For instance, there was a girl I saw last summer that I met off a dating site and she was pretty over the top with her sexuality. She sent me nudes before meeting me, not right off the bat but 2 months after we talked. It was still odd because I still hadn't met her. She would also discuss some of her sex stories like I was supposed to be impressed by it.
After she left me, a few months after I come across her profile on okcupid and she answered yes to the would you sleep on the first date public match question. She also posted nudes on reddit that I stumbled across too. This person obviously has no self respect and dignity but yet she would complain about how guys are assholes or just use her for sex, etc.
The thing is I'm not even one to slut shame, but it's like how do you think anyone will take you seriously when you act that way? Sure it might get guys to have sex with you, but after that they won't wanna get involved emotionally because theyll figure you'd cheat on them. Even if that's not your intention, it definitely comes off that way.
Just so I don't seem like I have double standards, it'd be like a guy sending perverted, creepy messages or always asking for sex to women and then wondering why no women wants him. I don't think it's OK for guys to act this way either.
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