. They hate him purely because he's long distance which makes completely no sense. It's gotten to the point where they are making me choose between them and my fiance and I refuse to do that. My family has done nothing but put me down my whole life and when all my fiance has ever done is help me. He's 90% of the reason why I didn't succeed in killing myself. I am terrified to confront my family about actually moving out. I currently live in a dorm trying to get my degree but my home situation has gotten so in the way that I barely get through class without breaking down from thinking or something. So what I decided was it was best for me to withdraw from this semester and move in with my fiance, he lives about 13 hours away. He is driving down here, we are packing my dorm and I am going home to grab other things I want. However, I am going innocently during the day and just quickly grabbing the rest of my jewelry, xbox, and important things. My mom believes I'm just taking them back to school but I'm really leaving. I don't plan on telling them until I am already moved in with my fiance. I'm too scared that things will get physical to confront them in person.

Is this right? I feel like it is but somehow I still feel bad for leaving like this even though I know I shouldn't...
Secretly moving out of my parents house to live with my fiance?
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